Have You Ever Met A Woman Who Takes Accountability For Her Actions?

[AceMan]

The gospel in here...

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

The gospel in here...

I love The Coli. So many gems and life lessons dropped here on a daily...

 

[poundedyam]

ONCE.
i think there was on here.
It was a video of a black girl saying she didnt want good men and it was her fault and shes now an old lonely single mom
Think it was from that simp youtuber asknathaniel.
You know the one that has some sort of latina fetish.

Soneone find it for me.

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

This vid sums up this thread!

 

[Kenny West]

In legends and stories ive heard of such things

 

[Kenny West]

In hs. It was bad too, and very public. But he still wanted me, proposed and all that. Clearly he was crazy.

Obviously this is ****

@mrken12

 

[HarlemHottie]

Obviously this is ****

@mrken12

What?

 

[karim]

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Was talking to this girl today

This is woman in a nutshell

Here's a life lesson for you:

If you have a sister, or a female cousin, look at how many times she gets into stupid stuff and gets away with just by being cute.

You don't think they master these things and don't use it on their boyfriends haha you stupid.

Lol, the wronger my sister is, the more agressive she will be in her attempts to make it somebody elses fault
I peeped that shyt when we were still kids. And even though this has never worked on me and I will just mirror her agressive energy and yell back at her louder than she yells at me, this is still her go to move when she fukks up

 

[MikelArteta]

Women dont really have an incentive to taje accountability though.

Before they can even say "my bad" you got a simp sliding through telling her its not her fault and asking for a pint of bathwater

its true that simp in the background waiting for a chance

i cheated on jimmy even if she feels guilty a simp will be like, well dude wasn't treated you right i don't blame you. If you had a man like me to meet your needs this wouldn't have happaned

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

society.

Accountability isnt something that comes natural. It doesnt feel good, you dont really get emotional closure from it. Theres no immediate validation from anyone. It sucks but you gotta do it for the sake of integrity. As men its ingrained in our society's upbringing more or less... But if youre a woman, you gotta have someone in your household constantly preaching the importance of it... Otherwise forget it. Its always someone elses fault.

Women here grow up in a world where they expect unconditional sympathy from everyone no matter what. Result? Theyre taught to play victim as a defense mechanism to avoid ANY type of self turmoil. The concept of accountability is alien to them. When stuff gets real theyre programmed to acquire the sympathy that theyve grown to feel entitled to.... Its their safe space. In their mind, admitting guilt means giving away what little power they have.. Like.. They simply cannot register that theres power in owning up to shyt like a G.

There are real chicks out here though, straight shooters. Rare these days but they exist.

Gospel

 

[mag357]

This is exactly what even the most mature of them seem to do.

I HATE making blanket statements such as "all these type of folks do such and such" but this thread is GOSPEL. The most reasonable of them won't admit fault but will be extra nice in other ways because they know they were wrong.

Like someone else stated in here, I believe it was @yardman . Women just aren't taught to do this socially the same way men are so it's not even entirely them to blame. It's a conversation for us ALL to have.

Yup its everybody else's fault lol

 

[Hyperion]

They called you a "pick me" or tried to shame you?

Yoooo speaking of this, I've noticed that this is a big thing on Twitter in recent times. Sometimes you'll have women saying things like "Hey, instead of saying men are the problem, maybe you should look within yourself. "

Not even ten minutes later, her mentions'll get flooded with shyt like "I hope he texts you back sis " and whatnot.

Sad part too is, you can also see men in the mentions too clearly agreeing with the original tweet that the woman said, so you would think that should give everyone else a clue... Nope. Just pettiness and a lack of seeing things from different vantage points.

Feminism on social media loves freedom of speech... Till you end up saying something they disagree with.

 

[King Poetic]

1 out of 40

Girl I’m dating now, admitted it’s her fault that she fukked around with the wrong dudes..

Other than that every last one blamed the dudes on why they broke up or why shyt didn’t go right

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Guess what tho brehs....society (north american) has socialized them to behave this way.

 

[Clay Puppington]

Dawg!!!

Smh.... I go thru the same shyt

I dnt know what's worse dealing with that shyt in a relationship or dealing with that shyt professionally

I swear... I be thinking...
If a man just did this shyt to me, it might be a fight.
But since this is a woman, I gotta just act like I'm wrong?

The threat of physical violence is a strong deterrent for us as men we police ourselves