People portray a facade in real life to conceal their true character.
shyt I do it myself everyday.
Have Straight Black Men become the new face of White Guilt?
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shyt I do it myself everyday.
Ironman
#Knickstape
What's a "pickme"?
Honestly I don't post on Twitter like that and none of my female friends talk like this. I figured it's trolls and all that which I genuinely don't care about and my friends an family aren't on this black men vs black women thing. A lot of hate in those tweets and I'm over here like
I don't know or interact with any of yall
Honestly I don't post on Twitter like that and none of my female friends talk like this. I figured it's trolls and all that which I genuinely don't care about and my friends an family aren't on this black men vs black women thing. A lot of hate in those tweets and I'm over here likeI don't know or interact with any of yall
PhonZhi
Veteran
I'm convinced some of you need to give the internet a break PERIOD
QueenSheba
All Star
Interesting article. 
#SOG_soldier
New York knicks and phoenix suns stan
More and more AA are starting to believe. You old asf so u just don't see it
a pick me Is woman on twitter that goes against black feministsWhat's a "pickme"?
She gets accused of only tweeting against them or support bm because they want to get wifed hence "pick me"
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Queen
CEO of #GPB
I don't really get into the gender war thing because I understand that it is ancient, most people are unaware of the root, and most people don't have the perspective to see that fighting it out is not the way to win. Fighting it out (or "let's pretend talk about it while I think of ways to blame women") is like getting sucked into a vortex that spins you around in the same eternal circle....
However, for the purpose of responding to your comment -
Black men should be respectable - period.
There should be no need to say "good black man" or "respectable black man" when speaking in general. "Black man" should suffice. But since it doesn't, there is obviously a problem. Why does anyone have to say they are a "good" or "respectable" black man if being "good and respectable" is what most black men are?
When you try to diss women on that note, you end up disrespecting yourself.
Women should not be put in the position of checking or being around foul ass, disrespectful, sex crazed, lazy, whoremongering males. There should be a standard of proper conduct enforced by other men. And it kind of is, but those men are currently called the police and we don't like that.
But where is the gathering, planning and congregating to do for self in that aspect? Where are the discussions about "policing" other men because I sure do see a lot of high-fiving or IGNORING the behavior of sex crazed, irresponsible males who manipulate and abuse women.
If that's too much work and not your responsibility, then okay. Keep telling women to just ignore the miscreants and keep your head down and mouth closed when other men are carrying on another their irresponsible conquests.
Good luck keeping up with the world.
I AM WARHOL
Veteran
I just thank god the women in my family are resonable. I talk shyt about feminist with my sisters and mom. I could never date nor marry one of these new age feminists
WHIPPEDCream
♔Evil Queen.
A "woe is me," article.Instrad of black men trying to understand where black women are coming from, they automatically become defensive victims.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
Black men are not a monolith and a black man who takes care of his children is not the same as a playa who ducks around and abandon his kids and some G rapper who raps only about beefing with other black people.I don't really get into the gender war thing because I understand that it is ancient, most people are unaware of the root, and most people don't have the perspective to see that fighting it out is not the way to win. Fighting it out (or "let's pretend talk about it while I think of ways to blame women") is like getting sucked into a vortex that spins you around in the same eternal circle....
However, for the purpose of responding to your comment -
Black men should be respectable - period.
There should be no need to say "good black man" or "respectable black man" when speaking in general. "Black man" should suffice. But since it doesn't, there is obviously a problem. Why does anyone have to say they are a "good" or "respectable" black man if being "good and respectable" is what most black men are?
When you try to diss women on that note, you end up disrespecting yourself.
Women should not be put in the position of checking or being around foul ass, disrespectful, sex crazed, lazy, whoremongering males. There should be a standard of proper conduct enforced by other men. And it kind of is, but those men are currently called the police and we don't like that.
But where is the gathering, planning and congregating to do for self in that aspect? Where are the discussions about "policing" other men because I sure do see a lot of high-fiving or IGNORING the behavior of sex crazed, irresponsible males who manipulate and abuse women.
If that's too much work and not your responsibility, then okay. Keep telling women to just ignore the miscreants and keep your head down and mouth closed when other men are carrying on another their irresponsible conquests.
So yes saying respectable black men is necessary so the young black boys know where to look for guidance.
I clearly said that policing other black men to not abandon their kids and be responsible needs to be done. It's like you didn't even read my post fully.
What i also said is that it will not work if some women are enabling them to do those things by going with playas and Gs. This solution will need both black men and black women to do their part especially when it comes promoting role models for sons of single mothers to see and encourage them to do the right thing.
Ricky Dunigan
Superstar
I don't get it, across the left leaning spectrum, but it's some type of disconnect where they are determined to push away potential allies.
Your fight ain't with me or others in the struggle. it's like trying to fight the spread of communism by fighting the non communist poor ass country next door. War by proxy, while our shared enemy bombs both countries repeatedly
Your fight ain't with me or others in the struggle. it's like trying to fight the spread of communism by fighting the non communist poor ass country next door. War by proxy, while our shared enemy bombs both countries repeatedly
I don't really get into the gender war thing because I understand that it is ancient, most people are unaware of the root, and most people don't have the perspective to see that fighting it out is not the way to win. Fighting it out (or "let's pretend talk about it while I think of ways to blame women") is like getting sucked into a vortex that spins you around in the same eternal circle....
However, for the purpose of responding to your comment -
Black men should be respectable - period.
There should be no need to say "good black man" or "respectable black man" when speaking in general. "Black man" should suffice. But since it doesn't, there is obviously a problem. Why does anyone have to say they are a "good" or "respectable" black man if being "good and respectable" is what most black men are?
When you try to diss women on that note, you end up disrespecting yourself.
Women should not be put in the position of checking or being around foul ass, disrespectful, sex crazed, lazy, whoremongering males. There should be a standard of proper conduct enforced by other men. And it kind of is, but those men are currently called the police and we don't like that.
But where is the gathering, planning and congregating to do for self in that aspect? Where are the discussions about "policing" other men because I sure do see a lot of high-fiving or IGNORING the behavior of sex crazed, irresponsible males who manipulate and abuse women.
If that's too much work and not your responsibility, then okay. Keep telling women to just ignore the miscreants and keep your head down and mouth closed when other men are carrying on another their irresponsible conquests.
@Blackout clearly said that black men should go hard on the type of men you're referring to.
Some questions though. Who raised those men? Why do women find these obviously reprehensible men acceptable mates?
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
Understanding is mutual and never one sided.
Black men and black women need to understand each other.
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Even if you don't see it "in real life", there are a lot of young people that follow these nut cases
and are being influenced by them. Young people practically live on social media these days so to
pretend it has no effect on folks is silly
and are being influenced by them. Young people practically live on social media these days so to
pretend it has no effect on folks is silly