How the fukk do y’all have fun and talk to women at bars and clubs?

King

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If you haven't naturally got a set level of social skills you will find it difficult.

If that's the case you have to be prepared to take a certain amount of ls and learn to enjoy that as part of the process. Your desperation is probably written all over you and your trying too hard.


I'm handsome gang (not good looking gang) so essentially I just be me and life works itself out.


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Practice breh. I’ve had women come up to me in clubs to say they love my dancing. I used to suck and be shy in my twenties. Now I don't GAF, I know my dancing is fire and so do the chicks.

But most of the time clubs (pre covid) were so full most people are just swaying to the beat.

Seriously if your aura is fun women will start dancing near you. Then it’s less weird if you lean in to talk to them.
You got videos or something you practice from?

I’ve never been a dancing type of dude - can’t even picture myself dancing to Drake or some shyt like that
 

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You introduce yourself to a woman, compliment her, asking what she's drinking and buy yourself one for you and one for her then ask her about herself.

That's literally it.

And if you dont drink just order a Cranberry juice or a soda water with lime. No one will know the difference.

Also lounges are better than clubs for real conversation.
That shyt would work if I could actually get their attention. I swear it’s like they operating on another wavelength.
 
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This shyt is hard asf :dahell:

Especially since I don’t drink too. Gotta wait in a long ass line, pay cover, and be surrounded by drunk mfers and loud ass music. People bumping into you and shyt, no personal space.

Women aren’t even trying to talk, they just wanna dance and shyt. Automatic rejections cause they on autopilot mode. If you do catch one, you even talk to em properly cause the music so fukkin loud :what:

Got ya boy standing in the corner like
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The things we do for a shot at some p*ssy, might have to dip out this bytch shyt lame. Any tips brehs?:francis:
Rather than trying to talk flat out while music is blasting, just start dancing with a chick, if the vibe is there, then do another dance with shorty then just pull out your phone and ask for the number. It’s too loud in the club to talk. Keep it moving to the next shorty. It’s not hard at all.
 
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You're officially Reggie 2.0 on this forum at this rate.

Multiple threads a day, camping on thecoli all day
Strong hater energy towards other blacks, no smoke for whitey.
Unemployed with no effort shown to change situation.
Living off of parents.

Might be time to switch my name
 

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You're officially Reggie 2.0 on this forum at this rate.

Multiple threads a day, camping on thecoli all day
Strong hater energy towards other blacks, no smoke for whitey.
Unemployed with no effort shown to change situation.
Living off of parents.
Quote me where I don’t have smoke for whitey. It’s always been fukk a CAC.

And I only have smoke for c00ns and CACS moonlighting such as yourself, punk bytch. Don’t speak on my name nikka.
 
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