as i said though there are likeable douches ala Joker from full metal jacket
and unlikeable ones like newman from jurassic park.
he came off more like newman than joker to me.
Ok I see where you're coming from but I think that's because this version of Peter had a bigger chip on his shoulder. Tobey's version didn't have that whole orphan cloud hanging over his head and Andrew's does, so I'm sure it's not the easiest thing walking around with that burden and I think that came out in his portrayal. And when he was spider man initially, he wasn't trying to be a hero, he was out strictly for vengeance, plain and simple so he was going to be a bit of a douche anyway because he doesn't have the noblest of intentions, which I appreciated seeing that side of him. If it makes you feel any better though, Marc Webb said they got a room full of comedians together for this one and they all came up with witty lines for Spider Man to say so