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How do black women want black men to approach them?
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kenreid0726eabos
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Bro, it's gonna take a while for you to have a relationship with a girl to know if she is the one or not to marry.
Don't just get married to the first girl you feel is a good fit because you never know when you find out she bat shyt crazy.
Imo I would use these next four years to grind and to keep messing with women. I'm guessing you don't want to fukk them, only thing you can do is to keep talking to them and pick their brains.
It's hard to really have girlfriends that arent sexually active at all, let alone a virgin wife.
Don't just get married to the first girl you feel is a good fit because you never know when you find out she bat shyt crazy.
Imo I would use these next four years to grind and to keep messing with women. I'm guessing you don't want to fukk them, only thing you can do is to keep talking to them and pick their brains.
It's hard to really have girlfriends that arent sexually active at all, let alone a virgin wife.
Taadow
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To keep it all the way real - going to your particular college you may not be around "thousands of ambitious, level-headed, beautiful Black women".
I'm sorry to say that he probability of you coming face-to-face with this will increase being on a college campus.
1. No - you're not "here to provide love..." etc....you're gonna be there for school.
DON'T MESS UP you're schooling by switching your focus to something that should be peripheral at that point.
There is a time for all things.
2. God doesn't choose your mate; God gave you everything you need to choose the right mate for yourself.
3. As an "adherent to biblical scripture", you already how to treat people: the same way you want people to treat you.
And it seems like you are already proceeding this way. Bear in mind, though (1) everybody isn't gonna treat you this way, and
(2) some will try to take advantage of you because of this. Still, people who are this way are attractive to others so you have that
going for you.
TLDR: be Tupac in a business suit.
CinnaSlim
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Treat women like people not pieces of meat or potential p*ssy. Just approach them like you would anyone else.
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I agree with @Taadow ..you've been given the ability to learn and discern "which direction the wind blows" in regards to finding a mate.
I do not understand the rationale that things given without work and effort are god given or earned. Lucifer runs the planet and "babes in the woods" types like you are ripe for being ran down into a pulp. If you want to keep your sanity and a find a thread of light among these wrecked and wretched women, edify yourself and utilIze your senses.
I do not understand the rationale that things given without work and effort are god given or earned. Lucifer runs the planet and "babes in the woods" types like you are ripe for being ran down into a pulp. If you want to keep your sanity and a find a thread of light among these wrecked and wretched women, edify yourself and utilIze your senses.
Go make this thread on LSA 
Do not look for your wife is college. They'll be getting ran through.
Focus on your craft/self. I won't say women will follow because women need to see status or appearance of status (types/levels of how you dress) to "flock" so if you aren't that type or the field you're studying ot be in doesn't require a suit you're still shooting in the dark like everyone else. You're better off meeting your future spouse in religion-oriented places/activities.
Focus on your craft/self. I won't say women will follow because women need to see status or appearance of status (types/levels of how you dress) to "flock" so if you aren't that type or the field you're studying ot be in doesn't require a suit you're still shooting in the dark like everyone else. You're better off meeting your future spouse in religion-oriented places/activities.
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IDC how women want men to approach them. Women say one thing and go after the other.
