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You don't need to be a mind reader. You just need to have common sense, and experience with women. If you ain't making no money, odds are your significant other will be resentful and your home life will not be pleasant. I mean come on son, you really think she said that and then was all lovey dovey afterward.
No..ur putting pieces of the puzzle together without the info being given...im married myself...I know how tough it can be...that girl stuck with him BEFORE he started working at Best Buy...AFTER he got bored with Best Buy and decided he wanted to go away and risk his life in the Army..she stood by him thru all that..just for him to leave the Army..and decide to come back and do something he couldve done without leaving her by herself to go to the Army all that time..any person would question it..but from what he has shared about her..it doesnt seem like she shytted on him the whole time..just questioned him..he clearly said..it was THAT MOMENT he fell out of love with her...he said right at that moment she asked that question..is when he basicallu checked out of the marriage...
 

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Come on bro..u think u can think about it a lil more before u go thru with it..thats if the comment is the only reason...if its just her in general that u dont love anymore than its best u do what u have to do...but fam..why dont u weigh the shyt out...how much has she been there for u and been supportive of u vs how many times she hasnt..
 

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Come on bro..u think u can think about it a lil more before u go thru with it..thats if the comment is the only reason...if its just her in general that u dont love anymore than its best u do what u have to do...but fam..why dont u weigh the shyt out...how much has she been there for u and been supportive of u vs how many times she hasnt..
Man he can't walk this back.

He made his choice. She is back on the menu now :manny:
 

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Man he can't walk this back.

He made his choice. She is back on the menu now :manny:


There's nothing to "walk" back. We are over and done with. My head and heart are clear. I wish her all the best. Me and her talked the other day and she said she was ready to sign the paperwork and get this done as quick and bloodless as possible. She said that just as I no longer loved her that she no longer loved me, so we are in agreeance on this. She actually thanked me and said that she would use this experience as a lesson to be more supportive and appreciative of her whoever she's with in the future. At the end of the day we wish each other no ill will. I have my life ahead of me to live as I see fit and so does she.



Honestly it feels good to know that I never allowed myself to take disrespect or allow another person to feel they have a right to put me in my "place" (still can't respect a MAN for actually saying that :scust:)


Life Is Good
 

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There's nothing to "walk" back. We are over and done with. My head and heart are clear. I wish her all the best. Me and her talked the other day and she said she was ready to sign the paperwork and get this done as quick and bloodless as possible. She said that just as I no longer loved her that she no longer loved me, so we are in agreeance on this. She actually thanked me and said that she would use this experience as a lesson to be more supportive and appreciative of her whoever she's with in the future. At the end of the day we wish each other no ill will. I have my life ahead of me to live as I see fit and so does she.



Honestly it feels good to know that I never allowed myself to take disrespect or allow another person to feel they have a right to put me in my "place" (still can't respect a MAN for actually saying that :scust:)


Life Is Good
Good for you.
 

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What's so good about it is that it's what I want to do. I can't explain to you how much I enjoy the business, it would be the equivalent of whatever you have a passion about and are exceptionally good at. I enjoy the work, I enjoy technology, I enjoy helping customers. Assistant Store managers start at about 60K and General managers can get upwards of 102K.

I'm a Geek Squad Manager. Which is actually hourly. It's the only hourly manager position within the store. I make $20.17 Hourly not including overtime and monthly bonuses (those bonuses :banderas:)

So I went from $11.40 in December. Worked my ass off to two promotions and the third promotion was to Manager. I did that in 6 months AFTER the company with through a restructure (which took away positions)

I couldn't really relate to you how much work I put into it. How I worked open-close every single day for a three week stretch, legs so tired they felt like I was walking on Jello. How I got up at 5am every day to take the marta and be on time and let her take the car. Rain, snow, hail, whatever I made its mission to be right there at the store even before the opening manager was. I was the last one out of the door. The one who led all employees in sales after two weeks. I couldn't really relate that level of commitment and grind to you because in your ignorant mind this is a position that equates to McDonald's. You could never understand nor walk in my shoes....



But SHE knew. Because she saw me do it all before. Before we were married and I Was doing the exact same thing to be successful. She witnessed it first hand. She KNEW here was no way in HELL I'd ever allow myself to be "35 and making 12.50". Because no matter WHAT I do or where I start, I will ALWAYS end up successful.

She spit in my face when she made that comment. She took everything she'd ever seen me work myself to the BONE for and shyt on it. That it is NOT the woman that deserves my last name nor my forever. That is a woman who deserves exactly what she got.


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You live in Atlanta? :feedme: them gems about best buy jobs? I'm in college and my wallet is looking :flabbynsick:.
 

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There's nothing to "walk" back. We are over and done with. My head and heart are clear. I wish her all the best. Me and her talked the other day and she said she was ready to sign the paperwork and get this done as quick and bloodless as possible. She said that just as I no longer loved her that she no longer loved me, so we are in agreeance on this. She actually thanked me and said that she would use this experience as a lesson to be more supportive and appreciative of her whoever she's with in the future. At the end of the day we wish each other no ill will. I have my life ahead of me to live as I see fit and so does she.



Honestly it feels good to know that I never allowed myself to take disrespect or allow another person to feel they have a right to put me in my "place" (still can't respect a MAN for actually saying that :scust:)


Life Is Good
Real shyt fam I wish u the best.. but just know that yall have alot of history and its gonna be extremely hard to go into ur 30s tryna find someone else u trust the way im sure u trusted her..yall literally grew up together...seeing as ur a no nonsense kind of guy...its gonna he a rough road ahead broski...
 

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Disrespectful for a woman to talk to a man like that, not every man csn make 6 figures. I'm older than 35 and I got to bight to start a new career I don't try to date usually cuz most sisters would probabsly shyt on me so I don't put myself out there like that, if I did meet someone cool who said that to me I'd leave too, that's very disrespectful. I live in Miami I see lots of poor men, Miami has a very cheap job market most these jobs don't pay much. If she told me that they she sees M as a failure and I'd be reluctant to stay with her.

Lots of guys freelance and often times don't make much in the beginning, what if he had a good job and lost it? She'd probabsly leave.

It's the principal often times than not, if you feel that way about a man don't marry him.
If you aren't earning at least 50K a year by age 30, :ufdup:
 

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Marriage is tough brehs. If a woman telling you something that might be a little harsh and you might be a tad bit sensitive, don't even waste your time. Depending on the state you live in or if you have kids or if the 401k sitting pretty you could be in a world of hurt brehs. Don't get married if you think you're doing the right thing.
 

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12 years, army life, and 3 career changes? Nah she aint loyal. You're right to divorce her. Next time marry a bobble head mute with cum for brains. Congrats on having an hourly position at a retail store breh. You made it. You'll be corporate in no time!

Geek Squad manager isn't hourly you retard.
 
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