Having a son ain't been the curse I thought it'd be

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Props! I'm 25 with a kid on the way also. I actually can't wait, I always liked the idea of having a mini-me around. Like you I got lucky and got a girl with a good head on her shoulders, and a great family.

Man, once I heard the heartbeat in the first sonogram I was like ":merchant: shyt just got real", but now its a everyday motivation. All I'm thinkin about is stacking up my bread cause my biggest fear is struggling financially with a kid but I know ill be aight :win:
 

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Yea I got one on the way too. I can't wait either bruhs. Been looking at onsies and sh!t and my wife said she already know i'm going to be the hands on dad. I'm anxious as hell


What's going to help me though is it's due the last week of August and I get 12 weeks paid time off which is right at the start of college football. I'm not using any vacation days either so i'll be out until next year :cacpls:

Damn my nig u straight! How the fukk u manage to get 12 weeks off? I think the most my job will give is 8 and I work for the fukking govt! I'm taking my shyt after my girl takes her 8 weeks tho so I should be right in time for NFL:myman::myman::myman:
 

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Yea I got one on the way too. I can't wait either bruhs. Been looking at onsies and sh!t and my wife said she already know i'm going to be the hands on dad. I'm anxious as hell


What's going to help me though is it's due the last week of August and I get 12 weeks paid time off which is right at the start of college football. I'm not using any vacation days either so i'll be out until next year :cacpls:

Congrats breh breh.

12 weeks tho? :whoo:
 

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Props to you, it gets a lil easier...just a lil lol...when they start walking, and talking. Once they hit 2 you lookin at a full blown toddler, and they just amaze you from then on. The ish they say man. I also just had a Baby Boy he turned 5 months, and my lil mama is 3. Good luck to you and yours.
 

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Damn my nig u straight! How the fukk u manage to get 12 weeks off? I think the most my job will give is 8 and I work for the fukking govt! I'm taking my shyt after my girl takes her 8 weeks tho so I should be right in time for NFL:myman::myman::myman:

Congrats breh breh.

12 weeks tho? :whoo:

Yep Bank of America got GREAT benefits

Bank of America offers 12 weeks of paid parental leave for mothers, fathers and adoptive parents

Only thing that sucks is that my wife gets 6 weeks I but it's not paid so we have to save up enough to equate that time off but we halfway there and have until the end of August.
 

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7 months in and it ain't too bad. Don't get to go out as much, nights can be pretty annoying at times, and this nikka can be needy but seeing dude grow up is pretty cool.

He also a big flirt and chicks love him so I ain't even stressing.

This is probably made easier because my BM is pretty cool about the whole thing and she isn't too annoying because she thinks I'm a good dad.

School, work, and him kinda stress me out but it ain't too bad and I'm 'bout to graduate so it's gravy.

Arent you glad you didnt have your son murdered at the clnic, in retrospect.
 

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Props to being there for your child. :ld:
Not to throw shade, but try to live w/ the mother of your child and be a family.
 

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Props! I'm 25 with a kid on the way also. I actually can't wait, I always liked the idea of having a mini-me around. Like you I got lucky and got a girl with a good head on her shoulders, and a great family.

Man, once I heard the heartbeat in the first sonogram I was like ":merchant: shyt just got real", but now its everyday motivation. All I'm thinkin about is stacking up my bread cause my biggest fear is struggling financially with a kid but I know ill be aight :win:

I did the exact same thing, breh. We got real lucky because our people threw us a real nice baby shower. My family, her family, my friends, and job associates all hooked us up real nice. Gave us a crib, carseat, clothes, diapers, bottles, etc.


Props to you, it gets a lil easier...just a lil lol...when they start walking, and talking. Once they hit 2 you lookin at a full blown toddler, and they just amaze you from then on. The ish they say man. I also just had a Baby Boy he turned 5 months, and my lil mama is 3. Good luck to you and yours.

He says "Dada" and waves bye to me now, it blows my mind already. This little guy opens my Pringles can with no problem so I put out of his reach and then he just pulls the blanket it's on until it's in his reach again. Blew my damn mind.

:salute: to you breh.

Arent you glad you didnt have your son murdered at the clnic, in retrospect.

Indeed but she wasn't gonna do that anyway.

Props to being there for your child. :ld:
Not to throw shade, but try to live w/ the mother of your child and be a family.

Eh, commitment ain't really my thing but this is something I actually have been considering.
 

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Twenty three. Way too young but ain't no point in complaining or crying now. I knew what I was risking.

If I see the CEO of LifeStyle condoms in the street, I'm smacking the skin off that nikka though :pacspit:

:dead: I know plenty of people who got got because of those. Them things need to be discontinued.
 

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:salute: to all the responsible dads in here. I got an 8 year old and he's basically me when I was that age. Trust me brehs, enjoy your time with them while they are at their age, because they grow up QUICK:sadcam:

Love my little guy.
 

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7 months in and it ain't too bad. Don't get to go out as much, nights can be pretty annoying at times, and this nikka can be needy but seeing dude grow up is pretty cool.

He also a big flirt and chicks love him so I ain't even stressing.

This is probably made easier because my BM is pretty cool about the whole thing and she isn't too annoying because she thinks I'm a good dad.

School, work, and him kinda stress me out but it ain't too bad and I'm 'bout to graduate so it's gravy.


na fam it isnt my son is 7 and we bond all the time. throw a football there or 2. he be having all them girls in his school trying to holla at him

told me the other day some girl got mad at him cuz the other girl likes him and wanted to give him a kiss :thumbsup:

he loves watching sports or playing vid games he played halo 4 with me the other day talking smack so i sniped his ass :win:
 

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Yea I got one on the way too. I can't wait either bruhs. Been looking at onsies and sh!t and my wife said she already know i'm going to be the hands on dad. I'm anxious as hell


What's going to help me though is it's due the last week of August and I get 12 weeks paid time off which is right at the start of college football. I'm not using any vacation days either so i'll be out until next year :cacpls:

My son is due in a few days.

One piece of advice to you brehs, when youre there at the delivery and the doctor tells her to push, you aint helpin in no way by pushin and strainin like its you givin birth :bryan:
 

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One piece of advice to you brehs, when youre there at the delivery and the doctor tells her to push, you aint helpin in no way by pushin and strainin like its you givin birth :bryan:

its a trip seeing the kid come out my daughter came out with a damn mohawk :laff:
 
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