Facts! I guess you are older now, but why were you outside arguing? That is n-word shiit.I'm black and I'd call the cops on you too.
Damn that's crazy. Most of our neighbors are cacs and older than us. They're all too busy to be snooping like that. One of our neighbors is the mayor. He definitely doesn't have time to b.s. Everyone pretty much keeps to themselves. Every now and then we'll talk or someone will have a bbq or something inviting everyone over. Nobody bothers us. We keep our property tight and make the neighborhood look good. We have a big family with five children but everyone is on point, no dramas or issues so they love us. I couldn't deal with any nosy, snooping karens. They be happy to see me at the homeowners association meetings because I'm usually the only black face there and usually the youngest. Its different where I live in the Midwest though. A lot of these cacs have mixed children or grandchildren. They're just glad to see the next generation having their shiit together and being active in the community.I can't stand them always being in your shyt. Got a neighbor anytime I'm outside, he comes out. Just to low key snoop. I bring contractors over, he opens the garage door so he can listen to our conversations. My cousin came to visit, this dude pretends to blow leaves just so he can walk behind his car and snoop in his trunk while he was unpacking. Sees his ruck sack "oh you're in the military..."
Had some tree trimmers over, him and his wife bring out lawn chairs turn them to my yard and sit there and watch the whole time.
He'll even come over to contractors and try to get in their shyt with stuff I'm doing to MY house. He was trying to get the people who installed my sprinkler system to locate the heads where HE wanted them (which was illegally close to the property line).
Oh yeah, this is the same dude I was doing some landscaping close to my house, he gets on a ladder in the middle of his yard and pretends like he's doing something just to look over my fence
Had a old white lady come over to introduce herself, first thing out of her mouth was "blah blah we give each other house keys to watch our houses when we're out of town." I don't fukk with any of these people so you know they just wanted to snoop. Been here 15 years have not invited one of them in.
I WFH saw a lady across the street hding behind a bush with a camera with a big ass lens trying to look in my bedroom office window
Trying to put an offer in on a rural house right now for some real privacy
I bought a house in the burbs and some black folks rented the house next door a year later. First days in they parked their truck on the street with the bass blasting for like an hour at 1AM. Dealt with the woman arguing with her baby daddy (not her bf) on the street extra loud, and other nonsense. I had a talk with homie (grown man who walked around wearing a sheisty mask) and told him he aint in the hood and needed to operate like it if he didnt want the police on his doorstep and that I aint buy a house out there to deal with the hood either. They toned it down but point is trash neighbors come in all colors. The black woman on the other side of me was dope lol. All in all though Ive never had any issues with neighbors
I’m in the same situation.I can't relate. there's maybe 3 white families in my immediate area. my neighborhood is all older or middle aged black, and all homeowners, and we all communicate on groupme and will trip about any nonsense going in on the neighborhood.
I don’t like living around either tbh lol.
I’m in an apartment building right now and my white neighbors upstairs had a child who just learned how to walk and this kid is constantly running around the house and stomping his feet on the floor. Kid wakes me up damn near every morning. I want to go upstairs and clothesline the fukk out of that little b*stard.
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77 homes, 4 white owners and you slid in right next to the gay white/japanese couple. And you sitting on the patio sipping lemonade watching Yum Yum bend over to pick weeds? Something wrong with those oddsI’m in the same situation.
Our HOA has 77 homes. Maybe 4 white owners. The rest are black.
We have the numbers to all our immediate neighbors. We all look out for each other.
My neighbors to the right of me are a gay couple. A white man and Japanese man. The white guy is cool. He speaks, is friendly and is the masculine one. His husband doesn’t speak, probably doesn’t like black people nor himself, and is the sassy one.
The did some work to their yard and asked if we want to pay to trim some of our shared tree line. We had discussed a year prior about wanting to cut back some of the line. Bet. I told him I’ll be 1K towards it. He ends up getting it done. The whole project costed 20K.
I gave them the 1K. I could tell the sassy one wanted us to pay more. One day, the sassy one was outside pulling some of the plants and tossing them in a sissyfit.
Needless to say, they can be a trip. They are cool though and look out when I’m out of the country working.