you used a ton of cliches in your post lol. Just say you want a functioning adult
i don't understand how these dudes don't realize they're getting played
Before covid, i would have said the same thing.
Shiit happens when you get finessed into this illusion called, "LOVE".
But it's gotta happen and that's how men learn.
Crazy shiit is you could have been GMB for years, after thinking you got that shiit out of your system, then you meet a supposed special someone
who, with all her tricks and sorcery... hypnotize you and bam! Next thing you know, you've got alimony and child support, house gone and you back i your momma's basement.
Trust me fam... shiiit happens and when it does, your mind is in a state of sheer chemical imbalance and you do not have the acuity and fortitude to think straight. That's when she starts to check out and then extracts every resource from you/makes it seem like you're the crazy one and you're the one doing ever thing wrong (aka, gaslit).
Bytches is succubi and will suck the life force out of you if you're unlucky. And it can happen to any man at ANY time in his life.
Watch 'em.
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It's hard to even feel bad for him. Her mom said, “What is so wrong with traveling and buying a few bags?”i don't understand how these dudes don't realize they're getting played
Functioning adults don't always have those traits.you used a ton of cliches in your post lol. Just say you want a functioning adult
Pops told him to be a man about his.
Functioning adults don't always have those traits.
I don't know which world some men grew in, where doing nice things for a woman has ever guaranteed anything.
A good deed performed for a woman a week ago= a decade ago in her mind. That's why it's always been stupid trying to get women using temporary things like money.
The greatest form of love is admiration, and money triggers many things(greed, envy etc) but rarely admiration. I've heard and read of so many cases like this and in this part of the world, they usually end with the woman brutally murdered.
which is why that whole “be a man and take care of your woman” logic is flawed.
invest in the development of any woman, but not yourself and see what happens.
I once had a girlfriend that I looked after “the right way”. I took care of home, paid some her bills, and tried to be the voice of reason. She showed me who she was by telling me she felt like she was in jail because I told her not to post half naked pics, to manage money better, and discipline her kids.
I don’t even have to tell y’all the rest...