Firstly, everyone thinks they're a 7....women being far more delusional than men of course. So that's the first thing we need to address, you simply might not be as attractive as you think you are. The fact that you created this thread shows the egocentric, attention whore that you are. Its not the responsibility of men to hit up every swinging pair of t*ts. You first have to internalize the ego, and settle with the option that you might not be as pretty as you think.
Secondly, women get hit on all the time, this being anecdotal, just go to your local watering hole, you're gonna find the pretty girls get hit on constantly. You're also failing to realize that a woman can approach a guy with no problem, stop visiting the forums and stop thinking its some weird unobtainable ability. Go up, say hello, and flow. Men like the attention as much as women...you're not gonna fail.
The main problem is that women aren't programmed to learn how to talk to...men (cosmic irony), unlike men, you haven't developed the right skills to make you; a social butterfly, likeable, funny, etc. So your best bet, is simply to introduce yourself to a guy, ask a few questions, get lost in his conversation and see where the night takes you.
And as always, Men are better than women, and thank god for me.