Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[CHILLL]

yup, which is why im officially getting married next year

...after almost a decade of shacking up thou

..but my girl stayed down with me during my worst moments in life & never pressured( well ,at least 90% of the time) to marry her..

bruh how different was the moving in part?
everybody talkin about it but nobody saying

 

[spliz]

bruh how different was the moving in part?
everybody talkin about it but nobody saying

Its different because u see a side of a person u never saw before..u see them completely candid..their cleaning habits..hygiene habits..etc etc..u may be a neat freak..she may be a lil careless..and vice versa..u both have ur own way of doing things..and u also get to see if being around the person 24/7 isnt annoying..lol..this is why I always believe u should live together before u get married..thats the true relationship test..

 

[keon]

bruh how different was the moving in part?
everybody talkin about it but nobody saying

idk if it's a major difference, but i think you just really get to know a person better when you see them in a more up close & personal, day-to-day basis..

The beginning of the relationship( before you live togetther) is when both of you are putting on the best show for each other, basically.

 

[CHILLL]

idk if it's a major difference, but i think you just really get to know a person better when you see them in a more up close & personal, day-to-day basis..

The beginning of the relationship( before you live togetther) is when both of you are putting on the best show for each other, basically.

so now she takin dumps with the door open and you seeing that she doesnt shower as often n shyt?

 

[keon]

so now she takin dumps with the door open and you seeing that she doesnt shower as often n shyt?

Lol, my girl showers everyday breh..but her shyttin while im in there brushing my teeth?...it does occur sometimes

 

[spliz]

so now she takin dumps with the door open and you seeing that she doesnt shower as often n shyt?

I consider that shyt disrespectful..I would never let my wife get away with that type of shyt.lol

 

[CHILLL]

Lol, my girl showers everyday breh..but her shyttin while im in there brushing my teeth?...it does occur sometimes

doesnt it turn you off ? i mean everybody gotta take a dump but
i mean bytch im still in the room, you probably dont even wanna eat the ass anymore

 

[Lavish]

Lol, my girl showers everyday breh..but her shyttin while im in there brushing my teeth?...it does occur sometimes

that will never occur in my household.. Peeing is one thing.. But dropping a deuce?

 

[Juliano Soprano]

This is the realist shyt posted in this entire thread. I'm not a hater of women or apart of the HOH movement. I Iove women and I loved my wife. But I have more love and self respect for MYSELF than I will any other human being (besides my future children) and that's exactly how it should be. You NEVER allow another human being to disrespect you so utterly and then reap any type of benefit once you find success. It would a deservice to me as a MAN, an individual, and a person to stay in a union where my partner thought so little of me and my aspirations. All of you "men" in this thread for disrespectful and unsupportive women, with every excuse imaginable are ridiculous. Now it's ok for me to be "put in my place" Get the ENTIRE fukk outta here with that emasculated mindset. I NEVER went into any conversation with her with the mindset putting her in "place". And ANY woman with that disrespectful mentality is going to find her place swiftly in the BUSHES


Again like I said. All of us are simply posters on a message board. Agree with the decision or not, we will never meet face to face or influence each other's lives. All the ignorant, disrespectful, clowning posts are simple the opinions of others...

But a WIFE to have the mindset of a Coli poster? That her husband within seven years will be an unsuccessful loser who wallows in mediocrity? Will NEVER be accepted, brushed off or forgiven. fukk that. I'd rather be alone than with that caliber of woman

No matter what you say. Fact of the matter is, you vowed to be with this woman through thick and thin, better or worst, up and downs...then you turn around and divorce her for ONE statement. Sshyt is wild that you got soooo much out of that one statement as well, she's disrespectful and unsupportive because of that one statement, or was there more actions and statements that made you come to this conclusion? She's not your girlfriend, that was your wife.

It don't matter how many paragraphs you write, if you broke up with her for that one statement, you was gonna break up with her whether she said that shyt or not, you need to come to grips with that breh beh

 

[Data-Hawk]

If your children began to question your career will you give them up for adoption?

Or what if his son wants to buy a TV from Target? Will he disown him?

 

[The ADD]

Or what if his son wants to buy a TV from Target? Will he disown him?

 

[BooBoo]

Brother...you're a fukking moron. You seem like the type of "man" to tally and keep track of what you do for your woman and other people. Do you keep a spreadsheet of everything you've done for her over the years? You don't deserve any special accolades for doing what a man is supposed to do for the person that he is building with. It's called building for a reason nikka.

I put my wife through school when I was 22 years old and didn't have a pot to piss in because she's who I wanted to build a life with. When you love someone and value them shyt like that just comes with the territory. I didn't get a cookie or a pat on the back for doing that and neither should you. I didn't hold none of that shyt over her head and neither should you. That little sacrifice that I made pales in comparison to how much it has paid off over the years we've been together. Lots of men and women make sacrifices for the person that they are looking to spend their life with. You ain't special and you don't deserve any recognition or props for it.

In the summer of 2011 I started a business. In the Spring of 2012 I told my wife I was going to quit my $85,000 a year job with benefits to work on my business full time. Her response to me was similar to your wife's response to you. Not because she didn't believe in me but because I was making a risky move that could threaten our security. I went ahead and quit my job anyways inspite of her reservations and by the summer of 2012 she quit her job to work with me full time on our business.

The issue is that you've invested so much time and energy into working a retail job which is very volatile, insecure, and risky. You don't own shyt. You're at the mercy of external forces you have zero control over. You're lucky your wife only made that comment instead of going upside your head with a frying pan for being a jackass.That would have been a more appropriate response.

In a few weeks once you realize how much of an idiot you've been and the reality of your bytchassness begins to creep in you're going to wish you could hop in a time machine. The problem now is that you've demonstrated to your wife and her family, friends, etc that you're a petty, egotistical, weak, and emotionally fragile man. You've shown her and them that you're disloyal. Hopefully your wife has a support network in place that will keep her from returning to you when you inevitability try to slither your way back into her life.

To summarize, bytch nikka man up.

and if the OP did all of this over that comment ...imagine what he woulda done if she disrespected Olu Dara's first born son yalll!!!!


On a side note I heard the lady in this pic is officially single now....

 

[BooBoo]

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[MikelArteta]

Its different because u see a side of a person u never saw before..u see them completely candid..their cleaning habits..hygiene habits..etc etc..u may be a neat freak..she may be a lil careless..and vice versa..u both have ur own way of doing things..and u also get to see if being around the person 24/7 isnt annoying..lol..this is why I always believe u should live together before u get married..thats the true relationship test..

people who live together before marriage end up divorcing more than people who don't

strange i know