If your children began to question your career will you give them up for adoption?This is the realist shyt posted in this entire thread. I'm not a hater of women or apart of the HOH movement. I Iove women and I loved my wife. But I have more love and self respect for MYSELF than I will any other human being (besides my future children) and that's exactly how it should be. You NEVER allow another human being to disrespect you so utterly and then reap any type of benefit once you find success. It would a deservice to me as a MAN, an individual, and a person to stay in a union where my partner thought so little of me and my aspirations. All of you "men" in this threadfor disrespectful and unsupportive women, with every excuse imaginable are ridiculous. Now it's ok for me to be "put in my place"
Get the ENTIRE fukk outta here with that emasculated mindset. I NEVER went into any conversation with her with the mindset putting her in "place". And ANY woman with that disrespectful mentality is going to find her place swiftly in the BUSHES
Again like I said. All of us are simply posters on a message board. Agree with the decision or not, we will never meet face to face or influence each other's lives. All the ignorant, disrespectful, clowning posts are simple the opinions of others...
But a WIFE to have the mindset of a Coli poster?That her husband within seven years will be an unsuccessful loser who wallows in mediocrity? Will NEVER be accepted, brushed off or forgiven. fukk that. I'd rather be alone than with that caliber of woman
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This is the realist shyt posted in this entire thread. I'm not a hater of women or apart of the HOH movement. I Iove women and I loved my wife. But I have more love and self respect for MYSELF than I will any other human being (besides my future children) and that's exactly how it should be. You NEVER allow another human being to disrespect you so utterly and then reap any type of benefit once you find success. It would a deservice to me as a MAN, an individual, and a person to stay in a union where my partner thought so little of me and my aspirations. All of you "men" in this thread
Again like I said. All of us are simply posters on a message board. Agree with the decision or not, we will never meet face to face or influence each other's lives. All the ignorant, disrespectful, clowning posts are simple the opinions of others...
But a WIFE to have the mindset of a Coli poster?
I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50".
That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...
So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you
A MAN actually posted that it was ok for a woman to go upside a man's head with a frying pan
A MAN actually posted that a woman is ok to blatantly disrespect her husband and put him in his "place"
A MAN actually posted that leaving an unsupportive wife who VERBALIZED to her husband that he wasn't going to amount to shyt was "weak minded"
Goddamn.... There are just no words....
A MAN actually posted that a woman is ok to blatantly disrespect her husband and put him in his "place"
A MAN actually posted that leaving an unsupportive wife who VERBALIZED to her husband that he wasn't going to amount to shyt was "weak minded"
Goddamn.... There are just no words....
But a WIFE to have the mindset of a Coli poster?
That's not what she said though. That's how you took it. Was there more to the situation- attitude, signs of resentment as @Malik said above?
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That's not what she said though. That's how you took it. Was there more to the situation- attitude, signs of resentment as @Malik said above?
Seems like you already checked out the marriage and was fishing for a way to leave. Get a divorce and grow up.
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I'm coming from the perspective of someone who is married for over two years now. Dude, it seems like you never had the love for this woman as much as you may claim to have had. My wife and I have had arguments, she will say some shyt, I'll check her, she'll realize that wasn't right, and she'll apologize, and move on.
There is no way I will vow before God, my minister, my family and friends, etc. that I will love and be with my wife for life only to throw the MARRIAGE away for a comment that I perceive to be disrespectful.
There is nothing anyone has said that will make you see otherwise, so it may be a moot point. My wife has questioned plenty of ideas I have had, sometimes she was right. At no point was it disrespectful for her to have the "audacity" to raise a question to me. I know you'd go on about your passion and dreams blah blah blah, she can still have a voice to something to affects not just you, but her as well.
You have yet to say that she was treating you fukked up ever since that one comment, so that has furthered everyone's question as to how this one comment could throw a marriage in the bushes.
And the whole "so you're gonna be making $12/hour at 35" comment seems so much like an exaggeration about where you are going with this career move rather than her literally thinking you're not gonna make one more cent for the next 7 years. For you to take that comment that literally means you WANTED to take the comment that way. Nobody literally makes the same amount for 7 years unless the job or industry is on a freeze. If she had literally said "you won't make manager ever there, you're just gonna be a cashier dude" then I understand your point. But that "12/hour" shyt doesn't sound like that.
If you fell out of love with her over one comment questioning a career move that ultimately affects her life as well as yours, then the love was never there. To say otherwise is just plain ignorant.
There is no way I will vow before God, my minister, my family and friends, etc. that I will love and be with my wife for life only to throw the MARRIAGE away for a comment that I perceive to be disrespectful.
There is nothing anyone has said that will make you see otherwise, so it may be a moot point. My wife has questioned plenty of ideas I have had, sometimes she was right. At no point was it disrespectful for her to have the "audacity" to raise a question to me. I know you'd go on about your passion and dreams blah blah blah, she can still have a voice to something to affects not just you, but her as well.
You have yet to say that she was treating you fukked up ever since that one comment, so that has furthered everyone's question as to how this one comment could throw a marriage in the bushes.
And the whole "so you're gonna be making $12/hour at 35" comment seems so much like an exaggeration about where you are going with this career move rather than her literally thinking you're not gonna make one more cent for the next 7 years. For you to take that comment that literally means you WANTED to take the comment that way. Nobody literally makes the same amount for 7 years unless the job or industry is on a freeze. If she had literally said "you won't make manager ever there, you're just gonna be a cashier dude" then I understand your point. But that "12/hour" shyt doesn't sound like that.
If you fell out of love with her over one comment questioning a career move that ultimately affects her life as well as yours, then the love was never there. To say otherwise is just plain ignorant.
i agree with this guy
i'd divorce my wife too for that and we have a son together too
women will be on your dikk when you're successful and want you to fully support them in thier endevors and will claim to remain on your side thru the pitfalls of life, but as soon as you hit that rough patch in your career, they'll stop throwing you p*ssy and will diss your manhood while plotting to find the next man instead of helping you regain your footing
it's just the nature of the beast
i'd divorce my wife too for that and we have a son together too
women will be on your dikk when you're successful and want you to fully support them in thier endevors and will claim to remain on your side thru the pitfalls of life, but as soon as you hit that rough patch in your career, they'll stop throwing you p*ssy and will diss your manhood while plotting to find the next man instead of helping you regain your footing
it's just the nature of the beast
you just devalued his entire reason for making this thread. On page 12.
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nikkas asked him a million times what happened between them in those 5 months and he refuses to elaborate on it..just speaks about the comment..nobody is a mindreader and can only go off of the information he gives..or lackthereof...the way he makes it seem is as if he plotted revenge on someone he knew since high school over a comment...which comes off harsh and kind of petty..I seriously doubt OP was coming home to love and affection everyday like ol breh here
I doubt he was getting support and encouragement from her BUT still decided to ditch her because she wounded his pride 180 days ago. Nah. That's stupid. And yall nikkas are stupid for thinking that. Everyday there was probably resentment and
yup, which is why im officially getting married next year
...after almost a decade of shacking up thou
..but my girl stayed down with me during my worst moments in life & never pressured( well ,at least 90% of the time) to marry her..