not even my mama
Repsociety.
Accountability isnt something that comes natural. It doesnt feel good, you dont really get emotional closure from it. Theres no immediate validation from anyone. It sucks but you gotta do it for the sake of integrity. As men its ingrained in our society's upbringing more or less... But if youre a woman, you gotta have someone in your household constantly preaching the importance of it... Otherwise forget it. Its always someone elses fault.
Women here grow up in a world where they expect unconditional sympathy from everyone no matter what. Result? Theyre taught to play victim as a defense mechanism to avoid ANY type of self turmoil. The concept of accountability is alien to them. When stuff gets real theyre programmed to acquire the sympathy that theyve grown to feel entitled to.... Its their safe space. In their mind, admitting guilt means giving away what little power they have.. Like.. they simply doesnt register that theres power in owning up to shyt like a G.
There are real chicks out here though, straight shooters. Rare these days but they exist.
Serious question. Why would you remain married to a toxic, damaged, selfish person like that? People like her never get better, only worse...
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shyt my mom 50 and still refuse to take accountability.
has nothing to do with the times. women have always been like thatDamn. I thought it was just me. Every breh in here has shared the same sentiments. Dating in these times are just hopeless and pointless I'm guessing
Damn. Honest to God breh. That’s my go to question. I’ve saved myself a lot of headaches and heartache by asking that question early on in my dealings with a new woman. Tells me a lot. If a woman makes herself the victim in every single one of her past relationships and NEVER admits to any wrongdoing on her part, that is literally the last conversation I know that we’ll have. I smile and nod and facilitate a quick exit out of the venue shortly after she gets to talking that nonsense. I already know. She’s gonna be nothing but problems with that warped sense of reality and lack of self awareness/ability to be honest with herself...
I don’t want him to think what I did was right if it wasn’t.
Social media has made women MUCH more insufferable, intolerable and delusional than they were before the advent of social media. I’m 40. So I’m an age where I was still young in both eras. And trust me. Instagram validation and having more access to simps to rescue them from and excuse their bad behavior/decisions have made women take less accountability than in any period in history before...
