I'm starting to resent them and I really don't want to.
I understand that it's completely unhealthy and I don't want it to get any worse than it already is.
The only possible way you could have resentment towards women would be because you have some sort of expectation of them. And when they don't meet that expectation you grow angry towards them. Stop trying to control something you have no control over. Stop trying to mold people around your silly expectations and let go. Only then will you accept women (people in general) for what they are.