"I don't date ADOS/FBA men. I DON'T want Coffee dates. I wan't courtship and MARRIAGE NOT CRUMBS."

[Toe Jay Simpson]

3e
Nah...she aight. Just average but grown up in the suburbs from immigrant parents. She may could be good wife material if she didn't stereotype black American men so much.

Nah she ugly

 

[ChatGPT-5]

I don't do coffee dates either. You pulling up to the crib for dinner and netflix (we can binge blind date) or nah?

 

[Yzak]

States she's never dated one of us, but promotes a negative dating stereotype about us anyway

 

[Amo Husserl]

You know, that was a word right there…

Some don’t quite make the full connection.

The fact that the coffee date was offered in the first place could possibly be a moment for introspection. *



*I say this as someone who has stated that I wouldn’t be offended by the offer, but haven’t been on a coffee date. We’ve discussed this here before tho; there are other creative, simple/inexpensive things folks can do. But hey if you make a connection you’ll do other fun stuff anyway

**If it’s a true blind date then a coffee/tea date should completely be an option tho


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That being said, Black women have definitely checked this chick as well. This would be like us talking shyt about Jamaican or Nigerian men. This was divisive and completely unnecessary.

I offer the coffee date because I like coffee, it's really hard to gauge somebody's intentions until you're in the moment.

If the coffee date is Starbucks.... ...check y'self.

I treat a date like a pick-up game, not like a pickup artist usin' game to get the drawls.
Spontaneous because I'm trynna see who shorty really be early. May hit the small coffee shop, the record store, get lunch, take a walk and vibe.

If she cool after the first date, we go from there.

But... I got a feelin' more women than who wanna admit rush the practical aspects of gettin' to know somebody 'cause they really tryna lock somethin' down to keep up appearances but don't wanna look vulnerable in the process of gettin' to know somebody.

That guard get so high they start blockin' good dudes out.


Read the signs.

 

[Starman]

GMB

Edit: Wait, is GMB an FBADOS thing?

 

[Weaver31]

This is another video from her

"Tyrone the tyrants" "glocktavius"

She obviously a swirler/divestor.

 

[Voice of Reason]

These tethers are such trash.


FBAs need to wake up to the destain that these folks have for us.

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

We stay voicing our frustrations towards each other on social media.

It's too much at times. Every black man isn't the same and some outchea simping women and even taking them out to expensive spots on 1st and 2nd dates.

bytch is not like us so therefore there’s no “we”

 

[Weaver31]

White people literally go on coffee (first) dates every day of the week.

She will go on one if Brad or Chad or even Jose request it.

 

[Weaver31]

bytch is not like us so therefore there’s no “we”

We all are of African decent. We need to chill with talking down on each other on social media. Other races see this shyt and it shows that people of African decent and especially American blacks are treasonous, disloyal and full of self hatred.

 

[Gizmo_Duck]

 

[GreenGhxst]

long titty grape fruit head bih would accept a coffee date from a below avg cac

girl pls

 

[richaveli83]

TLR hates hoe babble but people always posting hoe babble and the threads go several pages.

 

[King Sun]

"A large majority"?

Do you cats specify go on your socials looking for this or is this stuff being recommended to you

 

[richaveli83]

Do you cats specify go on your socials looking for this or is this stuff being recommended to you

I'm pretty sure folks follow these accounts or follow people who interact with these accounts. That's the way these social media algorithms work.