Nah fukk that
You can have his back but then you a scumbag too
I empathize with ppl not from a friend perspective, but that ppl with power will control everyone around them with threats
That doesn't absolve them tho either
The world, nor the human condition doesn't work like that. Do you know how many people try to intervene at some point, only for the woman to go back to said situation, due to whatever deeper fukked up rationale? They have to be committed to leaving for good, which will take an inner strength that goes against their inclination of thinking of an even worse case.
This happens every day. Matter of fact, I'm sure almost every woman has had some sort of toxic physical abusive relationship at some point in life. Some may say "oh we've fought, but not like that." Well, first off, what's "not like that" entail, and what does fighting him look like? In the cities, courts will tell women that file charges and restraining orders "don't waste our time." Police will tell homes that "they're not coming back."
I'm friends with A LOT of women, and have deep significant conversations, and let's say 98 out of 100, have told me about at least 1 physically abusive relationship. This is women of different ages, different cities, different states, different points in life, occupation levels, upbringing...and they still have stories like that. Most stay long after the incident occurs. And 1 of the 2 that haven't have told me of a personal situation told me of seeing their parents fight. If all of these dudes are taught so much honor and integrity, where the dudes that be beating the ish out of these chicks come from then?
This will eventually die down, and he'll just be a punchline. Especially after an apology tour in a few years...that's if he's not in jail for the other ish. People still absolve Dre, and Vado choked out Tahiry on TV in a room full of people and no one did anything, or even cared.