How can we win by holding ourselves down? I spend a lot of time with my lil cousins, driving them from school/sports/etc. I've been listening to the way one cousin gets denigrated for being "smart" by another cousin and his friends. The lil homie likes listening to my rock and jazz albums, gets good grades, reads a lot (I got him into some fantasy novels, will introduce him to Game Of Thrones soon, plus he reads a lot of history novels) etc. He dresses kinda swagless but let's be real: he's only 14, he has plenty of time to level his swag game up.
But I hear people laughing at him and calling him white. And it's the same shyt I heard when I was a kid. I remember I stopped watching the National Geographic channel cuz nikkas would be clowning me all the time. I was about his age and just couldn't deal with it. I don't want him to give up stuff he likes because ignorant dudes are laughing...
It's crazy, remembering the days when I had more white friends than black friends because most nikkas was laughing at me for reading and listening to metal as well as backpack rap. I guess the only thing we can do is make sure our kids are able to be who they are, and support them. And actually be fathers to our children, brehs...
You know what's funny ?
I got more sh1t from Hispanic and White people than I did from Black kids.
I mean don't get me wrong, they'd come at me too for my
choice of interests but it was usually people who weren't black
that were flabbergasted by my choices in entertainment.
And this is coming from a guy who listens to Metal/Rock/Jazz/Classical, watches anime,
plays videogames etc.
As I got older I got over it though and many of the same black kids who
gave me crap are now Black adults who've grown out of that.
This whole idea that we're all victims and its all whitey's fault for everything is exactly why black america is so degenerate. If we're ever going to succeed in this country its going to be by first taking accountability for the state we're in today instead of always trying to blame it on white people and slavery. Right now there are too many tools available in this country for black people to succeed and be successful but you've got the white liberal media and Al Sharpton pulling out the race card any chance they get. But of course they're so conveniently silent about the eight thousand blacks that are killed every year by their own brothers.
You know the ironic thing is that a big reason why so many people are racist is because so many black people think they're problems are due to racism.
So you mentioned Al Sharpton ? Check.
You mentioned blacks "blaming whitey" ? Check.
Made sure to include "White liberals" with
no mention of the ugliness apparent on the right. Check.
Made sure to finish it all off with "Blacks are the real racists !". Check.
I'm surprised you didn't mention Jesse Jackson in this post.
Sounds like you frequent st0rmfr0nt friend
Just because you can show discrimination exists doesn't mean it accounts for the position blacks are in today. What does discrimination have to do with blacks killing each other at astronomical rates. Or the out-of-wedlock birth rate? Or the fact that too few blacks enroll in college. I'm in a community college now and I almost NEVER see blacks enrolled in science classes. I'm literally the only one every single time. And when I'm not, its an African, not african american.
I'm pretty sure most of the violence in urban areas is a direct result
of the dissolution of community in those same places.
White flight and Urban Decay played a big part in this.
I don't think making good grades are being bright is associated with whiteness in our community....Its having varying tastes in music, fashion, cinema, which can be culture driven sometimes.....If a brother likes death metal and wears skater clothes and watches sci fi, he might get that label....But if a brother makes all As and gets a 34 on his ACT and is the captain of his B Ball team, he's not gonna get that label
From my experience this is true, they don't give a sh1t about your grades
or GPA because chances are they'll never know of these things.
It's more about a person appearing to be running away from whatever
"Black" is being defined as.
I know guys who managed to get decent grades, full ride scholarships
and go off to college all while never being accused of "acting white".
I think a lot of it comes from people trying to distance themselves
from other blacks whether they do it consciously or unconsciously.
I think most kids/young people do it unconsciously and it just
comes from who they hang around and doing whatever they can to fit in
with that particular group.
Which is probably why they're so hurt and confused when they're
told they're "acting white", because they don't see it as "White" thing
they're just being themselves whatever that maybe.