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Im looking at Sept when my first child is born....should be interesting
Having a son ain't been the curse I thought it'd be
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Lucky_Lefty
Dreams Are Colder Than Death...
awhahaha dudes really did this?
dog, when my daughter's mom was having her and the doc was like "pull her leg towards you", I was so nervous, I was pushing them shyts close...besides that, only having like 2.5 hrs of sleep and trying to record the whole thing, i was just gone...one of the best moments a man can ever have brehs....I was all
but when my baby was in that little warmer thing and the first thing she clutched on to was my finger, 
glad I had her when I was 30 & not 20-25...not saying I would've been a deadbeat but my priorities were all fukked up...having a kid will mellow you the fukk out if you're really trying to be apart of your childs life whether you're with the mom or not...i'd club every weekend and hit the mall to pop tags on the reg...now, I ain't even about that life...I'm busy planning a birthday party right now
This shyt got me shook for real, I usually get the Lifestyles and Durex from my college clinic
I don't want a kid for ATLEAST another 12/13 years
If your goal is safe sex you shouldnt be fukkin with them brands bruh
It will behoove you to discontinue this lifestyle
good for your breh.
i was nervous as fukk when i had my first son. i was still poppin mollys and smoking like there was no tomorrow. i worked at a gas station making 8.50 an hour. soon as my son was born i got a better job and cut all the bullshyt out( still smoke on occasion and have only rolled twice but that was with my fiance so we could have a fukk fest.)
love seeing them grow up. its cool as fukk how all the same shyt i liked as a kid is back. my older son is 4 now and he loves ninja turtles and his favorite one is leonardo just like me. he also plays mario on his wii u and sonic racers.
shyt bring me back like a mother fukker and legit sometimes bring a man to
not gonna lie to you the real work comes around 2 and half 3. the first two years i was like
at everyone who said it was hard and whatnot but god damn they become work at that age. making sure there educated enough to be ready for pre school, potty training, learning good habits. it never ends
i learned a lot from having my first child, he is one spoiled little shyt sometimes but its my fault cuz i let him do what he wanted for a long time. its still hard trying to get him on track and to listen to rules ( my parents said i never gave a fukk about anything they said either though so its whatever. still gets annoying though)
i did everything different with my youngest one and you can see the difference a mile a way. dude listens to everything i say, can sit and watch a whole football game with me, and hes polite as hell.
tough love is something that was hard for me to do, but you have to do it. as much as you want to give your children whatever they want in the end its what you dont give em that can make the real difference in the long run
end rant
i was nervous as fukk when i had my first son. i was still poppin mollys and smoking like there was no tomorrow. i worked at a gas station making 8.50 an hour. soon as my son was born i got a better job and cut all the bullshyt out( still smoke on occasion and have only rolled twice but that was with my fiance so we could have a fukk fest.)
love seeing them grow up. its cool as fukk how all the same shyt i liked as a kid is back. my older son is 4 now and he loves ninja turtles and his favorite one is leonardo just like me. he also plays mario on his wii u and sonic racers.
shyt bring me back like a mother fukker and legit sometimes bring a man to
not gonna lie to you the real work comes around 2 and half 3. the first two years i was like
at everyone who said it was hard and whatnot but god damn they become work at that age. making sure there educated enough to be ready for pre school, potty training, learning good habits. it never endsi learned a lot from having my first child, he is one spoiled little shyt sometimes but its my fault cuz i let him do what he wanted for a long time. its still hard trying to get him on track and to listen to rules ( my parents said i never gave a fukk about anything they said either though so its whatever. still gets annoying though)
i did everything different with my youngest one and you can see the difference a mile a way. dude listens to everything i say, can sit and watch a whole football game with me, and hes polite as hell.
tough love is something that was hard for me to do, but you have to do it. as much as you want to give your children whatever they want in the end its what you dont give em that can make the real difference in the long run
end rant
good for your breh.
i was nervous as fukk when i had my first son. i was still poppin mollys and smoking like there was no tomorrow. i worked at a gas station making 8.50 an hour. soon as my son was born i got a better job and cut all the bullshyt out( still smoke on occasion and have only rolled twice but that was with my fiance so we could have a fukk fest.)
love seeing them grow up. its cool as fukk how all the same shyt i liked as a kid is back. my older son is 4 now and he loves ninja turtles and his favorite one is leonardo just like me. he also plays mario on his wii u and sonic racers.
shyt bring me back like a mother fukker and legit sometimes bring a man to
not gonna lie to you the real work comes around 2 and half 3. the first two years i was like
i learned a lot from having my first child, he is one spoiled little shyt sometimes but its my fault cuz i let him do what he wanted for a long time. its still hard trying to get him on track and to listen to rules ( my parents said i never gave a fukk about anything they said either though so its whatever. still gets annoying though)
i did everything different with my youngest one and you can see the difference a mile a way. dude listens to everything i say, can sit and watch a whole football game with me, and hes polite as hell.
tough love is something that was hard for me to do, but you have to do it. as much as you want to give your children whatever they want in the end its what you dont give em that can make the real difference in the long run
end rant
Dropping that
knowledge, man.Daps for that.
