Handsome gang problems

[Ms. Quick]

Intelligence is attractive to a woman but being a nerdy nikka isn't. You gotta find a way to tone down the nerdiness. I used to have issues with that as well but when you find the right one, she will love you no matter what but even she would like you to turn it down. Women like simple shyt and like to be able to communicate it without much depth. They don't need all of that for the 4th ep of the Wire. They got gay YouTube personalities they would rather hear break their shows down.

Unless that nerdy nikka is attractive... A lot of them aren't though. And they tend to be the diet black types, if you know what i mean. Low key kind of corny and thinking they bop better with non-black women due to their interests. Takes a minute before they stop fronting and relax a bit, but generally they are seen as lames by most I can admit, but those are the types I vibe with organically the most.

But I'm a true introvert with well, questionable hobbies for a woman. Sure, I satisfy stereotypical female interests in their designated spaces, but for one hobby in particular--like learning how to unlock bootloaders to install custom software or cracking open phones to see how they work, that's guaranteed to be all male, if not mostly. So for some topics, all I got is depth, but I see why most men think women appreciate simple, easy to grasp topics purely due to gendered interests, which tend to be on the money I might add.

But I was an overweight shut in during my formative years who later lost weight when my personality was written in stone. Had I had the typical female experience I can't say I would be the same person I am today.

 

[#1 pick]

You know what, now that I think about it yeah. Cause if they just got paper, they can get any girl they want. Plus average isn't ugly, so you would still get some girls who would find you attractive. And a woman's insecurities won't be that high

Yes, they are. The women I mean. In college, I had the most issues with them. They had a roster and guys put in legit effort to be with them. When you attractive or desirable, the baddest chicks naturally like you on some good fit shyt and most dudes don't have a shot so you don't really have to be A1. You can be lame, goofy like Will Smith, and still eat. But with average girls, they have so many options. Too much comp. At least for dating. Obviously not for marriage.

That's why is strange when real pretty girls are thots. They don't really have to date much and clean house with what's seen as quality men. Some were thots before they got pretty and just couldn't flip the switch.

 

[AAKing23]

Older women are more bold about calling young men handsome. Women around my age are threatened by me. These chicks will do a whole lot to get my attention but they won’t talk to me unless I initiate the conversation. I’ve seen chicks walk up to certain dudes easy. There are also chicks that go out of their way to make sure they don’t show that they find you attractive. Like a cashier chick showing no emotion and rushing you out the store but the person before I they was all smiles and conversing

Man this the truest post in the thread

 

[Kasgoinjail]

We want receipts!

 

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Word of advice for guys here who think they’re seen #Ugly or #Average gang: when we guys think a chick is attractive it’s more often than not because of her looks; when women consider guys handsome it’s usually because of how well-put he looks. This includes clothing, posture, and vibe. Always keep your shoulders rested back and walk with your chin up. Convince yourself that you’re the man every time you leave your house.

 

[#1 pick]

Word of advice for guys here who think they’re seen #Ugly or #Average gang: when we guys think a chick is attractive it’s more often than not because of her looks; when women consider guys handsome it’s usually because of how well-put he looks. This includes clothing, posture, and vibe. Always keep your shoulders rested back and walk with your chin up. Convince yourself that you’re the man every time you leave your house.

Not really. Most women like face and height. Like us men like face and body. You could be mismatched, dress like shyt and she gonna be like, damn he fine. That Coogi down to the socks, don't work on women like that. Money and status is always a game changer as well. Also whiteness is a benefit for cacs but for us Black folks, looks clearly matter.

 

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Not really. Most women like face and height. Like us men. You could be mismatched, dress like shyt and she gonna be like, damn he fine. That Coogi down to the socks, don't work on women like that. Money and status is always a game changer as well. Also whiteness is a benefit for cacs but for us Black folks, looks clearly matter.

Oh, absolutely. I’m not saying height and face don’t count. You don’t have to do as much if you have those. But I’m saying it’s not the be-all end-all. This guy I know has the most bodies of any dude I personally know going over the hundreds. He’s not the most handsome and he’s actually pretty short. Just has that charisma going for him which got him lots of status.

 

[#1 pick]

Oh, absolutely. I’m not saying height and face don’t count. You don’t have to do as much if you have those. But I’m saying it’s not the be-all end-all. This guy I know has the most bodies of any dude I personally know going over the hundreds. He’s not the most handsome and he’s actually pretty short. Just has that charisma going for him which got him lots of status.

Bodies is overrated. Only dudes who don't value themselves have a lot of bodies. You can't really get a quality woman with a lot of bodies. You two can't and won't mesh.

Besides, there are a lot of sex addicts out there and that works a lot differently than relationships.

