Have You Ever Met A Woman Who Takes Accountability For Her Actions?
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DatLBCGuy562
Superstar
A woman having actual situational and self awareness? I'm either gonna get struck by lightning or win the lotto soon. This is rarefied air right here. Thank you queen for going against the grain 
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Was this @ me? If so, thanks, breh.
If not, s/o to whoever you intended it for.
Hate to say it but that meme is right. I used to post on an all female forum. Occasionally somebody would ask me for relationship advice cuz i been with my man so long. But they almost never listened to me.
Instead, the boards relationship guru was some chick who, from what i gleaned (cuz i hated reading her posts), was old and divorced and quite bitter toward men, especially black men.
They loved her bc she always blamed the man. I would come in like, 'Sis, you know you was dead ass wrong' and be framed as the bad guy. They called me "black Male identified".All these mental machinations to avoid accountability.
They called you a "pick me" or tried to shame you?
A boss once told me to use May 30th on a report I was working on so I did
The next day she's like "why did you use May 30th? The last day is the 31st" I'm like "just went by what you said" she said "yeah but you gotta use common sense"
I'm sitting there like....you really couldn't have just smoothed that over with a "my bad"?
Professional woman who's been in the game for 10+ years too
Now I gotta teach you a lesson & you'll wonder why I'm acting a certain way & not fukking with you anymore - but unfortunately, you'll never know cause you dont take accountability and you did nothing wrong
Dawg!!!
Smh.... I go thru the same shyt
I dnt know what's worse dealing with that shyt in a relationship or dealing with that shyt professionally
I swear... I be thinking...
If a man just did this shyt to me, it might be a fight.
But since this is a woman, I gotta just act like I'm wrong?
@HarlemHottie you dapped this shyt?
Bro, so either every muthafuka on this thread is making up shyt....
You live in some bizarro world where everything is opposite ...
You dont know many women
Or you're just flat out lying...
fukk it tho
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Naturally. My response was always, 'bytch, I'm already chose! Now go get ready for work in the morning.
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HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
@HarlemHottie you dapped this shyt?
Uh, yeah. I'm not childish.
DatLBCGuy562
Superstar
I quoted you, so yes. For you.Was this @ me? If so, thanks, breh.
If not, s/o to whoever you intended it for.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
There's no quote, that's why i asked.
This is exactly what even the most mature of them seem to do.
I HATE making blanket statements such as "all these type of folks do such and such" but this thread is GOSPEL. The most reasonable of them won't admit fault but will be extra nice in other ways because they know they were wrong.
Like someone else stated in here, I believe it was @yardman . Women just aren't taught to do this socially the same way men are so it's not even entirely them to blame. It's a conversation for us ALL to have.
people really ain't shyt lol
DatLBCGuy562
Superstar
If there was no quote, then why would you assume that I was talking to you then?There's no quote, that's why i asked.
It was for you. It was a compliment. Take it. Good day ma'am
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
If there was no quote, then why would you assume that I was talking to you then?
It was for you. It was a compliment. Take it. Good day ma'am
You funny.I assumed cuz you posted right after me, but that's why i added qualifiers. I still don't know which post you thought was worth complimenting.
Good night, breh, hope you win the lotto.