My Girlfriend already Picked Out babyNames And my fam steady asking me when i'm going to Have A Child 
im Not even 21 Yet Brehs i have a pretty decent job tho and pretty much think i met my future wife tho so 
i Still got sometime to be tho
im Not even 21 Yet Brehs i have a pretty decent job tho and pretty much think i met my future wife tho so i Still got sometime to be thoWhat about Trojans?
They're the highest quality condoms in my experience
If they ever start passing out Trojans for free
SuburbanPimp
Giving game to lames since the 90s
to all the new dads and soon to be new Dads in here.Its a beautiful things bruhs, Yeah you gonna miss a few nights with your boys or miss some of that game you been wanting to watch. But you'll realize how unimportant those things are compared to spending time with your youngins. People always talking about the the bad parts but what people rarely talk about is how it makes you feel young again. Instead of worrying about "being cool" you get to clown around, be goofy, take them to get a happy meal, and a bunch other stuff that your kids will love you for and makes you remember how fun it was to be young.
My Girlfriend already Picked Out babyNames And my fam steady asking me when i'm going to Have A Child
If no one else is gonna say it I guess I will
Don't fukk up, breh. I'm also 21, and I can't even imagine having a kid in the next few years. I'm about to graduate from a decent school with a decent degree and start law school in the fall so I'll be making decent money by the time I'm 24/25. I'll be financially ready to support a family in the next four/five years but I'm not going to have one for ATLEAST fifteen. Whats the point of your own personal struggle to success if you can't enjoy it by your lonesome for a bit? 
If no one else is gonna say it I guess I will
I wont make A kid intentionally cause i know im just really starting my life i aint even had my first legal drink yet.
JayYoung713
All Star
I got 3 children all with the same BM. I had my 1st son at 19, who is 9 yrs old now. I got 2 daughters ages 6 and 2. I was never the type to want kids when I was younger never ever planned on it really did not even like kids lol but now that I have them I cant picture life without them. They definitely motivate me to keep grinding and furthering myself and my family in life. You will learn so much about yourself once you have children believe me.
I think the problem with a lot of young people is that they don't have perspective. From the age of about 18-Late 20s it's a woman's world. They are in their physical prime and depending on how good looking they are the world is their oyster. We don't get in our primes till the late 20s/early 30s, by that point a lot of us (men) will have physically matured, be secure financially, and have lots of life experience. Your 20s/early 30s should be spent having fun and building yourself up, once you get married/have kids there's no going back, breh. I'm not sure how good your current girl looks but I guarantee that if you stay physically in shape and keep your mind on your career/getting money the caliber of women you'll be pulling in your 30s will have you like
compared to the kind of women you're pulling now. DO NOT get married (let alone have kids) before the age of 25, and even thats pushing it 
You're doing more in one year than i did My life, my life my life!!!
Congrats dadeh!!!
I know how much my parents would love to have a grand child (my mom always wanted a big family; my mom's first child died at burf, one child died with heart failure after a month and another wasn't strong enough to maintain after a few weeks in the incubator, i'm told he has Downs Syndrome; i get sentimental. Now it's just me and my older sister).
A fella should be blessed to be alive cuz my window, given the odds, were quite small, my two younger brothers and older-older sis didn't make it; i wish i could do more in my life and live for them.
Any ways, i see a lot of my friends getting murred and hading babies and wherenots... but i dunno; just want to be financially sound before jumping the womb.
Babies are incredible because believe or not - i used to be one
Went to go see my relatives during x-mas break and saw the way my mom held my cousin's new baybeh... i got sad because i saw the glow in her eyes and the way she smiled; i mean shiit - that's how momma used to hold me breaghs.
Shiit i'm starting to shed a tear at work.
Damn.
Momma... I LOVE YOU!!!
I swear to god momma, i'ma birth a seed for you to cherish.
Promise.
.
Congrats dadeh!!!
I know how much my parents would love to have a grand child (my mom always wanted a big family; my mom's first child died at burf, one child died with heart failure after a month and another wasn't strong enough to maintain after a few weeks in the incubator, i'm told he has Downs Syndrome; i get sentimental. Now it's just me and my older sister).
A fella should be blessed to be alive cuz my window, given the odds, were quite small, my two younger brothers and older-older sis didn't make it; i wish i could do more in my life and live for them.
Any ways, i see a lot of my friends getting murred and hading babies and wherenots... but i dunno; just want to be financially sound before jumping the womb.
Babies are incredible because believe or not - i used to be one
Went to go see my relatives during x-mas break and saw the way my mom held my cousin's new baybeh... i got sad because i saw the glow in her eyes and the way she smiled; i mean shiit - that's how momma used to hold me breaghs.
Shiit i'm starting to shed a tear at work.
Damn.
Momma... I LOVE YOU!!!
I swear to god momma, i'ma birth a seed for you to cherish.
Promise.
.
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