how would u feel if u found out ur gf smashed tha homie????

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my homeboy came thru and said he found out that his ol lady fukked one of our homeboys in the past...like over a year ago

he said he was in her phone doing something, and seen our other homeboys name in her contacts...he asked her why his number was there and she said they used to "text"....eventually said they fukked...my boy called the homie and he said he told him the same story she told him

now this homie is one from middle/high school....not somebody we see or hear from everyday, but its somebody that we fukk with heavy...i explained to my boy that there was no foul play on any part, we jus live in a small city and ppl like to fukk, so chances are the person ur with has fukked somebody close to u...and she is younger than us so she wouldnt kno how close they were, or even that they knew each other

he sayin he might wanna break up with her because he doesnt kno if he can deal with the fact that a breh fukked his ol lady....and they jus started talkin about moving in together n shyt

how would u deal with a situation like dis???


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Ashley Banks

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not just someone. his homie. I personally would expect my girl to tell me she was with a dude if she knew i'm cool with the dude. I wouldn't think i have to ask her for her to disclose that info. If she doesn't, i would kind of classify it as a lie by omission. You're acting as if i'm saying she should give me a list of everyone she's been with. that's not what i'm saying. but if i'm cool with a dude i'd expect my chick not to wait til i ask her about it. and if that makes me "nuts" then so be it. like i give a fukk.

she didn't know they knew eachother before he said they were hanging out. i'm not faulting her for that. but when she found out she tried to hide it. when questioned she said "we used to text". after that it's "we slept together". she was definitely trying to sweep that shyt under the rug and this is why dude has a funny feeling about the whole situation now. it's because there was shadiness in the intent.

I still think you're being ridiculous. I don't think she was being shady by not telling her bf about a guy she fukked (especially if she wasn't sure he knew him and if he didn't ask her if she fukked him). He didn't even ask her if she knew him but she's supposed to tell him she fukked him. :dead:

If my bf slept with someone I knew BEFORE we got together, I'm not gonna expect him to tell me just because I said I hung out with someone that had the same name. :comeon: like I don't even understand how that's being shady. You're acting like he showed her a picture of the guy and she didn't say anything. :deadrose:

She said they texted and they fukked, how is that trying to sweep it under the rug, she said they fukked. :confused:

I'm really not understanding how this is a problem, she told him what happened when he asked...yall are ridiculous.

but this is the coli so I don't know why I'm expecting yall (not all of you guys) to think like normal people. :why:
 

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lmao thats lame as shyt...me and my homies take pride in being eskimo brothers nh
 

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I still think you're being ridiculous. I don't think she was being shady by not telling her bf about a guy she fukked (especially if she wasn't sure he knew him and if he didn't ask her if she fukked him). He didn't even ask her if she knew him but she's supposed to tell him she fukked him. :dead:

If my bf slept with someone I knew BEFORE we got together, I'm not gonna expect him to tell me just because I said I hung out with someone that had the same name. :comeon: like I don't even understand how that's being shady. You're acting like he showed her a picture of the guy and she didn't say anything. :deadrose:

She said they texted and they fukked, how is that trying to sweep it under the rug, she said they fukked. :confused:

I'm really not understanding how this is a problem, she told him what happened when he asked...yall are ridiculous.

but this is the coli so I don't know why I'm expecting yall to think like normal people. :why:
for the third time, according to the OP, she most likely knew it was the same dude because the dude has a unique name. why would he have asked her if they fukked when he doesn't even know his girl knows the guy with the unique name.

he asked her why his number was there and she said they used to "text"....eventually said they fukked...

as far as your boyfriend, do what you want with him and if he's cool with that :yeshrug:
 

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I still think you're being ridiculous. I don't think she was being shady by not telling her bf about a guy she fukked (especially if she wasn't sure he knew him and if he didn't ask her if she fukked him). He didn't even ask her if she knew him but she's supposed to tell him she fukked him. :dead:

If my bf slept with someone I knew BEFORE we got together, I'm not gonna expect him to tell me just because I said I hung out with someone that had the same name. :comeon: like I don't even understand how that's being shady. You're acting like he showed her a picture of the guy and she didn't say anything. :deadrose:

She said they texted and they fukked, how is that trying to sweep it under the rug, she said they fukked. :confused:

I'm really not understanding how this is a problem, she told him what happened when he asked...yall are ridiculous.

but this is the coli so I don't know why I'm expecting yall (not all of you guys) to think like normal people. :why:



no she lied. first they just texted THEN after more questions they fukked. is that a good look?
 

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I still think you're being ridiculous. I don't think she was being shady by not telling her bf about a guy she fukked (especially if she wasn't sure he knew him and if he didn't ask her if she fukked him). He didn't even ask her if she knew him but she's supposed to tell him she fukked him. :dead:

If my bf slept with someone I knew BEFORE we got together, I'm not gonna expect him to tell me just because I said I hung out with someone that had the same name. :comeon: like I don't even understand how that's being shady. You're acting like he showed her a picture of the guy and she didn't say anything. :deadrose:

She said they texted and they fukked, how is that trying to sweep it under the rug, she said they fukked. :confused:

I'm really not understanding how this is a problem, she told him what happened when he asked...yall are ridiculous.

but this is the coli so I don't know why I'm expecting yall (not all of you guys) to think like normal people. :why:

I agree with him and I think the whole point is if she figured out she had sex with one of his friends then it is something that should be disclosed. Having him find out after finding the name in your phone and then having to grill you to get the details just seems shady as hell. This isn't just anybody from her past....this is one of his friends and it should def be decision he makes on if he wants to continue the relationship or not.

You say you don't expect the coli to think like normal people....normal people don't pick up on signs like this and is the very reason why men end up with tricky ladies.
 

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no she lied. first they just texted THEN after more questions they fukked. is that a good look?
well technically, he didn't ask specifically if they fukked so it's all good. also, you should probably take a list of your friends and family members to your girl and ask her one by one if she fukked. Now you may think you're cool now but wait a minute! since you didn't specifically ask if she gave them head, you gotta go through the list again since it's technically not fukking.

You should probably also ask her if she ever did porn or sold p*ssy.
 
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Dude is still in the phone so he's a option
for her.
your boy is sharing and caring.
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