She left me brehs

[J.E.T.S]

yup people can't fathom but alot of us brehs are in our 30s and 40s we've been there. There are brehs here who have been through divorces, broken engagements.

Sad thing as well she'll paint you as trash to new brehs she's cavorting with.

Of course she is. Everything will be his fault and she needed to leave for “her peace “.

She’s going to detail all the “issues” she had with her ex and the new guy is going to eat that information up.

Women also get off on bragging about “rings” they’ve turned down.

 

[diggy]

I even begged her like a fukkkng simp even though i knew it was pointless.

You will regret this...next relationship that falls apart, do not beg or shed a tear in front of her..Just say okay, take the L and call it a day.....talking from experience. She may even start to question herself at that point.

JBO can hold you over until you find someone else to ease the pain. We have enough degenerates on this site to give you info on how to cope and pull some memory erasing skeezers.

One of her friends is probably waiting on you, jealous of what she had



Her friend...."She aint treat you right, but I will"

 

[J.E.T.S]

Yup women tree branch, just like a job not leaving till another one is set up. And the thing with women they plan this way in advance. It's not like just the day off or the week or month. They talk with their moms, sisters etc. so when them thangs dropped its done and over. That's why women rarely come back its never really a spur of the moment type ish

I've said this story before I was dating this chick for like a year plus she always had by her bedside a photo of us. One day I went to her spot and the photo wasn't there. I mentioned it and she said oh I was "cleaning" and just forgot to put it back. A week later got dumped

“Monkey branch” breh lol

One of mine had a necklace. She stopped wearing it then she abruptly stopped acting obsessed with me. Two weeks later, she said she wasn’t happy and left.

My last situation, she out of the blue started lying about her whereabouts, making excuses not to come over, then started creating an issue over EVERYTHING. Mind you that she would come to my house every single day and get pissed if I ever told her I needed time alone or to go out with my homies. She didn’t even like me getting my locs retwisted by a woman. This bytch even had the audacity to get angry over me asking why her friends was able to visit her house, but she never once invited me over in nearly a year of dating. lol

 

[MikelArteta]

“Monkey branch” breh lol

One of mine had a necklace. She stopped wearing it then she abruptly stopped acting obsessed with me. Two weeks later, she said she wasn’t happy and left.

My last situation, she out of the blue started lying about her whereabouts, making excuses not to come over, then started creating an issue over EVERYTHING. Mind you that she would come to my house every single day and get pissed if I ever told her I needed time alone or to go out with my homies. She didn’t even like me getting my locs retwisted by a woman. This bytch even had the audacity to get angry over me asking why her friends was able to visit her house, but she never once invited me over in nearly a year of dating. lol

lol yeah monkey branch

And yup that's how it goes, if you've been through it once you can pick up the signs. It's never just out of the blue.

 

[J.E.T.S]

You will regret this...next relationship that falls apart, do not beg or shed a tear in front of her..Just say okay, take the L and call it a day.....talking from experience. She may even start to question herself at that point.

JBO can hold you over until you find someone else to ease the pain. We have enough degenerates on this site to give you info on how to cope and pull some memory erasing skeezers.

One of her friends is probably waiting on you, jealous of what she had



Her friend...."She aint treat you right, but I will"

Tbh he needs to avoid JBO and porn. It’s going to make him feel worse. Last thing he needs to be doing is jacking off frequently and being a sad sack of shyt.

Bro needs to do SOMETHING to better and improve himself.

 

[Guess Who]

The surprise propose is corny af. People watch too many movies. I ain't doing all that surprise shyt especially if I'm spending some money on it

Man my ex who I’m talking about in this thread…we decided to get married together, no proposal. Then after we were married she spent several years asking for a proposal, like riding me on this shyt, because she felt she missed out on the experience. I suspect she felt this way because her friends all had their proposals on IG and whatnot.

Don’t date women who are overly invested in romcoms breh. RED fukkING FLAG.

 

[Ohene]

That false sense of hope and rumination is a tough MF to overcome after a breakup. Literally feels like you’re going insane.

That pain is worse than physical pain.

thats why its best to block the number/social media
if you cut off all methods for her to contact you you cut off all hope of the rekindling and are able to heal

speaking from experience. i once had trouble sleeping after a break up. soon as i blocked her i slept like a baby. the human mind is sumn else

 

[semicko82]

With all due respect to you OP, you are better off going to a close family member or friend about your break up rather then thecoli.

Dudes here are legit sociopaths and narcissists who will crack jokes and make fun of you during your most vulnerable state which is just crazy to me because we as black men need all the support we can get from each other but unfortunately even your own people don’t really have your back.

This

 

[J.E.T.S]

lol yeah monkey branch

And yup that's how it goes, if you've been through it once you can pick up the signs. It's never just out of the blue.

Once they start acting differently, either cheat in the most openly disrespectful way or simply leave without explanation.

I can promise you that women is preparing to pull some bullshyt on you. & yes, usually it’s another guy or even having access to guys better than you. Don’t listen to anyone telling you differently.

 

[J.E.T.S]

thats why its best to block the number/social media
if you cut off all methods for her to contact you you cut off all hope of the rekindling and are able to heal

speaking from experience. i once had trouble sleeping after a break up. soon as i blocked her i slept like a baby. the human mind is sumn else

It truly is.

Especially, after time heals. You will literally will be months or years out of the relationship wondering what kind of spell you were under. Eating good, sleeping like a baby, and not even thinking about that person anymore.

I’ve seen my exes with new dudes and I would literally feel sorry for what the guy is about to go through.

Love feels like voodoo. lol one day you’re ready to commit that and the next you’ve snapped out of it wondering what the hell was wrong with you.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

#GMB

 

[J.E.T.S]

Man my ex who I’m talking about in this thread…we decided to get married together, no proposal. Then after we were married she spent several years asking for a proposal, like riding me on this shyt, because she felt she missed out on the experience. I suspect she felt this way because her friends all had their proposals on IG and whatnot.

Don’t date women who are overly invested in romcoms breh. RED fukkING FLAG.

You ain’t lying. Not only that but if your girl is heavy into social media, depressed, or overly invested in the lives of others just go ahead and leave.

 

[The Pledge]

We were together for 5 years, met at 25 and she just told me she don't wanna be with me anymore. We were going through rough patches but I was willing to fight through them but i guess she wasn't.

Brehs I bought this beautiful engagement ring custom made and I was ready and boom she's done with me just like that after all the shyt we went through. It feels like I lost my best friend and I just don't know how I'm gonna get through this shyt. I ain't never hurt this bad before. I even begged her like a fukkkng simp even though i knew it was pointless. I can't eat and I'm barely sleeping I'm scared of what I might do

Stay strong breh. It’ll get better, trust me

You need to hit them apps and smash some single mothers.

 

[diggy]

Tbh he needs to avoid JBO and porn. It’s going to make him feel worse. Last thing he needs to be doing is jacking off frequently and being a sad sack of shyt.

Bro needs to do SOMETHING to better and improve himself.

JBO was a joke

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

Since your name is Water, you should have told her “bytch without me, you gonna die of thirst”