I don't know if i was right in telling my gf this but we got in an argument and..

[kaiOogway]

thats kinda fukked up bruh sounds like you got a good chick why do you insist on hurting her like that when you know that she loves you..yall nikkas dont know the difference between a good chick and a thot

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

i didn't tell her in a d*ck way and she has a high self esteem, we have a great relationship, that's why i can tell her anything. I'm not one of those mexicans that belittles his woman, i'm against that. All i was saying was something real which most guys won't admit, which is "I'm a human being, i'm being attracted to all these other women i see around me and i don't want to, please help me here because i don't want to be tempted". Might sound like sh*t but it's better to face the problem than be like the rest of them dudes that just go ahead and do it.

She's always been fat but all of a sudden you wanna fukk other broads. If she was so repulsive then why did you get with her in the first place? You sound controling.

You don't say shyt like that. I know you think you were keeping it real but I guarantee she will remember that shyt. She probably isn't going to lose the weight and as soon as someone who appreciates her body comes along she'll be gone.

There is a right way to do everything and that was cruel. There is no "nice" way to tell someone you are willing to cheat on them. This won't end well.

 

[C-Styles]

She's always been fat but all of a sudden you wanna fukk other broads. If she was so repulsive then why did you get with her in the first place? You sound controling.

You don't say shyt like that. I know you think you were keeping it real but I guarantee she will remember that shyt. She probably isn't going to lose the weight and as soon as someone who appreciates her body comes along she'll be gone.

There is a right way to do everything and that was cruel. There is no "nice" way to tell someone you are willing to cheat on them. This won't end well.

everyone has different ways of taking things, we really don't argue much and we always have a good time anywhere we go without drama. I've always been real and it's been working so far. Everyone is different in relationships

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

everyone has different ways of taking things, we really don't argue much and we always have a good time anywhere we go without drama. I've always been real and it's been working so far. Everyone is different in relationships

Time will tell. How long you give her until you long dikking someone else?

 

[Blackrogue]

I read until the part where he was bytching about her not losing weight. nikka met her like that but is bytching about her remaining how he met her like she owes him to get skinnier to satisfy his superficiality.

So if you together till you old. She's supposed to stay hot eternally or else?

 

[C-Styles]

Time will tell. How long you give her until you long dikking someone else?

this thread alone is helping me realize things from an outside perspective. I'll make it my mission to help her out in this as well so i can post an after pic and from then on, things will go wayy positive for her, opportunities will come to her. I more than anything want her to be thinner to give the middle finger to everyone that's ever doubted her.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

this thread alone is helping me realize things from an outside perspective. I'll make it my mission to help her out in this as well so i can post an after pic and from then on, things will go wayy positive for her, opportunities will come to her. I more than anything want her to be thinner to give the middle finger to everyone that's ever doubted her.

So you weren't serious? You just said that to cut her down? What you gonna do if she doesn't lose the weight?

 

[AquaCityBoy]

she was asking me what was wrong why was i acting real bothered all of a sudden. At first i was telling her it was because we missed the iron man movie because she was taking long in getting ready to come to my crib then she kept on asking what was wrong once i told her it's cool to not come at all. I told her i rather not say anything and that i'm just pissed off, to leave it at that. She keeps insisting so i just let it all out, tell her that her nagging and jealousy as of late has been pis*ing me off and that i get tired quick if a girl starts getting like that. I then said there's more to it but i rather not say anything because i just want to keep it to myself. She says please tell me, i know there's more. So i let it out and tell her, you haven't lost weight like you had said you would when we first met. now she's like thick chubby girl, and i saw past that cuz i saw potential in her, i knew once she lose all that, she'd be a hot girl and there'd be no problem. I told her all that potential that i've seen and you still haven't done sh*t about it when it's been a year and a half. She starts saying in a low voice "i know... you've been patient with me and i feel like i failed you". I told her "I catch myself looking at other women and i dont want to! i don't want to look at other women, have the urge to cheat just cuz i'm not getting that here, i told you i'd be patient with you but if that sh*t happens, it's going to disappoint me!" mind you she's great in every other aspect, she's a great cook, can cut my hair, isn't a gold digger, understanding etc etc. everything you'd want in a woman! But that right there is the only thing that has bothered me and i've told her time and time what she needed to do, how to eat right, what exercises to do. She started crying a bit as expected and tells me, "I don't want to lose you, i want to make every effort to keep you, i know i haven't accomplished it, it's just that i dont' have to time sometimes", i'm like that's no excuse, everyone has 30 min of their day to do something about it and you don't food prep which i've told you it's all about how you eat and how consistent you are with it. I'm tired of you coming to my crib saying "oh i haven't ate in 7 hours, lets go get something" , it's like a never ending cycle and the wrong way to go about it. I told her, i'm a real dude, and this is as real as it gets, you asked me what was bothering me and this is basically it right here. You know me as a person that never hides how he feels and this is the best way to present it to you. She's like, "i'm going to go to the gym right now and work out, i'm also going to get a trainer, i don't want to lose you, please"

to get to the point, am i right for standing up and explaining how i feel cuz it's been bottled in me and i made it clear from the rip since the first day we became official that i'll be patient with her in her weight loss or am i an a*shole for being real?? Communication is key in a relationship and i've never hid anything in regards to my daily status of how we're doing.

LEARN HOW TO fukkING USE PARAGRAPHS, YOU bytch!

 

[C-Styles]

So you weren't serious? You just said that to cut her down? What you gonna do if she doesn't lose the weight?

i said that i have temptation and urges whenever i go out and see these other nice body chicks but knowing me, i wouldn't do it but regardless as long as we are working on it, it shouldn't matter how long it takes.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

i said that i have temptation and urges whenever i go out and see these other nice body chicks but knowing me, i wouldn't do it but regardless as long as we are working on it, it shouldn't matter how long it takes.

Hey, but for real tho, fukk you.

You look like you started lifting a month ago, got a couple of beginner gains, and now you're feeling yourself and think you're too good for your girl. She deserves a better dude, who makes better rap music.

I hope your girl gets smutted out by her personal trainer, no @BmoreGorilla.

 

[Tunez]

i actually had her in one of my music videos for "Your perfect imperfections"

Wack

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

i said that i have temptation and urges whenever i go out and see these other nice body chicks but knowing me, i wouldn't do it but regardless as long as we are working on it, it shouldn't matter how long it takes.

So what if she doesn't lose the weight? You willing no wait another year and a half?

 

[C-Styles]

So what if she doesn't lose the weight? You willing no wait another year and a half?

there's no if, it's gonna happen, i tend to make things happen when i take over

 

[C-Styles]

Hey, but for real tho, fukk you.

You look like you started lifting a month ago, got a couple of beginner gains, and now you're feeling yourself and think you're too good for your girl. She deserves a better dude, who makes better rap music.

I hope your girl gets smutted out by her personal trainer, no @BmoreGorilla.

thank you for your comment sir, i appreciate your concern.

 

[DJSmooth]

nikka learn to use the space bar