How much should the man pay?

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Your a team, but you get the ball as much as I do while scoring less?

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*You're but it should actually be *We're

If we have small children. You work and pay majority of the bills. I stay home and take care of the house, cook, clean, teach/take care of the children while you're at work, then when you get home, you won't have to worry about doing anything and we can all go out and spend time together.
 

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Everytime ive done it it was 50/50


But id change it up if i was married
 

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bytches love tryna threaten nikkas with that "ill pay half but i aint cookin,submittin or cleanin:damn:"

You just told the world you a dirty bytch,and probaly cant cook,or dont cook.

Go ahead and give me half that rent bytch:pachaha:

Ill eat out and hire a maid with the extra money,im not doing that out of spite like you tried to do with your "threat",but just because id rathher pay someone who knows what they doing:sas1:
 
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Its ironic because to me threads like this reveal that men want their cake and eat it too.

If you are the same posters who constantly complain about feminism and beat your chest about needing a woman to submit, the only person being hypocritical here is you if you are wanting to split the bills 50/50. Please get it out of your head that just because you have a penis you are the head/leader/worthy of submission. It sounds good for your ego, but 99% of women whether they say it or not (or at least the ones you'd want who know their worth) aren't going to go for it. You have to actually look at it from the woman's perspective. Exactly what is she getting out of submitting to you and letting you lead if she's going to continue to have the same and more responsibilities as before she met you?

You want to be the boss, you pay the cost. Its not my ideal situation, but there's nothing wrong with it and at least its fair. But if you are fine with equality and don't hate feminism/women's empowerment, 50/50 makes sense.
You wrote all of this for nothing

Most brehs agree that 50/50 makes the most sense

Feminists trying to argue for no reason yet again :mjlol:
 

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Its ironic because to me threads like this reveal that men want their cake and eat it too.

If you are the same posters who constantly complain about feminism and beat your chest about needing a woman to submit, the only person being hypocritical here is you if you are wanting to split the bills 50/50. Please get it out of your head that just because you have a penis you are the head/leader/worthy of submission. It sounds good for your ego, but 99% of women whether they say it or not (or at least the ones you'd want who know their worth) aren't going to go for it. You have to actually look at it from the woman's perspective. Exactly what is she getting out of submitting to you and letting you lead if she's going to continue to have the same and more responsibilities as before she met you?

You want to be the boss, you pay the cost. Its not my ideal situation, but there's nothing wrong with it and at least its fair. But if you are fine with equality and don't hate feminism/women's empowerment, 50/50 makes sense.
2 working adults should be able to split the bills so the can achieve their goals(investments,trips) if im living or married that's my partner we make decisions together
 

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Half and half

I know how to clean, fold my clothes, and I'm a decent cook and I like cooking for others, those skills should never be leverage against paying bills, especially in this day and age.

These females really be slick, trying to dodge any heavy responsibility :pachaha:

That's why most of them aint married, or even in a serious relationship with their man.
 

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bytches love tryna threaten nikkas with that "ill pay half but i aint cookin,submittin or cleanin:damn:"

You just told the world you a dirty bytch,and probaly cant cook,or dont cook.

Go ahead and give me half that rent bytch:pachaha:

Ill eat out and hire a maid with the extra money,im not doing that out of spite like you tried to do with your "threat",but just because id rathher pay someone who knows what they doing:sas1:

Musty azz broads. :mjlol:

"I ain't cooking for you" like that stopped me from putting my foot down before.
 

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You can almost bet the "cleaning" entails light vacuuming once a week and she ain't cleaning the bathroom for damn sure without giving you some grief for it/ being resentful

Then consider the fact that she's gonna want to eat out multiple times a week, add $1000 to $1500 a month to the $900 rent you already paying, so the money you save by having her "cook" goes out the window because you're buying this bytch lobsters and steaks at Spago

Then add the fact that you gotta pay for this bytch's entertainment since she at home all day doing jack shyt, and WILL let another dude show her attention if you don't find some recreational activity for her i.e. shopping sprees on your credit card :francis:

The only good reason to pay for everything is that you get complete autonomy and don't need to put up with any static or else that bytch going straight to the Phantom Zone

Married brehs are fukked for life tho :manny:
 
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