Supreme HD
Superstar
Wow the coli really is about that #hoh shyt in real life. 
I don't know if i was right in telling my gf this but we got in an argument and..
- Thread starter C-Styles
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Your Girl Is Mexican She's Gonna Be Shaped Like That All Her Life, If You Don't Like It Get You A Cuban
that trainer finna be fukking her......
I'm just saying I'm in Texas and I've never seen an older Mexican lady that wasn't chunky. ..I suppose they must exsist. I've just never seen them
Rollo Goodlove
Palestine Titty
You did the right thing at the end of the day it's not always easy telling it like it is
She aint that bad, like you said. She lose a lil and she in there. Guess you may have worded it out of anger to her.
But she should know what you tryna say, regardless
JudgeJoeForilla
Richest Broke Ni99a You'll Never Meet
You really didn't read lol she told him she'd hit the gym and get in shape and ended up gaining more weight.She said she'd lose weight for you n u said make it quick or else I'll have to cheat on you.
I thought I generally had held power in my "relationships"
JudgeJoeForilla
Richest Broke Ni99a You'll Never Meet
OP I can't really hate on you. You made your expectations clear from the jump and she agreed. Now she's gaining more weight... Just goes to show she doesn't take you seriously. I don't blame you for wanting her to lose weight. She doesn't look bad now but if she continues to go down this path she will blow up even more. I don't think you should leave her but put your foot down man. If i told a girls I was with she'd need to get healthy before we can get SERIOUS and a year later she got even worse yeah I'd fukking drop her. No one wants to spend the rest of their lives with someone who is GLUTENOUS! And it's a reasonable expectation. If it where something she couldn't control like a bad leg or blindness I wouldn't bother her about it but I'll be damned if I'm over here getting all this money and she's being lazy and blowing the fukk up out of shape PORPSFULLY while I'm out here grinding being the best me I can be. It doesn't sound like you're frustreated with her weight man I understand it's her lack of effort and respect that's bothering you. Glad you let her know you mean business but don't leave her just yet. Give her some more time to get in shape. Also, you tell her how to eat and what exercises to do. Here's a word of advice DON'T let her go to the gym alone man. She may feel self cautious. Go with her or better yet get her some exercise equipment to put in her crib. It's not enough to just tell someone what to eat and how to lose weight to get them in shape you actually have to coach them... ALSO be REASONABLE. It may take her a long time to lose weight the healthy way. Of course gaming weight is unacceptable in this instance cause it shows no progress is being made but weight loss should be easy and gradual don't try and get her to loose weight the difficult way.
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I DONT THINK IT WAS A THREAT, I THINK HE WAS BEIN GENUINE..NOW, HE MIGHTA WENT ABOUT IT WRONG, BUT U GOTA BE ABLE TO LET YOUR MAN RUN THINGS..IF HE THINKS U SHOULD LOSE WEIGHT, THEN LOSE WEIGHT .. THAT IS IF U WANA KEEP HIM HAPPY .. SOME MEN WONT TELL YOU THEY WANA CHEAT, THEYLL JUS DO IT. ALL THAT "I DONT ROLL THAT WAY" IS MACHO MAN TALK, NOT FEMININE, SUBMISSIVE, OR ATTRACTIVE TO A MAN IN THE LEAST BIT. SOCIETY GOT SOME OF YALL BRAINWASHED AND ACTIN OUT YOUR ROLE. BELIEVE THAT.
C-Styles
Superstar
and again everyone, it's not like i was screaming at her and yelling about her losing weight. I said it in the most calm way possible to her (ala joe budden tone) and we didn't fight about it. She's a great woman and the reason being is that i really love her, she's perfect in every other way, no fukkery with her at all. You guys gotta realize, women from mexico are WAYYYYYYY DIFFERENT than the ones in the states. These girls are about catering to their man and being loyal. I'll keep you guys updated on how she's doing, at the end of the day, she agreed and wants to do it for herself as well.
what i did forget to point out was that every time we'd go on vacation, she'd cry that she hasn't lost weight or gained it while being on our getaways. I was getting tired of hearing it all the time so that played a part of bubbling up.
what i did forget to point out was that every time we'd go on vacation, she'd cry that she hasn't lost weight or gained it while being on our getaways. I was getting tired of hearing it all the time so that played a part of bubbling up.
She is going to leave u when she lose weight. Sorry.
I like how you was real HOH in the OP and now you telling her you ready to cheat in a lullaby.
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
thats kinda fukked up bruhsounds like you got a good chick why do you insist on hurting her like that when you know that she loves you..yall nikkas dont know the difference between a good chick and a thot
Why do you have a problem with a guy wanting his chick to lose weight?
Stop yelling. It's not that serious.
IM NOT EVEN USIN MY VOICE, LET ALONE YELLIN MY GIRL