GMB: I paid for my wife’s degree and vacations. I suggested we save for a house, but she left me
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BlackMagnus514
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A lot of men aren't taught to be aware of this. It's fun to make fun of these men or be confused by them, but the truth is they don't get any guidance (especially white men nowadays lol)
Women are usually ALWAYS warned about the bad shyt guys can do in a relationship.
But men? Either some aren't given advice, or when they are, it can be construed as mysgonsitic (this is something that no one wants to talk about).
Dads can barely put their son on to game with being accused passing down toxic masculinity. Even most women can't gove advice to their son about some bad women without being accused of similar things.
It's a discussion we need to have sooner or later if we want to avoid this shyt from happening
Man, this should be engraved in every man’s skull. A lot of you know deep down you’re the not even the 3rd choice in the relationship.
You’re way down the pecking order but you’re staying because you believe you can’t do any better. She’s staying because she knows your dumbass will tolerate her bullshyt and pay her way for everything.
If a woman knows she can do better, she’ll wait and wait until the time is perfect to jump ship. They’re on a five year escape plan and y’all oblivious to it. You’re paying for her degrees, shopping sprees, nails just for her to be thirst trapping. Whilst you’re grateful just to get a blowjob on your birthday because you ‘earned it.’
nikkas will learn the hard way. My girl thinks I’m tight. Nah, I’m frugal. If I’m treating her I better be equally treated. You ain’t no princess, you’re working your way to becoming the queen. The queen doesn’t carry herself like a harlot expecting to be spoilt.
Nah bytch. How am I benefitting from building YOU up? If you’re out there you better be bringing home the bacon as well. Equal rights, right?
this.
Random bump but this is huge
Never get in a relationship where you have WAY more to lose when it ends then she does
I'm not gonna generalize because there are good Women out there, but too many women really cap a lot and act like they are all virtuous and don't benefit from the apparent patriarchal structures that are supposed to hold them back, sometimes. They downplay or deny what other women do all the time.
It's too easy for women to profit or gain from a marriage, even if the guy isn't rich. Choose wisely.
Sort of story that ends up on the Id channel or first 48
- Confucius
The fuccked up thing is a lot of these women know it’s not right. But when the older women who raised them fill their heads up with stuff like:
“the world is run by men. It’s ok to use them. They’ll have no problem recuperating what they spent on u.”
On a frequent basis, it erases the guilt.
I met some chick once who said her grand mother told her the first time she marries should be for money, not love.
imagine the poor clown who wifes a chick with that kind of upbringing.
SleezyBigSlim
Banned
Must've been a cac. Black men don't have this problem we know how to pick a woman 2hos goingvto add to our wealth not the other way around.
Chinese.
If a person has aspirations of getting said degrees and couldnt do it before me or as i worked on mine in this day and age, that person isnt even worthy of getting it. Lmfao
And this is why I will never build up a woman over myself. It’s why I only seriously deal with women who can handle their own shyt, doesn’t need me, respects me more than she loves me, and wants to build something together.
you used a ton of cliches in your post lol. Just say you want a functioning adult
Ya Sinning Mane
Superstar
a fool and his money(and wife) will part ways