How Do Yall Act Towards Men You Perceive As Corny/Awkward/Introvert?

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My honest answer if you mean dating them I don't treat them any different. If anything it makes me have to come out my shell more because in the beginning you have bring them out. But other than that nothing I'm an introvert too so I understand.
 
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you have to lead them in conversation, and keep reasuring them so they feel secure. weird pauses in conversation, just all around timid/"scary" behavior, wondering if he's gay, it can be exhausting. but i know they cant help it, so ill work with them if theyre cute. or are you talking just generally in social settings?
 

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you have to lead them in conversation, and keep reasuring them so they feel secure. weird pauses in conversation, just all around timid/"scary" behavior, wondering if he's gay, it can be exhausting. but i know they cant help it, so ill work with them if theyre cute. or are you talking just generally in social settings?

Both.
 

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The three are not mutually exclusive :beli:
Its possible to be introverted/needing personal space without being awkward or socially inept. Or to be awkward, but only in certain situations (meeting new people, ect...)
Personally, I was raised to treat everyone with a modicum of respect, so Im not going around kicking them in the nuts just for existing or anything.
With introverted guys, I get along with them generally, mostly because I get them, and have a similar temperament myself. However I am a bit standoffish as I don't see myself having a relationship with someone too similar to myself. I've found that men that have more extroverted personalities compliments mines better, draws me out of my shell, and pushes me to do new things. Which I appreciate.

There's levels to being awkward. Someone who gets a little nervous when meeting new people, or hates public speaking, or talking on the phone, ect. I find it kind of cute in all honestly. But if someone is severely awkward, I find them to be mostly exhausting.

Being corny is subjective.
 

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you have to lead them in conversation, and keep reasuring them so they feel secure. weird pauses in conversation, just all around timid/"scary" behavior, wondering if he's gay, it can be exhausting. but i know they cant help it, so ill work with them if theyre cute. or are you talking just generally in social settings?

I always wondered y women think awkward men may be gay?

Wouldn't it be the opposite bc gay men have no attraction to u and can speak easy?
 

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I always wondered y women think awkward men may be gay?

Wouldn't it be the opposite bc gay men have no attraction to u and can speak easy?
its more that they act totally contrary to what i expect a heterosexual man thats attracted to me to do. like ending a second date by asking for a hug, just very hesitant on initiating even light sexual contact
 
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I'm an awkward introvert, so if we both are, we might be in trouble! Now if he's just introverted, but not awkward, then it'll probably work fine.

Although I have noticed that being around quieter people will often trigger my more extroverted and dominating side.
 

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