How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

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I'm starting to resent them and I really don't want to.

I understand that it's completely unhealthy and I don't want it to get any worse than it already is.

Well first of all you gotta realize they're different. That doesn't mean they're unequal.

You're probably putting male values on them. Want them to be funny, thought provoking, lead conversations? Not happening

Second, stop giving a fukk what external forces are doing if you can't control them. Resent them all you want, but they won't change. So you better figure out how YOU can work on yourself to achieve your goals with them.
 

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Well first of all you gotta realize they're different. That doesn't mean they're unequal.

You're probably putting male values on them. Want them to be funny, thought provoking, lead conversations? Not happening

Second, stop giving a fukk what external forces are doing if you can't control them. Resent them all you want, but they won't change. So you better figure out how YOU can work on yourself to achieve your goals with them.
Real shyt, men should be taught this at a young age.
 
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Well first of all you gotta realize they're different. That doesn't mean they're unequal.

You're probably putting male values on them. Want them to be funny, thought provoking, lead conversations? Not happening

Second, stop giving a fukk what external forces are doing if you can't control them. Resent them all you want, but they won't change. So you better figure out how YOU can work on yourself to achieve your goals with them.
The average female is definitely not equal to the avg man. No need to lie
 
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Before coming here, I'd recommend you take the time to write down to the last detail how and what you genuinely feel, think, and observe about women and follow that rabbit hole wherever it leads. Sometimes, you can develop a healthier perspective just laying out your thoughts for you to see from a third-person standpoint.

Having resentment towards something means that you're feeling annoyed by it or you feel something about it is unfair. If you're not in a relationship, you have no reason to feel like any situation with a woman is unfair because they owe you nothing. Annoyance is another issue.
 

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If you want to achieve more and have a better life, you need to become more. You become more by using bad circumstances for good results. Oh and print this out (see spoiler) or better yet draw it on the floor beneath your bed. I'll tell you what to with it later.

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He doesn't even have male friends. He doesn't have a woman problem, he has a social problem. A lot of guys who talk about hating women, rarely have a good social circle so you realize it's the not women that are the issue, it's the guy.
Naw. Accepting women's true nature is no easy pill to swallow.
 

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Naw. Accepting women's true nature is no easy pill to swallow.
OP has admitted he has no friends and can’t open up to people. I have no idea why’d he think a woman would want to date a guy like that. You guys can’t baby a man almost 30 years old for his shortcomings.
 
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