Using the word doesn't reflect very well on those weather its I'm private amongst ourselves or around mom black people. We are creative enough to find another endearing word that we can use besides the word nikka?
I don't need a pat on the back from nobody when it comes to my views on how to collect to remove black people forward in a society that is pretty much against us.
Knowing yourself and who you are ties into the way you perceive yourself. The word nikka is a term for loser, lazy ,no good bums with backwards priorities. Is that what you want to be called or perceived as?
No call me an African instead of a nikka because I'm much more than
that.
First of all I don't know any group that accepts being called a racial slur. Vast majority of blacks say it when around their people on some togetherness vibe not like some disrespectful stuff. Many before have said it and ill add to the list man "if your scared say your scarred" . Also non blacks saying that to you lets me know what type of dude you are they even feel comfortable talking that disingenuous garbage to you honestly. You also sound like you want to be patted on the head by these cats but you won't be the first nor last to be in that line but it will do you no good in the long run. Its bigger than a word and the word isn't in the main things that need to be fixed first so that's why you and your co signers are lost on this IMO.
@Peter Vecsey
Of course they will ask me because they're from the outside looking in and they know for a fact they would not tolerate anybody calling them a racial slur as a term of endearment but if they do happen to ask I'll just explain to them that its the black people disconnected from their African roots that like to use that word.