How much should the man pay?

[mbewane]

Some women are hilarious with their double standards when they talk about "equality".

We equals, we paying the same. Ain't much to discuss.

 

[Wild self]

You can almost bet the "cleaning" entails light vacuuming once a week and she ain't cleaning the bathroom for damn sure without giving you some grief for it/ being resentful

Then consider the fact that she's gonna want to eat out multiple times a week, add $1000 to $1500 a month to the $900 rent you already paying, so the money you save by having her "cook" goes out the window because you're buying this bytch lobsters and steaks at Spago

Then add the fact that you gotta pay for this bytch's entertainment since she at home all day doing jack shyt, and WILL let another dude show her attention if you don't find some recreational activity for her i.e. shopping sprees on your credit card

The only good reason to pay for everything is that you get complete autonomy and don't need to put up with any static or else that bytch going straight to the Phantom Zone

Married brehs are fukked for life tho

#GMB takes no losses. Ever.

 

[UserNameless]

When you're really married/engaged/committed life partners, everything goes into one pot.

You know... a joint expense account in addition to a savings account, and various other accounts and investment holdings. this "how much should such and such pay" is half a$$ed, lil' nicca shyt.











But it's a start, tho.

 

[Brandsdale]

Half

 

[Gold]

Look at ya'll wracking your brains trying to figure out the best scenario

This isn't even a conversation if you're moving in with someone you intend to marry

 

[Action Mike]

 you brehs stay arguing with "single" females about relationship advice.

Get career advice from the unemployed brehs

Of course they will choose the option they would benefit them

just check your bytch in real life and not these Internet avatars

 

[Diyhai]

Its ironic because to me threads like this reveal that men want their cake and eat it too.

If you are the same posters who constantly complain about feminism and beat your chest about needing a woman to submit, the only person being hypocritical here is you if you are wanting to split the bills 50/50. Please get it out of your head that just because you have a penis you are the head/leader/worthy of submission. It sounds good for your ego, but 99% of women whether they say it or not (or at least the ones you'd want who know their worth) aren't going to go for it. You have to actually look at it from the woman's perspective. Exactly what is she getting out of submitting to you and letting you lead if she's going to continue to have the same and more responsibilities as before she met you?

You want to be the boss, you pay the cost. Its not my ideal situation, but there's nothing wrong with it and at least its fair. But if you are fine with equality and don't hate feminism/women's empowerment, 50/50 makes sense.

Chicks out here making business decisions #GMB
I see submission is all about money

 

[Splash]

I really appriciate my girl after reading through all this bullshyt

 

[Wild self]

I really appriciate my girl after reading through all this bullshyt

And they wonder why their wombs stay barren

 

[Juicy Ace]

Bc he is the male and is supposed to and makes more money than me. Splitting is for roommates.

He pays for all or majority of everything and I'll cook and clean.

Cooking and cleaning doesn't sound like 50% of the work here

 

[Mr swag]

He should pay all of the rent. I would pay the "everything else".




Your gf/wife isn't your roomate, y'all are a team.

Half and half is for roommates.

How are we a team when the guy is payin MORE than half?

I'm not your daddy. We don't have a joint bank account smh

 

[Diondon]

When you're really married/engaged/committed life partners, everything goes into one pot.

You know... a joint expense account in addition to a savings account, and various other accounts and investment holdings. this "how much should such and such pay" is half a$$ed, lil' nicca shyt.











But it's a start, tho.

Exactly, in a marriage aint no "my money" "your money". nikka, it's "our" money
Everything gets pooled together and who writes the rent/mortgage check or who pays the bills online is irrelevant.
Until that point tho

 

[wickedsm]

Just for s&g can I get an age / relationship status for the posters in this thread?

 

[Juicy Ace]

Split it 50/50 if you're living with a girlfriend or pay all of it/majority if you're living with a housewive with kids

 

[T.he I.nformant]

He should pay all of the rent. I would pay the "everything else".




Your gf/wife isn't your roomate, y'all are a team.

Half and half is for roommates.

The logic here is confounding

We're a team but you're expecting me to be LBJ while you get to be James Jones

Why can't you at least be Kyree and pay rent one month and I pay the next?