Have Straight Black Men become the new face of White Guilt?

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It sounds good but the "solutions" always put the biggest burden on the mother, imo. You're expecting the mother to get on point emotionally while she's still taking on the roles of both mom and dad. Where in the solution are black men asked to step up and be the fathers their children need them to be? I always hear "Well you knew how he was" Or "He's a bum what do you expect?", why can't we say it's NOT ok to be a bum, YOU will be rejected from society.
All I expect from the mother is being open to good black men so they can be role models to her son. Promote them as much as you promoted men of other races who like black women

The solution for black men who dont take responsibility for their children is for us to go hard on them and also for women guide other younger women so they don't make the mistake of going with those type of men because when they give them a chance we are unable to change them.
 
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Good article. A lot of these black feminists use arguments from the BWE (Black Women Empowerment) Movement that started in the late 2000s that was heavily anti-black men to encourage black women to start dating out. I seriously never thought it...combined with feminism (1st wave, 2nd wave, critical, whatever) would spurn into what it is currently on social media. But it heavily preys on black women's self esteem issues and insecurities...so I can I can see why it appeals to many black women. To me it was too anti-black and antilogical for me to get on board with it.
 

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Ya'll cant be serious with this shyt:russ: If a bytch says some dumb shyt to you then grab her by the scruff of her neck and ridicule her mercilessly. If a bytch nikka got a problem with you, then box him in his mouth. If your getting aggy by what's being posted on twitter,the book, or Instagram then go outside. Who raised you fags?:what:
 

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Where in the solution are black men asked to step up and be the fathers their children need them to be?

what does this even mean?

shyt like this be blowing my mind... my pops been bustin his ass for 20 years getting this paper.

I'm tired of these widespread general statement like every black woman is a bird baby mama with multiple baby daddies who left her and all black men abandon their children.

My pops could buy your whole life. Stop talkin out your ass.

Are you surrounded by this much dysfunction?

This is why I say you're a troll.
 

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Yep.

That's the main thing. We can and should go hard on the men who left these women but as long as women are still giving them a chance our words will fall on deaf ears.


But you don't so why don't you handle that first and then come back and tell women what to do.

You = collective you, as in not specific to you personally

It's always a but, but, but ...deflect back to women... instead of being about proper action. That's not working so well in 2017 so either keep up or have a seat.
 

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They were marching for feminist issues

At 2.6 million strong, Women's Marches crush expectations

Keep thinking this shyt is some Internet strictly phenomena
Great thread breh :wow:


This shyt is getting out of control and its getting dangerous. It's not just a little internet thing because I'm seeing it more and more. These black women are out here spewing this white supremacist rhetoric about their own men not realizing they are setting a dangerous precedent at the same time. This shyt is indoctrinating millions of black women on social media with the mindset that their men are against them and should be seen as "The white people of the black community". I swear cacs done a number on us :snoop:, like another poster said the shyt is genius. Turn black women against their own men. :wow:
 
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If all these wenches got their "white knight", they'd still wouldn't be anything more than a concubine. They'll never usurp the white women in this society so being attack hounds vs bm is pointless :mjlol:


The community's a matriarchy and they're still not satisfied :ohhh:

I realized a lot of their "activism" and "protest" is coming from wanting to be exalted by white males to the same degree that white women(or sometimes Asian women) are. Its not coming from a place of actual pro-blackness.
 

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But you don't so why don't you handle that first and then come back and tell women what to do.

You = collective you, as in not specific to you personally

It's always a but, but, but ...deflect back to women... instead of being about proper action. That's not working so well in 2017 so either keep up or have a seat.
That's the problem.

I am me and those black men who abandon their kids don't represent me and by you letting them represent me you hide the existence of respectable black men and prevent sons from having good role models and stop me from helping you.

Black men aren't a hive mind and shouldn't be treated as such
 
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its true tho bro.. cause these lame bytches are respectful and cordial in real life..... they aint bout shyt in real life.

they gon smile in ya face and then write a tweet about you later... thats why everyone says this.

People's true selves come out online. This may sound weird but don't take real life seriously.
 

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I knew this would be a 5+ page thread but now it's at 10 and its been only an hour since I checked!:laff:

I haven't gotten a plat thread yet, I think I'll just type something about black feminists and post a random article in the thread, that'll do it
 

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exactly bro, these women be shy as hell and shut their mouth in public.. straight up timid and respectful..

then they run home and pop shyt.

fukking dweebs.

Same with lame dudes too.

Mad quiet and respectful in public and then go online talking CRAZY

Same with racists online.

They smile in your face and say hi to you IRL...

And then wait to come home to their laptop to call you a n***** on 4c*n or Reddit.
 
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Their plan is to repeatedly scream black male inferiority so loud that black men themselves, will begin to believe it.The sad thing is.......:merchant: it's working. There have never been so many female identified black men on the planet in any time in history. They see black men as people who are only worthy of being subjugated under black women. If a black man will not submit to their feminist ideals, then to them, this man is not worthy of a relationship. As a straight, proud masculine black man you only have two choices, submit or not deal with them at all. The choice is yours.:coffee:
 
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