Before coming here, I'd recommend you take the time to write down to the last detail how and what you genuinely feel, think, and observe about women and follow that rabbit hole wherever it leads. Sometimes, you can develop a healthier perspective just laying out your thoughts for you to see from a third-person standpoint.
Having resentment towards something means that you're feeling annoyed by it or you feel something about it is unfair. If you're not in a relationship, you have no reason to feel like any situation with a woman is unfair because they owe you nothing. Annoyance is another issue.