Focus on how other men are looking at you brehs
Thinking that you're the center of attention because of your looks and not your overly flamboyant attitude brehs.
Of course looks fade, but before they do I can't imagine a true bond with someone I don't want to have sex with. And that doesn't require a model looking man either.
shyt tests are a good thing and It's women trying to quickly find out if your a viable candidate to have sex with.They have their guard higher up than normal and the shyt tests come more frequent and quicker
@CarmelBarbiei feel imo, the more good-looking, attractive, handsome you are...the harder it is baggin women. They have their guard higher up than normal and the shyt tests come more frequent and quicker. On the other hand, sex is sometimes easier to get albeit not with women you want or you think is on your level (lookswise).
i also feel like because you are perceived in a certain way by women, the minute they sniff insecurity or shyness off of you, its a WRAP compared to regular nikkas where i think they give more of a lee-way with.
Its like " nikka you're handsome...so how are you nervous/fidgeting and not gettin me moist right now? naa nikka, BYE"
versus
"hahaha its alright..But yeah, coffee sounds good"
different bar levels set.
Yea when I glowed up I noticed broads calling themselves "humbling me"Even handsome guys with confidence can run into problems because some women based on perception will automatically disregard attractive, self-assured men as being too cocky or arrogant.
THIS! Omg...this describes my situation to a T! It's like....it's hard to find a good analogy...but it's like you are tainted. It's weird as shyt. Just last night I had this older woman say to me "I still can't believe you're single!? like why?" I told her I get hit on often and she said "I bet you do "
Its so hard too because being good looking but being shy or introverted or lacking self confidence makes things so hard. Like you said, I have no problem fukking less attractive women (let's be real, ugly). Like none. Like I don't even have to try. But those that are between like 7.5-9 are hard to bag bc they don't trust you or they think you are tainted bc you aren't stuck up.
How do we fix this problem, other than having more self confidence and self trust?
Gay dudes asking for your number :damehands:
Older women are more bold about calling young men handsome. Women around my age are threatened by me. These chicks will do a whole lot to get my attention but they won’t talk to me unless I initiate the conversation. I’ve seen chicks walk up to certain dudes easy. There are also chicks that go out of their way to make sure they don’t show that they find you attractive. Like a cashier chick showing no emotion and rushing you out the store but the person before I they was all smiles and conversing
LOL crying over the fact that some men pick up on this. Guilty af