Contrary the best place is nightclub venues lounges etcGood luck. Good that you're trying. My off days when I can go out and do that I say fukk it, turn on the PS4 or hang on the coli like a fakkit. About to be 2018 and I can't stop this no lifin' streak.
Have guys stopped approaching women in public?
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Dat ole real sh*t
You don't know what I'm "used to".
Something's obviously wrong with you if you can't even get a nikka to look in your direction.
And you assume I’m chatting shyt. There may be something wrong with me but physically I’m not terrible to look at.You don't know what I'm "used to".
Something's obviously wrong with you if you can't even get a nikka to look in your direction.
PuffTheMagicDragon
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I don't blame a lot of men for not wanting to approach. Cold approaching can get tiresome if your success rate is low to none. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. If getting curved is the only result they get they're going to lose it. Probably safer for them to stop after that or you'll have another Elliot Roger.
That's why a lot stick to internet/ dating apps or they'll just write off dating as a whole and masturbate w/e the urge hits.
That's why a lot stick to internet/ dating apps or they'll just write off dating as a whole and masturbate w/e the urge hits.
Devil Plisken…CMS
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Porn and Backpage got people fukked up. One of my brehs blows his paychecks on BP weekly SMH, this dude be bustin his ass working long hours just to have money for Backpage hoes. Saying shyt like "I don't need to bag women no more, I got backpage now!"
I swear the day me and him get into an argument/disagreement I'm roasting him for this shyt.
Funniest shyt ever
Devil Plisken…CMS
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@tizabelle
Did you ever show your picture? If you didn't it would have been extremely helpful to post a neck down selfie so people could give you the insight you were looking for.
You don't necessarily have to approach nikkax but if you make eye contact let them know it's worth their time by winking or smiling it helps
If your a professional then do things in Those circles and see if your luck changes
Did you ever show your picture? If you didn't it would have been extremely helpful to post a neck down selfie so people could give you the insight you were looking for.
You don't necessarily have to approach nikkax but if you make eye contact let them know it's worth their time by winking or smiling it helps
If your a professional then do things in Those circles and see if your luck changes
I did, it’s in the pic thread somewhere. I have done all that but when I do make eye contact they all seem to not be looking in my direction. I wouldn’t strike up a relationship in a professional setting. I don’t like the idea of approaching guys in the club,or vice Versa.
Devil Plisken…CMS
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I've heard that London has a weird vibe for black women too. Might want to make your way to NYC...Juan, Dejuan, Gustav, Apu & Joey are all waiting on you lol
what do yall be sayin to these girls when you randomly spark up conversation? i tried it at my apartment gym and she hit me with the 'boyfriend' shyt so quickStart small. Go around talking to the chicks at the grocery store, book stores, college campus, etc.
You wanna build a heathly habit like going to the gym, eating right, dressing better you feel different. Trust me.
Once you accomplish small things it’ll motivate you to keep going. Don’t relax and get comfortable and start taking days off
Cut out the video games for like 6 months. Just hang at the Coli. The internet consumes our life enough already
spencerforhire
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Did about 8 approaches instead of 10. Shyt was slim pickings with the cold weather. I did managed to get 2 phone numbers.
However I’m not keeping my hopes up my numbers are usually flakey at this point. Gonna keep trying. Today was better than yesterday with zero hookups.
However I’m not keeping my hopes up my numbers are usually flakey at this point. Gonna keep trying. Today was better than yesterday with zero hookups.
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spencerforhire
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what do yall be sayin to these girls when you randomly spark up conversation? i tried it at my apartment gym and she hit me with the 'boyfriend' shyt so quick
That’s the thing, you gotta pick your spots. I don’t approach women at the gym. And I wouldn’t like to be bothered either while I’m working out.
Try approaching women that are seating or standing. This is why I recommend bookstores or go to a nearby college campus. Go to places like Target or Whole Foods. Strike up a conversation there. I picked up a chick browsing for makeup once.
Keep in mind all this is assuming your working out, dressing right and looking your best.
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MajorVitaman
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
They just mean they don't get approached by the men THEY find attractive or have interest in. Just call it what it is.
Any halfway decent looking woman will get hollered at, shyt even ugly ones. If you don't get chatted up then you probably just have a bad aura that men pick up on.
Any halfway decent looking woman will get hollered at, shyt even ugly ones. If you don't get chatted up then you probably just have a bad aura that men pick up on.
BlackAchilles
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Did about 8 approaches instead of 10. Shyt was slim pickings with the cold weather. I did managed to get 2 phone numbers.
However I’m not keeping my hopes up my numbers are usually flakey at this point. Gonna keep trying. Today was better than yesterday with zero hookups.
Did you street harass anyone
pm me your pic, i doubt ur not cute or whatever.