I can't support anyone on here who is "pro-black community" but anti-marriage
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TheGoldCoast
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Pretty much. These guys hate single moms but fully plan on creating multiple. 
Oh and these are all the non thug types on here that black women supposedly crave. What about all the white women who are single moms to black kids?
Keep it real a lot of nikkas just damaged.
Oh and these are all the non thug types on here that black women supposedly crave. What about all the white women who are single moms to black kids?
Keep it real a lot of nikkas just damaged.
marriage is a business contract, one that usually leaves men at the short end of the stick. until laws change, more men will opt out of marriage.are you rich now? do you have some grand estate that you're trying to protect her from getting half of?
what imaginary treasure are you protecting against the big, bad court system besides $1,016,385 in coli cash
you're more worried about your pockets than your seed, the honor of your woman or the effects this has on your community. our marriage statistics makes us look promiscuous and irresponsible to outsiders AND ourselves. knowing that you'll be in the same place in life 60 years down the road stunts growth. not only does this remove any type of motivation to be a good enough partner to have a lasting relationship, but it encourages women to seek a relationship that leads to marriage from other groups.
the funny thing is i know you're one of the guys to constantly call "bedwench" but it sure seems like you're wiling to treat bw like bedwenches yourself. they're good enough to sleep with, clean for you, cook for you and have a herd of your kids, but for marriage? nah.
i also disagree that marriage motivates women to be good partners, seems to do the exact opposite. women gain weight, cheat, become hostile, withhold sex -- it's not worth it.
and if it encourages BW to seek relationships with other groups, so be it. they'll just have to learn the hardway.
Pretty much. These guys hate single moms but fully plan on creating multiple.
Oh and these are all the non thug types on here that black women supposedly crave. What about all the white women who are single moms to black kids?
Keep it real a lot of nikkas just damaged.
a single mother is just that, a SINGLE, MOTHER.
getting married just to get married is why divorce rates are so high. and no one claims "non thug types" who post on online forums are the men black women crave for
#borndefeated
why do you CHOOSE to live this way
why do you CHOOSE to live this way
TheGoldCoast
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are you rich now? do you have some grand estate that you're trying to protect her from getting half of?
what imaginary treasure are you protecting against the big, bad court system besides $1,016,385 in coli cash
you're more worried about your pockets than your seed, the honor of your woman or the effects this has on your community. our marriage statistics makes us look promiscuous and irresponsible to outsiders AND ourselves. knowing that you'll be in the same place in life 60 years down the road stunts growth. not only does this remove any type of motivation to be a good enough partner to have a lasting relationship, but it encourages women to seek a relationship that leads to marriage from other groups.
the funny thing is i know you're one of the guys to constantly call "bedwench" but it sure seems like you're wiling to treat bw like bedwenches yourself. they're good enough to sleep with, clean for you, cook for you and have a herd of your kids, but for marriage? nah.
Can't even fault sistas out here at 30 who are serious about marriage
..Of course I don't like it, but at the same time I understand why ya'll starting to date white dudes more. 
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I would word the title differently and change anti marriage into anti family...The marriage is just a binding legal document, whats more important is that you love and live with the women/men you pro-create with...That's a start... If you want to get married later than that's great..But at least present the dynamic and support system
Do you have children or plan on having them?
TheGoldCoast
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a single mother is just that, a SINGLE, MOTHER.
getting married just to get married is why divorce rates are so high. and no one claims "non thug types" who post on online forums are the men black women crave for
I've never seen "getting married just to get married" as a valid reason into why divorce rates are so high. Please cite some references.
And I know you aren't sitting here equating a women with children who's never been married versus a women who is divorced with children.
no, i dont have children. to be honest, i dont even like kids.
and i cant place a seed on this earth to a group that has no structure or community.
50 percent of marriages end, probably another 35 percent are filled with infidelity, emotional and physical abuse, Staying together for the kids , cheaper to keep her, sexless marriages.
I've never seen "getting married just to get married" as a valid reason into why divorce rates are so high. Please cite some references.
stop it, men agree to marriage because their gfs have been fantasizing about their wedding day since they were 8 yrs old. most couples divorce because of financial reasons and infidelity, either way, the shyt didn't work out.
And I know you aren't sitting here equating a women with children who's never been married versus a women who is divorced with children.
a woman with children and no man, is no different than a woman who is divorced with kids. both are single parents by definition.
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no, i dont have children. to be honest, i dont even like kids.
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Then I don't think this thread is directed towards you...Nothing wrong with being a life long bachelor if you really ARE a single man with zero responsibilities.. You shouldn't be pressured into marriage, because quite frankly there is no reason..
This is more about the men/women that have families, but aren't making any real attempt to make them whole and give them structure and support...
TheGoldCoast
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fair enough. that still doesn't explain why you need marriage to be pro-black. buy ya lady a ring and be a commited partner. why do you need that business contract.
Families are at the heart of a community. If you plan on having a family with a woman, you should marry her.
For me it goes hand in hand with being "pro-black". Need to raise real children that know their worth and to set a good example.
For me it goes hand in hand with being "pro-black". Need to raise real children that know their worth and to set a good example.