the only incentive you gave her is to fukk that personal trainer she's about to hire.
i think getting with her was dumb to begin with if the weight is an issue so we agree on that. where i'm coming from is before they got together, she said she would do ABC. they got together and she's not doing ABC. OP is pissed, she asks him what's wrong, he says, i'm ok, just leave me alone for now, i'll deal with it on my own. she insists on knowing what's on his mind, keeps nagging him. he gives her a little bit but she still insists and nags him. I don,t think dude is a jerk for feeling the way he feels. She didn't deliver on something she said she would do. If the roles were reversed, i would think the woman is right to feel frustrated if dude said he would do ABC and then didn't even try to do it. a lot of people would consider that selling the other person a dream. bait and switch. if a dude kept asking her what's wrong and got mad at the answer he got, i'd probably consider him a bytch to be honest.I was with you until the second to last paragraph. He is a jerk. The dude has a "problem" with some shyt that has always been there. Like how is that fair? If this shyt was the other way around and he had a few extra pounds and he kept asking what's wrong and she said "Well you said you would lose weight and b/c you haven't I was thinking about cheating on you." This would be a WHOLE different conversation.
You'd all probably tell him to leave b/c she can't be trusted. You don't threaten people with cheating. That shyt is hurtful, builds resentment and leaves a lasting impression. She may not have said anything but that shyt probably cut deep. I doubt she'll lose the weight and b/c of that the fact that he told her he wants to cheat will always be in the back of her mind. I agree that he played himself.
Dude said if you continue to look exactly the way you did when I met you I will cheat on you. But let a woman look at another man and half of ya'll would die a million deaths and question ya stroke game.
put your woman in your music video called "perfect imperfections"then tell her she need to lose weight or you'll cheat brehs
Stop posting so many selfies on IG. Makes u look bytch
. You tryna act #HOFH with a single mom with 2 kids. 
Soon there'll be a thread about how she cheating with the personal trainer or with slime that sells knockoff fitted hats and phone cases
