She left me brehs

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Delete everything, block her from all socials and move on. Even block yourself if need be.


She doesn’t give af if you're sad, probably likes that you are or some sick shyt.


And fukk what these nikkas talking about, don’t give af what some other bum doing. He most likely wants something she has and will check out when gotten. And if not, so what. Hope they both get incurable STD’s and keep it moving.
 

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She found better dikk :manny:
And I know you are more then likely stalking her Instagram if she hasn't blocked you yet but If you think it hurts now, wait till you see her all boo'd up and looking happy with the "bigger dikk having nikka' she was cheating on you with that made her decide she didn't wanna be with you anymore. :sadcam:
Man the coli is the worst place to come for support :dead: breh should have just kept it to a diary
 

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This. Women don’t break up to be single. She found someone else and was just plotting her escape.


i’m sure there will be brehs in here writing paragraphs but these 2 sentences I quoted are all you need.


Hate to say it, but this is pretty fukking true. This is especially after a 5 year relationship. All of the things having a man brings in terms of utility is not something women usually jettison for singlehood after such a long stretch of having those benefits. She likely already has someone else for sure.

Move past it. Do NOT fukk around looking through her social media (you are probably going to do it anyway, but it is very bad for your ability to move forward). And just accept the pain; dont try to fight that part. Heal properly so you can move forward without any speed bumps. The shyts going to hurt bad, and its supposed too. Don't let the podcast, hyper macho bullshyt online convince you that this isn't supposed to be painful, or that it will be brief. It won't be; 5 years is going to take some serious time to properly move past.

But...

Do not take her back if the situation arises. Move forward. Under no circumstances do you take her back.
 

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She said i didn't support her the way she needed during some hard times but she didn't realize how she needed to be supported until recently which I don't think is fair. I tried my best. She also was pushing for me to propose last year but I wasn't ready so I spent the last year getting ready but seems like she spent that time detaching.

For the last 6 or so months sex became sparse and she would get annoyed when I tried pushing up on her and for the last two months we just didn't so anything anymore. That built resentment in me and we would have petty Lil arguments over bs.
Someday you'll be with somebody that will help you realize how stupid you were for feeling this way in this moment when you had really just been blessed with extricating someone from the closest seat to the stage of your life's production ... Hell, you had them in the show

And for 5 years


And if somebody can walk out of a relationship after being with somebody that long on some "I needed to rationalize my own feelings on my own time and I couldn't communicate with my partner this whole time" they're literally worthless from a relationship point of view - they can never be a blessing, they will only be a lesson and they will be that over and over again that's literally what they're encoded to do in this lifetime and when judgment day comes it is that wickedry that is first to be accounted for. If you can leave somebody that you've been with for five years you don't love yourself to begin with so she had no capacity for loving you
 

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yup….. sadly @tuckgod strikes again…..

Just like he smashed that other coli breh poster that’s been quiet since that got exposed :sas2:

And after he’s done with her…. He finna send her to @The God Poster and she finna be ran through in them Diddy Streets

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This reminds me I gotta reup on the non Diddy baby oil :wow:
 

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Someday you'll be with somebody that will help you realize how stupid you were for feeling this way in this moment when you had really just been blessed with extricating someone from the closest seat to the stage of your life's production ... Hell, you had them in the show

And for 5 years


And if somebody can walk out of a relationship after being with somebody that long on some "I needed to rationalize my own feelings on my own time and I couldn't communicate with my partner this whole time" they're literally worthless from a relationship point of view - they can never be a blessing, they will only be a lesson and they will be that over and over again that's literally what they're encoded to do in this lifetime and when judgment day comes it is that wickedry that is first to be accounted for. If you can leave somebody that you've been with for five years you don't love yourself to begin with so she had no capacity for loving you


Yup better now than married with two kids and now you can only see em on weekends
 

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That false sense of hope and rumination is a tough MF to overcome after a breakup. Literally feels like you’re going insane.

That pain is worse than physical pain.

Yup when my engagement ended I held out hope for so long. Even when I went on dates with new women I'd sabotage on some what if my ex came back.

Crazy thing is that same woman called me on my wedding day but I didn't pick uo
 

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Man the coli is the worst place to come for support :dead: breh should have just kept it to a diary

The truth hurts. The advice given here only paints a graphic picture of the reality of what could be.

We are not close family members who’s going to sugar coat shyt. We are anonymous people with REAL world experiences.
 

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The truth hurts. The advice given here only paints a graphic picture of the reality of what could be.

We are not close family members who’s going to sugar coat shyt. We are anonymous people with REAL world experiences.

yup people can't fathom but alot of us brehs are in our 30s and 40s we've been there. There are brehs here who have been through divorces, broken engagements.

Sad thing as well she'll paint you as trash to new brehs she's cavorting with.
 

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She's already doing jumping splits off the top turnbuckle onto a new nikka dikk

On to the next one, big dawg

Remember, the Y in "your girl" is silent

Yup women tree branch, just like a job not leaving till another one is set up. And the thing with women they plan this way in advance. It's not like just the day off or the week or month. They talk with their moms, sisters etc. so when them thangs dropped its done and over. That's why women rarely come back its never really a spur of the moment type ish

I've said this story before I was dating this chick for like a year plus she always had by her bedside a photo of us. One day I went to her spot and the photo wasn't there. I mentioned it and she said oh I was "cleaning" and just forgot to put it back. A week later got dumped
 
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