Handsome gang problems

[SheWantTheD]

Even handsome guys with confidence can run into problems because some women based on perception will automatically disregard attractive, self-assured men as being too cocky or arrogant.

The amount of women like this are far outnumbered by the ones that aren’t especially if their young. And you can always persuade the women that think you are a player and don’t want anything to do with you because of that belief. And most women don’t want a man that other women don’t want.

 

[Big Boss]

 

[Big Boss]

I don't know about the envious looks from the dudes. It's either passive aggressive compliments like "I bet you don't have any problems getting women up at this place" or "where them hoes at, put me up on some" or I just ignore dudes who I deem ain't trying to scoop up a heavy bag.

Me: I don't even pull them hoes like that bro. I attract them, but I'm no player.

I don't consider myself Hand Gang, it's more Young Attractive Gang.
I say this because I still get the young HS and college age broads sniffing around while I'm twice the age of some of em.

nikkas get mad when you don't give them a girl number


On the outside they like


On the inside they like

 

[MoeDollaZ$]

Being ugly is way easier especially when u hate attention. Looks are subjective anyways. Uglyness is also based on personality too. I've been called ugly a gang of times by all types of people. I don't take it personally I like being ugly it makes talking to women easier anyways.

 

[badboys11]

just trying to make a living and random people fall in love with you

 

[BornStar]

Older women are more bold about calling young men handsome. Women around my age are threatened by me. These chicks will do a whole lot to get my attention but they won’t talk to me unless I initiate the conversation. I’ve seen chicks walk up to certain dudes easy. There are also chicks that go out of their way to make sure they don’t show that they find you attractive. Like a cashier chick showing no emotion and rushing you out the store but the person before I they was all smiles and conversing

This is definitely the truest shyt in this bytch . Them damn cashiers. It works every time. Once you Leave you hear the "hey! How are you!" All enthusiastic To the next customer.

 

[Shadow King]

Bodies is overrated. Only dudes who don't value themselves have a lot of bodies. You can't really get a quality woman with a lot of bodies. You two can't and won't mesh.

Besides, there are a lot of sex addicts out there and that works a lot differently than relationships.

I really wish we stop with the oversexed experience. It's not good for our people much less, any group of people

False

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Im 6'4

Females call me sexy daddy


My exes feel the need to remind me that I hang low


The trifecta

@SheWantTheD
@Bodie's Durag

Dap+Rep

 

[O.G.B]

The amount of women like this are far outnumbered by the ones that aren’t especially if their young.

This doesn't change the fact there are still women that won't deal with some handsome men they also regard as arrogant or aloof. And the amount of other open minded women are irrelevant in situations where you are pursuing specific females who already have an unfavorable sentiment towards you.

And you can always persuade the women that think you are a player and don’t want anything to do with you because of that belief.

This won't always work with women who have steadfast opinions on the matter, some attractive females with a lot of suitors or with women in certain social settings.

And most women don’t want a man that other women don’t want.

Really?

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

i feel imo, the more good-looking, attractive, handsome you are...the harder it is baggin women. They have their guard higher up than normal and the shyt tests come more frequent and quicker. On the other hand, sex is sometimes easier to get albeit not with women you want or you think is on your level (lookswise).

i also feel like because you are perceived in a certain way by women, the minute they sniff insecurity or shyness off of you, its a WRAP compared to regular nikkas where i think they give more of a lee-way with.

Its like " nikka you're handsome...so how are you nervous/fidgeting and not gettin me moist right now? naa nikka, BYE"

versus

"hahaha its alright..But yeah, coffee sounds good"

different bar levels set.

THIS! Omg...this describes my situation to a T! It's like....it's hard to find a good analogy...but it's like you are tainted. It's weird as shyt. Just last night I had this older woman say to me "I still can't believe you're single!? like why?" I told her I get hit on often and she said "I bet you do "

Its so hard too because being good looking but being shy or introverted or lacking self confidence makes things so hard. Like you said, I have no problem fukking less attractive women (let's be real, ugly). Like none. Like I don't even have to try. But those that are between like 7.5-9 are hard to bag bc they don't trust you or they think you are tainted bc you aren't stuck up.

How do we fix this problem, other than having more self confidence and self trust?

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

You sure about That, we tend to get way more lee-way. Grinding with the best looking girls or thickest girls for more than one song.

Girls willing to do your homework and give you rides. I think I had someone be my personal driver for college multiple times. They were choosing. The zone out every other guy at a party just to be with you. The constant focus to pull you. Breh, girls don't do this for average brehs. At least on average.

I am not saying you are wrong but there is way more good than it was bad for me coming up. It wasn't just me. I knew some of my handsome Christian friends that even when they are the few times they did, the girl was a dime piece. I can't agree with this. I had friends who were good guys who girls like, the guys looks physically was Significant for their female option interests. Most of them liked me more and first, after getting curved and tricked on, the ladies moved on down the list.

Everybody has their own story. The guy you quoted is definitely right. It just isn't that way with all good looking guys

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

or he could be black from the Pacific Northwest, Canada, California, or Pennsylvania ......I know I'm reachign with the stereotypes lol

I do live in the Pacific northwest

 

[BaggerofTea]

When you are handsome and muscular, dealing with women is traumatic. They stare and stalk all the fukking time.

A good problem to deal with, but a problem nonetheless

 

[BaggerofTea]

And women bartenders fill your your glass up to

 

[HearNoEvil]

Checking into the gym and the receptionist is eye fukking you off top.