Elle Driver
Veteran
fukk does marriage have to do with being pro black? I'm failing to see the picture here.
I can't support anyone on here who is "pro-black community" but anti-marriage
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Detroit Wave
Veteran
why would i get a vasectomy if i was celibate? Yall morons trollin too early todaydo your actions say you don't want kids?
Are you practicing celibacy?
Have you got a vasectomy?
Do you have unprotected sex?
Have you been honest with your significant other in such an important life decision?
Something tells me you lackin in 3 out of 4
the next guy
Superstar
agreed.What about nikkas who dont want kids?
do your actions say you don't want kids?
Are you practicing celibacy?
Have you got a vasectomy?
Do you have unprotected sex?
Have you been honest with your significant other in such an important life decision?
Something tells me you lackin in 3 out of 4
Stop making these crappy posts None of that has to do with not wanting kids? Have you have heard of a condom?
Thank You. Maybe OP should have kids. and so should GoldCoast.
TheGoldCoast
Banned
c00ns 
cant really defend why a business contract like marriage is necessary to build a strong family, so.. c00nSc00ns
The family unit is the foundation for any community. Period.
After what just happened to me just now. I can understand why dudes are anti marriage. I don't agree with all the reasons but that fear of false loyalty is strong
Turk
Young, Gifted, and Black
do your actions say you don't want kids?
Are you practicing celibacy?
Have you got a vasectomy?
Do you have unprotected sex?
Have you been honest with your significant other in such an important life decision?
Something tells me you lackin in 3 out of 4
No....but I'm a virgin
No
No
I don't have one
Elle Driver
Veteran
Im still failing to see the picture. Family units dont need marriage imo. Then again, I am only talking about my own experience.
the next guy
Superstar
NEG!c00ns
I deal in the real world, not an idealized one.
Uh yeah....dont lump yourself in with the narcissistic and severely maladjusted crew around here. You're way better than that.
In all phases of life we experience disappointment, but we cant allow ourselves to define our lives through those valleys and develop caustic attitudes because of them. Thats self defeating. Love and love lost is inherently painful, and we all respond to the hurt by going through our lil fukk-a-bish sht to varying degrees, but once again that attitude cant define you as a man. I have no clue what the story is behind your disillusionment, but whatever the case is we have to look at negativity as an opportunity to grow spiritually and mentally, and not regress into a blob of nothingness. I was there last year, and that period seems like it was a million miles away now. Good luck.
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thanks friend. This legit made me back up from going that route with my feelings. shyt is just crazy man but I'm happy you made sense of it all.
I have all the confidence in the world that you will emerge from this even that much better than before. Thats what great men do. Enjoy the journey, and respect even the lows. Perhaps even moreso. You are being trained and tested and for a reason.
You right breh. shyt just hurts man...its a thread on it if u wanna see the full story