I really wish we stop with the oversexed experience. It's not good for our people much less, any group of people

 

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Bodies is overrated. Only dudes who don't value themselves have a lot of bodies. You can't really get a quality woman with a lot of bodies. You two can't and won't mesh.

Besides, there are a lot of sex addicts out there and that works a lot differently than relationships.

I really wish we stop with the oversexed experience. It's not good for our people much less, any group of people

Not all dudes want quality women though, sad to say. Some dudes just want the power that comes with conquering.

 

[SupaHotFire]

Not really. Most women like face and height. Like us men like face and body. You could be mismatched, dress like shyt and she gonna be like, damn he fine. That Coogi down to the socks, don't work on women like that. Money and status is always a game changer as well. Also whiteness is a benefit for cacs but for us Black folks, looks clearly matter.

Lol face doesn't matter to women anywhere near as much as it does to men. I will give you height though, that's one place where women seem to be very discriminatory. Overall presentation, plus stuff like personality, profession, power, matter more to them than men.

I see way more mediocre men punching above their weight in relationships than the opposite, so obviously something else is going on.

 

[#1 pick]

Lol face doesn't matter to women anywhere near as much as it does to men. I will give you height though, that's one place where women seem to be very discriminatory. Overall presentation, plus stuff like personality, profession, power, matter more to them than men.

I see way more mediocre men punching above their weight in relationships than the opposite, so obviously something else is going on.

I completely disagree. Maybe even more so. Some dudes watch to much IG and see celebs and think otherwise when in reality. Attractive women heavily be choosing on attractive men.

Relationships are impossible to compare as that isn't the ultimate for most men and is for women. Relationships are like, I am on my 15th or 16th choice but he's a good guy and etc.

While dating and kicking it, it's probably her first or second choice and believe me, they aren't punching above their weight. More times than not, it's the women punching above their weight.

 

[SupaHotFire]

I completely disagree. Maybe even more so. Some dudes watch to much IG and see celebs and think otherwise when in reality. Attractive women heavily be choosing on attractive men.

Relationships are impossible to compare as that isn't the ultimate for most men and is for women. Relationships are like, I am on my 15th or 16th choice but he's a good guy and etc.

While dating and kicking it, it's probably her first or second choice and believe me, they aren't punching above their weight. More times than not, it's the women punching above their weight.

It doesn't matter what choice they are on though. Obviously everyone would be fine dating a model, but there are relatively few people on earth who are that good looking. At the end of the day, these things don't matter to women as much as your confidence, personality, ability to provide, and social standing.

I see your point, but why is it that men are rarely the one's settling when it comes to physical aesthetics in relationships?

Men care way more about looks, and less so about other attributes. As long she is attractive we tend to overlook a lot of other things... Meanwhile men in here are talking about how they are socially awkward/weird and have scared of plenty of women who were initially feeling them lol. Since when has not being able to hold a conversation stopped a dime from getting laid/ a bf?

At the end of the day, we live in a society that has higher standards for women when it comes to their appearance...Meanwhile I see plenty of average dudes, dressed like bums, with attractive girlfriends. Looks are simply not as important to succeed as a man in this society, but they certainly help lol.

 

[Ms. Quick]

Lol face doesn't matter to women anywhere near as much as it does to men. I will give you height though, that's one place where women seem to be very discriminatory. Overall presentation, plus stuff like personality, profession, power, matter more to them than men.

I see way more mediocre men punching above their weight in relationships than the opposite, so obviously something else is going on.

That's a lie.

I'd forgive a soft body over a messed up face any day. Maybe a little pouch too. He ain't got to be perfect, I just got to want him inside of me without thinking of added benefits like money. But that's besides the point I guess since men have a number of sexual strategies to compensate for looks, and obviously women trade lust for security all the time so...

 

[Bumblebreh]

Lol face doesn't matter to women anywhere near as much as it does to men. I will give you height though, that's one place where women seem to be very discriminatory. Overall presentation, plus stuff like personality, profession, power, matter more to them than men.

I see way more mediocre men punching above their weight in relationships than the opposite, so obviously something else is going on.

looks matter a lot to younger women and those other qualities matter when it comes to settling down and starting a family.

 

[SupaHotFire]

That's a lie.

I'd forgive a soft body over a messed up face any day. Maybe a little pouch too. He ain't got to be perfect, I just got to want him inside of me without thinking of added benefits like money. But that's besides the point I guess since men have a number of sexual strategies to compensate for looks, and obviously women trade lust for security all the time so...

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So women care less about looks than men. There are thousands of mediocre looking, educated, successful women from multiple races all over the U.S., who are struggling with dating. Meanwhile the attractive secretary's, strippers, school teachers, and hair dressers are getting wifed left and right. Which just proved my point