Who decides what’s considered cool in hip hop? Just because something isn't liked by the average American doesn’t make it uncool. If the fans of hip hop think it’s cool, then it remains cool. Hip hop has never catered to popular opinion—that’s part of what makes it authentic and appealing. Its blending of cultures, inherent rebellion, and distinctive fashion all contribute to its coolness. The style associated with hip hop—whether it’s streetwear, unique accessories, or iconic brands—reflects its culture and identity, reinforcing its status as a trendsetter.
It seems like you want fans of mainstream artists like Taylor Swift and Sabrina Carpenter, as well as average pop and country fans, to validate hip hop. Saying that Diddy’s mistakes mean hip hop isn't cool anymore is absurd. The essence of hip hop is about staying true to oneself, regardless of mainstream approval. You sound like a casual fan, which is fine, but at least be honest about it.