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Before y'all sharpen the pitchforks, hear me out

I'm getting ready to move from Miami to Alabama for college. Since I am an obedient child of God and therefore adhere to biblical scripture, I am waiting to engage in sexual intercourse until I meet that special girl for me and we achieve marriage union in the name of God & the state. Since I'm going to college, this might be the LAST time I'm around THOUSANDS of ambitious, level-headed, beautiful black women, therefore I want to start my search for a wife NOW.

The problem is, these days there's a WHOLE lot of backlash against black men for the things we are perceived to do & not do. I read a lot of comments and honestly I'm mad confused about black women's stance towards me as a young black man. I ignore you, yet I simultaneously harass you? I abuse & assault you, yet I abandon & am apathetic towards you? On the site that shan't be named, there is a level of VENOM spewed towards black men that has me paranoid wondering if the black women I come across in my day to day activities really loathe my existence like this.

So can someone give me advice or an answer? I have black female friends and family that I love and cherish, and I speak to strangers on the street with respect. I'm not here to hurt black women, I'm here to provide love and respect & find the one God chooses for me so I can give her passionate love, affection, and intimacy & we can build a life together and have us some beautiful black babies.


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Bro, it's gonna take a while for you to have a relationship with a girl to know if she is the one or not to marry.

Don't just get married to the first girl you feel is a good fit because you never know when you find out she bat shyt crazy.

Imo I would use these next four years to grind and to keep messing with women. I'm guessing you don't want to fukk them, only thing you can do is to keep talking to them and pick their brains.

It's hard to really have girlfriends that arent sexually active at all, let alone a virgin wife.




 

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Before y'all sharpen the pitchforks, hear me out

I'm getting ready to move from Miami to Alabama for college. Since I am an obedient child of God and therefore adhere to biblical scripture, I am waiting to engage in sexual intercourse until I meet that special girl for me and we achieve marriage union in the name of God & the state. Since I'm going to college, this might be the LAST time I'm around THOUSANDS of ambitious, level-headed, beautiful black women, therefore I want to start my search for a wife NOW.

To keep it all the way real - going to your particular college you may not be around "thousands of ambitious, level-headed, beautiful Black women".

The problem is, these days there's a WHOLE lot of backlash against black men for the things we are perceived to do & not do.
I read a lot of comments and honestly I'm mad confused about black women's stance towards me as a young black man.
I ignore you, yet I simultaneously harass you? I abuse & assault you, yet I abandon & am apathetic towards you? On the site that shan't be named, there is a level of VENOM spewed towards black men that has me paranoid wondering if the black women I come across in my day to day activities really loathe my existence like this.

I'm sorry to say that he probability of you coming face-to-face with this will increase being on a college campus.

So can someone give me advice or an answer? I have black female friends and family that I love and cherish, and I speak to strangers on the street with respect. I'm not here to hurt black women, I'm here to provide love and respect & find the one God chooses for me so I can give her passionate love, affection, and intimacy & we can build a life together and have us some beautiful black babies.

1. No - you're not "here to provide love..." etc....you're gonna be there for school.
DON'T MESS UP you're schooling by switching your focus to something that should be peripheral at that point.
There is a time for all things.

2. God doesn't choose your mate; God gave you everything you need to choose the right mate for yourself.

3. As an "adherent to biblical scripture", you already how to treat people: the same way you want people to treat you.
And it seems like you are already proceeding this way. Bear in mind, though (1) everybody isn't gonna treat you this way, and
(2) some will try to take advantage of you because of this. Still, people who are this way are attractive to others so you have that
going for you.








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Lol if you aren't 'that dude's on campus then you're gonna have an uphill battle ahead of you. Your best bet is to join a club or a church.
 

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I agree with @Taadow ..you've been given the ability to learn and discern "which direction the wind blows" in regards to finding a mate.

I do not understand the rationale that things given without work and effort are god given or earned. Lucifer runs the planet and "babes in the woods" types like you are ripe for being ran down into a pulp. If you want to keep your sanity and a find a thread of light among these wrecked and wretched women, edify yourself and utilIze your senses.
 

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simply formula: introduce yourself like a gentleman (not nice guy) -> conversate like a comedian (not clown) -> in them guts like a pornstar
 

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Do not look for your wife is college. They'll be getting ran through.

Focus on your craft/self. I won't say women will follow because women need to see status or appearance of status (types/levels of how you dress) to "flock" so if you aren't that type or the field you're studying ot be in doesn't require a suit you're still shooting in the dark like everyone else. You're better off meeting your future spouse in religion-oriented places/activities.
 

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Before y'all sharpen the pitchforks, hear me out

I'm getting ready to move from Miami to Alabama for college. Since I am an obedient child of God and therefore adhere to biblical scripture, I am waiting to engage in sexual intercourse until I meet that special girl for me and we achieve marriage union in the name of God & the state. Since I'm going to college, this might be the LAST time I'm around THOUSANDS of ambitious, level-headed, beautiful black women, therefore I want to start my search for a wife NOW.

The problem is, these days there's a WHOLE lot of backlash against black men for the things we are perceived to do & not do. I read a lot of comments and honestly I'm mad confused about black women's stance towards me as a young black man. I ignore you, yet I simultaneously harass you? I abuse & assault you, yet I abandon & am apathetic towards you? On the site that shan't be named, there is a level of VENOM spewed towards black men that has me paranoid wondering if the black women I come across in my day to day activities really loathe my existence like this.

So can someone give me advice or an answer? I have black female friends and family that I love and cherish, and I speak to strangers on the street with respect. I'm not here to hurt black women, I'm here to provide love and respect & find the one God chooses for me so I can give her passionate love, affection, and intimacy & we can build a life together and have us some beautiful black babies.


Focus on them books fam
 
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