I don't know if i was right in telling my gf this but we got in an argument and..

[BaldingSoHard]

Damn dawg you're a piece of shyt.

I mean on one hand you feel how you feel and there's nothing wrong with it. And she did sorta FORCE you to tell her while you were stoically handling it yourself, but my dude....

"Great in every other aspect" and you're letting a little gut bother you?

Sounds like the problem isn't with her but with the leadership of the relationship. Pass her to me I'll straighten the situation out real quick .

 

[Klyk21]

As a man who's last gf waa 250 and whos currrent is 135...i can honestly tell you that its not about the weight....look deeper within YOURSELF

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Why did you get with her if you didn't like her look? No one wants to be told that there so didn't or doesn't find them attractive. She seems like she has a good personality and is worth working it out together. I get what your saying about the weight loss but you should've got with someone who values working out. Obviously that's something important to you and you got with some who doesn't like to. You two have different values on weight Loss. Also cut her some slack she had two kids. No your not an a$$hole for telling her, no matter what these coli people think or tell you being lied to and mislead is not the business. But you are an a$$hole for getting with her under false pretenses.

 

[Colicat]

be a old fossil brehettes

We are the same age poindexter

 

[Super Ramon]

She just wants to be anywhere but here

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

As a man who's last gf waa 250 and whos currrent is 135...i can honestly tell you that its not about the weight....look deeper within YOURSELF

What did you learn about yourself?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

i think getting with her was dumb to begin with if the weight is an issue so we agree on that. where i'm coming from is before they got together, she said she would do ABC. they got together and she's not doing ABC. OP is pissed, she asks him what's wrong, he says, i'm ok, just leave me alone for now, i'll deal with it on my own. she insists on knowing what's on his mind, keeps nagging him. he gives her a little bit but she still insists and nags him. I don,t think dude is a jerk for feeling the way he feels. She didn't deliver on something she said she would do. If the roles were reversed, i would think the woman is right to feel frustrated if dude said he would do ABC and then didn't even try to do it. a lot of people would consider that selling the other person a dream. bait and switch. if a dude kept asking her what's wrong and got mad at the answer he got, i'd probably consider him a bytch to be honest.

as far as the cheating, i get why he feels that way i guess. i disagree with using that as leverage though cause that's like playing even more games. but if that's really how he felt and just said it cause he felt it without ulterior motives, then again, that's her fault for asking. i guess it all depends if it came from an honest perspective or if he was just trying to manipulate her. either way, saying shyt like that will fukk up your woman's mind, i agree with that. even if dude felt that, maybe what he should have done is tell her whenever he feels like not saying what he feels, respect his boundaries. if he would have told her that, the convo doesn't even get to that other level. so ultimately, i still think it's his fault. as they say, hindsight is 20/20. we live and we learn.

But she did lose some. Just not enough to make him happy. He wants a mother of 2 to look like an Instagram "model". But we basically agree. I still think he's a jerk though.

 

[wickedsm]

How old is op continually talking about "keeping it real" "I keeps it real with my girl"? She's 30 right?
To he'll if I'm a 30 year old mother with a guy talking stupid like he's with his boys on the corner

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

But she did lose some. Just not enough to make him happy. He wants a mother of 2 to look like an Instagram "model". But we basically agree. I still think he's a jerk though.

Yeah It's not like she's young and with no kids. She looks fairy good for 30 plus and two kids. But He's not an a$$hole for telling her.

 

[ultraflexed]

That's fukked up, you're a rapper w/ music videos, which makes you a known quasi celebrity () why you puttin your girl info out there like that

what if she kills herself with two remotes then what the fukk you gon do

Not to be disrespectful but you sound crazy, I'll put it to you like this, my wife has better genetics then I do, three kids later she is 5'7 140 tight waist video vixen body with no change in diet, but still over time her body has changed a slight 2-3% nothing major.

I let her know what saw and how her body has slightly changed, I started training her after work (I'm a amature bodybuilder) in the mornings as soon as we got off work, I told her love her the way she is and really doesn't need to work out all but she insisted after our talk.

8 weeks later her waist went from a 26 1/2 to 25 inches, hips went from 40 to 43inch , weight went from 140 to 145 while dropping 4% bodyfat and her body has that certain pop to it, everywhere she goes she turned heads and gets alot of attention, maybe on day I'll post a pic but if it was that important to you why didn't you help her?

 

[Disgustya Stallone]

b*tch need a nose job too

 

[Rozay Oro]

wow you're a jerk lol. You could work out with her...u know make it a fun couple thing...like jogging outside or taking long walks.

depression doesn't make girls amped to work out breh....make it fun
shop with her to get healthy food

This the only way she'll be consistent with it @C-Styles

That's fukked up, you're a rapper w/ music videos, which makes you a known quasi celebrity () why you puttin your girl info out there like that

what if she kills herself with two remotes then what the fukk you gon do

This long ass soliloquy
Here take this neg

 

[Sccit]

SHE GUNA FUCC HER TRAINER BRO


WHERE CAN I PEEP YOUR MUSIC?

 

[Athenna]

What's the point of telling her that if she doesn't lose weight you'll cheat ? You can't say that to someone you -supposedly- love.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

I was in a position like yours, then I moved to Florida and a "bad bytch" put me through the ringer, despite being 8 years my junior. You will regret any decision you make that isn't totally honest.