How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

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So what you saying, because one woman fukked you over you hate all women. That sounds very rational!

Also, pick a better woman and it won't happen. All this entitled bullshyt sounds like white women problems.
I’m not entitled at all, I been through a lot of shyt, the average person would have given up already
 

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I’m not entitled at all, I been through a lot of shyt, the average person would have given up already
People really are projecting because I know even I've said more than once women don't owe me shyt.

But when you see them giving p*ssy up so freely to everyone but you you can't help but feel some resentment
 

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So what you saying, because one woman fukked you over you hate all women. That sounds very rational!

Also, pick a better woman and it won't happen. All this entitled bullshyt sounds like white women problems.
Pick a better woman is a simple issue to a complex problem
 

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People really are projecting because I know even I've said more than once women don't owe me shyt.

But when you see them giving p*ssy up so freely to everyone but you you can't help but feel some resentment
I wasn’t addressing your situation, I was just coming at the poster who quoted me
 

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I wasn’t addressing your situation, I was just coming at the poster who quoted me
Yes I was just agreeing with you.

I noticed that alot of the dudes who have similar experiences get people who tell them "women don't owe you shyt!"

When nobody is in here saying they do.
 

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Man i wanted to flame on you about this post, but something in a nikka spirit decided otherwise. Want a woman, go Talk to her. Obviously right? But then you said confidence issue, that feet to the fire could help or backfire on you if you not mentally ready. So i can see u a critical situation. Brehs can follow up with game as they see fit.

Imma break my advice down using hoops, cause I'm a Carolina nikka.
And at the end of the day getting women, fukking em, all part of the game. You gotta get in that water bruh, you aint even prepped for gameday.
:francis:
You dont resent women, you resent the quality of guidance you have recieved in regards to them and dealing with them. Whatever instuction you got failed you and in turn you took it to reflect you. In ways, yeah it does. But this is why OGs unks and big homies come into play.
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Confidence and a jumpshot go hand in hand, right? Most great shooters are confident by nature but like all things can be developed with effort.

How do you develop confidence? Whats confidence? Confidence is the level of comfort and acceptance you have in your own capabilities. Capabilities in vibing with women is no different, you got to understand they smell insecurity a mile away. Improve your quality of life and you're confidence will improve.

How do you develop a jumpshot? By repetition, repeating the action until it becomes muscle memory, 2nd nature.
This is why players will tell you they feel more confident after every training period.
They are now where they dont have to think twice about their task. That aint you though cuz. Thats why its a numbers a game, if i was you, id holla at any women on 2 legs, to get comfortable, start minding body cues. You're not at the point you can be choosy right now.

Women are no different than prepping for a game. Best of luck
 

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I can't take any of your advice seriously when you're a woman and the first thing you do is say I'm frightening.

Even random female posters who've never seen me find me repulsive:mjlol:

I swear if I didn't have the ability to laugh at myself :mjlol:
I deleted that part of my post for that very reason. I mean it's crazy every time I log on here its a bunch of men talking about how much they hate women, that's pretty frightening.

My advice came from a good place though, I think you should consider it.
 

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I deleted that part of my post for that very reason. I mean it's crazy every time I log on here its a bunch of men talking about how much they hate women, that's pretty frightening.

My advice came from a good place though, I think you should consider it.
I'm not saying you have to justify it, but do you at the very least understand where our frustration comes from?

If you dig deep and read these comments it's much more than "bytches ain't shyt".
 

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I feel you.

I could be wrong but I just feel like if I could find one woman who actually liked me and we dated it would make me feel worth in the one aspect of my life I don't.

I'm almost 30 and never experienced any of the things men are supposed to experience in their teens.

Hell my first kiss was with a hooker.

I had seen a couple of hookers but I never kissed them.

I seen this one girl who turned me out and starts making out with me after I already paid and busted a nut.

In a weird way it was the most confidence boosting thing I ever experienced with a woman because:

I did not initiate it.

We were done. My clothes were on, I paid and I was walking out.

She stops me gets up off the bed and starts making out with me.

It made me think

"Well maybe I'm not as ugly as I think if a woman I am paying is doing shyt to me I didn't ask for after I already gave her money"

I know it's weird/disgusting but I have to tell my truth.

I don't have time for a therapist anytime soon.



:wow:

Damn yo
 
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