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If I could be two inches taller I could join tallgang and be a triple threat outchea :beli:
I am 5'8" 120-130 (shut tha fukk up y'all...fast metabolism).
No issues. At all...young and older ladies give me attention, talk to ME...shyt...I've even had bytches tell me to take my earbuds out so they can holla.
My mom taught me that height shyt don't matter.
 

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So women care less about looks than men. There a thousands of mediocre looking, educated, successful women from multiple races all over the U.S., who are struggling with dating. Meanwhile the attractive secretary's, strippers, hair dressers are getting wifed left and right. Which just proved my point :yeshrug:
Think of this way, when we finger ourselves we don't imagine a wallet stuffed with bills, but women will take it, maybe even turn around and spend it on a broke nikka who she knows ain't shyt but turns her on. Desire cannot be negotiated, bodies can on the other hand...
 
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looks matter a lot to younger women and those other qualities matter when it comes to settling down and starting a family.

I'll definitely concede that looks matter more to younger women than older. But at the end of the day, women care less about looks overall than men. So many women dressed to the nines, regardless of age, and their boyfriends/husbands look like they just got out of bed.

There was a study showing dating ideals for men and women as they get older. Women tended to be most attracted to men around their age range, while men wanted women in their early twenties, even when they were old as fukk lmao. Now tell me what exactly does a middle-aged man have in common with a college-aged girl?
 
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Think of this way, when we finger ourselves we don't imagine a wallet stuffed with bills, but women will take it, maybe even turn around and spend it on a broke nikka who she knows ain't shyt but turns her on. Desire cannot be negotiated, bodies can on the other hand...

That's great and all, but at the end of the day ugly men are still being chosen for marriage by women better looking more often than the opposite. And that's simply because of what I mentioned.

Success, clout, intelligence, social-standing, matter way less to men, as long as we find them physically attractive...
There's a reason why nobody cares about the unattractive woman who is a doctor, researcher, lawyer, scientist etc. because their value is tied more to their looks :yeshrug:
 

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That's great and all, but at the end of the day ugly men are still being chosen for marriage by women better looking more often than the opposite. And that's simply because of what I mentioned.

Success, clout, intelligence, social-standing, matter way less to men, as long as we find them physically attractive...
There's a reason why nobody cares about the unattractive woman who is a doctor, researcher, lawyer, scientist etc. because their value is tied more to their looks :yeshrug:

Oh, I'm not disputing any of that, all I'm saying is as far as legitimate lust goes looks does matter. Of course any ugly dude with money can rent a good looking woman.
 

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i feel imo, the more good-looking, attractive, handsome you are...the harder it is baggin women. They have their guard higher up than normal and the shyt tests come more frequent and quicker. On the other hand, sex is sometimes easier to get albeit not with women you want or you think is on your level (lookswise).

i also feel like because you are perceived in a certain way by women, the minute they sniff insecurity or shyness off of you, its a WRAP compared to regular nikkas where i think they give more of a lee-way with.

Its like " :dahell::why:nikka you're handsome...so how are you nervous/fidgeting and not gettin me moist right now? naa nikka, BYE:hhh:"

versus

"hahaha its alright..But yeah, coffee sounds good"

different bar levels set.
 

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i feel imo, the more good-looking, attractive, handsome you are...the harder it is baggin women. They have their guard higher up than normal and the shyt tests come more frequent and quicker. On the other hand, sex is sometimes easier to get albeit not with women you want or you think is on your level (lookswise).

i also feel like because you are perceived in a certain way by women, the minute they sniff insecurity or shyness off of you, its a WRAP compared to regular nikkas where i think they give more of a lee-way with.

Its like " :dahell::why:nikka you're handsome...so how are you nervous/fidgeting and not gettin me moist right now? naa nikka, BYE:hhh:"

versus

"hahaha its alright..But yeah, coffee sounds good"

different bar levels set.
You sure about That, we tend to get way more lee-way. Grinding with the best looking girls or thickest girls for more than one song.

Girls willing to do your homework and give you rides. I think I had someone be my personal driver for college multiple times. They were choosing. The zone out every other guy at a party just to be with you. The constant focus to pull you. Breh, girls don't do this for average brehs. At least on average.

