And is it crazy to expect a man who can lighten your load as a woman? Y’all want attractive women, we want men who can make our lives easier (while we focus on the home)
Have yall noticed the term ‘Gold Digger’ doesn’t get used anymore? These are the new age catchphrases
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And is it crazy to expect a man who can lighten your load as a woman? Y’all want attractive women, we want men who can make our lives easier (while we focus on the home)
So that’s exactly what I said initially then.
That’s where the fork in the road lies. There are plenty of men who are cool with this type of exchange….. Couldn’t be me
im not bartering for your good looks. I’m da prize 
And I say that jokingly but that’s an ideology thats existed far before black twitter put a name to it. A real man does not feel lucky or beholden to get an attractive woman.Lastly, ‘lighten the load’, ‘take care of the house’. Not you too
“I’m not bartering for your good looks” “I’m da prize”So that’s exactly what I said initially then.
That’s where the fork in the road lies. There are plenty of men who are cool with this type of exchange….. Couldn’t be me
Lastly, ‘lighten the load’, ‘take care of the house’. Not you too
Not you too
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Y’all put a premium on good looks.
You could have the plain Jane with a heart of gold, but you’ll move around and keep your eyes open for the beautiful woman with a hear of gold.
That beauty is worth something
If I had to choose between a good dude who was barely getting by and a good dude with a great career who can improve my life and ensure that our future children were well taken care of OBVIOUSLY I’d want the good guy with the better prospects. Well, that guy knows what he brings to the table. He has more women to choose from because he is offering more than the average guy. So I can’t come to him as a bare minimum chick.
I guess the beautiful girls in the world aren’t supposed to understand that men prefer them, which means they actually have more options and a greater chance to choose a mate who can provide a better life.
Ok.
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In 2024 where 5s and 6s think they deserve to be treated like 9s and 10s?“I’m not bartering for your good looks” “I’m da prize”
Not you too
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Y’all put a premium on good looks.
You could have the plain Jane with a heart of gold, but you’ll move around and keep your eyes open for the beautiful woman with a hear of gold.
That beauty is worth something
If I had to choose between a good dude who was barely getting by and a good dude with a great career who can improve my life and ensure that our future children were well taken care of OBVIOUSLY I’d want the good guy with the better prospects. Well, that guy knows what he brings to the table. He has more women to choose from because he is offering more than the average guy. So I can’t come to him as a bare minimum chick.
I guess the beautiful girls in the world aren’t supposed to understand that men prefer them, which means they actually have more options and a greater chance to choose a mate who can provide a better life.
Ok.
GreenGhxst
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Gold digger was last used in the early 90s
Get real nikka
Get real nikka
CreepyMcCreeperson
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Which is exactly why nikkas need to stop qualifying themselves to these women, make them prove they are worthy of your time and resources.
Be honest. Most brehs on this site don’t have a lot of options period, let alone quality options. Every single day there is a new thread complaining about women. They don’t have the looks, personality, or any gold for women to dig in the first place.
Coli brehs need to level themselves up first, then focus on finding a good woman. Women will act right for a man they feel is worth it.
“I’m not bartering for your good looks” “I’m da prize”
Not you too
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Y’all put a premium on good looks.
You could have the plain Jane with a heart of gold, but you’ll move around and keep your eyes open for the beautiful woman with a hear of gold.
That beauty is worth something
If I had to choose between a good dude who was barely getting by and a good dude with a great career who can improve my life and ensure that our future children were well taken care of OBVIOUSLY I’d want the good guy with the better prospects. Well, that guy knows what he brings to the table. He has more women to choose from because he is offering more than the average guy. So I can’t come to him as a bare minimum chick.
I guess the beautiful girls in the world aren’t supposed to understand that men prefer them, which means they actually have more options and a greater chance to choose a mate who can provide a better life.
Ok.
The flaw in your logic here is we have ‘looks’ too
Thanks to social media a lot of yall secret preferences have been put on front street. We know yall like us dark skin brehs. We know yall like beards. We know about the ‘grey sweat pants’. We know yall like a lil salt n pepper gray. We know the power of a fresh haircut. Etc. So if physical traits matter to yall too, why would you being ‘beautiful’ give you some one up?
I promise it don’t. Not to a real one. Show me a ‘beautiful’ woman, I’ve had prettier. Or thicker. Etc.One of those balloon pop shows had a bar. Dude told her . ‘You’re the prize to men you don’t want’
And that’s real. No ‘beautiful’ woman wants to be with the ngga that is in awe of her like he never been there before. So we’re right back at square one: 2 equals who will actually have to like each other for who they are 
Rest in my femeninity sounds like something only a birdbrain chick would say
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I'm just gonna be one hundred percent honest here;And is it crazy to expect a man who can lighten your load as a woman? Y’all want attractive women, we want men who can make our lives easier (while we focus on the home)
If you're making 50k annually and meet someone making 45-65k annually and you decide to build with them, doesn't that by default lighten your load, as long as they're not burning money on travel/toys etc?
Idk, maybe it's because I was crazy about Legos as a kid but sometimes it's about finding someone who fits together with you and you can build with vs the scoop you into upper echelons of life fantasy which isn't tenable for most people.
Numbers thin the higher you go.
Well, that’s the tip I’m on, but you’re the one calling yourself the prizeThe flaw in your logic here is we have ‘looks’ too
Thanks to social media a lot of yall secret preferences have been put on front street. We know yall like us dark skin brehs. We know yall like beards. We know about the ‘grey sweat pants’. We know yall like a lil salt n pepper gray. We know the power of a fresh haircut. Etc. So if physical traits matter to yall too, why would you being ‘beautiful’ give you some one up?
One of those balloon pop shows had a bar. Dude told her . ‘You’re the prize to men you don’t want’
How was I supposed to respond LOL
There’s nothing wrong with that
I think what some complain about is the fact that they are still expected to do most of the housework and child rearing despite working FT like their hubbies. Dudes don’t like to hear that, but it’s a legitimate complaint a lot of women have and everyone knows wives who are in that situation. Equitable distribution of household responsibilities solves the issue.