I am not saying you are wrong but there is way more good than it was bad for me coming up. It wasn't just me. I knew some of my handsome Christian friends that even when they are the few times they did, the girl was a dime piece. I can't agree with this. I had friends who were good guys who girls like, the guys looks physically was Significant for their female option interests. Most of them liked me more and first, after getting curved and tricked on, the ladies moved on down the list.
 

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i feel imo, the more good-looking, attractive, handsome you are...the harder it is baggin women. They have their guard higher up than normal and the shyt tests come more frequent and quicker. On the other hand, sex is sometimes easier to get albeit not with women you want or you think is on your level (lookswise).

i also feel like because you are perceived in a certain way by women, the minute they sniff insecurity or shyness off of you, its a WRAP compared to regular nikkas where i think they give more of a lee-way with.

Its like " :dahell::why:nikka you're handsome...so how are you nervous/fidgeting and not gettin me moist right now? naa nikka, BYE:hhh:"

versus

"hahaha its alright..But yeah, coffee sounds good"

different bar levels set.


Even handsome guys with confidence can run into problems because some women based on perception will automatically disregard attractive, self-assured men as being too cocky or arrogant.
 
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Even handsome guys with confidence can run into problems because some women based on perception will automatically disregard attractive, self-assured men as being too cocky or arrogant.

See this is what I'm talking about. It's not as cut and dry as it is with men. There are women who literally refuse to date men who are better looking than them. :mjlol:What kind of man would ever do something like that? Most of the men I know who are good with women aren't even all that great looking, but they do have better personalities.

It's cool that some men get more attention for being above average, at the end of the day it just doesn't matter as much for us. Now if you're truly ugly that may be a different story.

Oh, I'm not disputing any of that, all I'm saying is as far as legitimate lust goes looks does matter. Of course any ugly dude with money can rent a good looking woman.

Lol idk what you mean by "rent" :mjlol:. I hate to break it to you, but looks fade. Most women with half a brain look at other facets of a person in regards to an ideal long term partner.

Now when it comes to casual hookups, yes women tend to be more vain and have higher standards than men.

Btw this is coming from someone who is in the gym 6/7 days a week. I'm certainly not model handsome, but I get enough attention. :ehh: Looks only get you so far, especially if you're awkward.
 

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See this is what I'm talking about. It's not as cut and dry as it is with men. There are women who literally refuse to date men who are better looking than them. :mjlol:What kind of man would ever do something like that? Most of the men I know who are good with women aren't even all that great looking, but they do have better personalities.

It's cool that some men get more attention for being above average, at the end of the day it just doesn't matter as much for us. Now if you're truly ugly that may be a different story.



Lol idk what you mean by "rent" :mjlol:. I hate to break it to you, but looks fade. Most women with half a brain look at other facets of a person in regards to an ideal long term partner.

Now when it comes to casual hookups, yes women tend to be more vain and have higher standards than men.

Btw this is coming from someone who is in the gym 6/7 days a week. I'm certainly not model handsome, but I get enough attention. :ehh: Looks only get you so far, especially if you're awkward.
Of course looks fade, but before they do I can't imagine a true bond with someone I don't want to have sex with. And that doesn't require a model looking man either.
 

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I am 5'8" 120-130 (shut tha fukk up y'all...fast metabolism).
No issues. At all...young and older ladies give me attention, talk to ME...shyt...I've even had bytches tell me to take my earbuds out so they can holla.
My mom taught me that height shyt don't matter.
My girl is 5'7" :mjlol:

You can be my side piece :jawalrus:
 

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Not really. Most women like face and height. Like us men like face and body. You could be mismatched, dress like shyt and she gonna be like, damn he fine. That Coogi down to the socks, don't work on women like that. Money and status is always a game changer as well. Also whiteness is a benefit for cacs but for us Black folks, looks clearly matter.
That ain’t true, a man that can dress will catch women’s eyes with the quickness. Face, body, height, clothes etc all matter. Will women overlook some things for others? Of course
 

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I am 5'8" 120-130 (shut tha fukk up y'all...fast metabolism).
No issues. At all...young and older ladies give me attention, talk to ME...shyt...I've even had bytches tell me to take my earbuds out so they can holla.
My mom taught me that height shyt don't matter.
You an inch shorter than average. Usher is 5’7 even if he wasn’t famous and a singer he’d still be pulling women like crazy.
 
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