Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[MikelArteta]

You assumed I was talking salary when I meant the time he is at the job which isn't leaving much to build a relationship if that's what he wants.

The rest of the response isn't relevant to my point.

You can meet women anywhere, hell I've met women at the bus stop before.

 

[The ADD]

You can meet women anywhere, hell I've met women at the bus stop before.

Meet yes, foster a relationship..........

 

[Drew Wonder]

shaming tactics because you disgaree, nice try. I have no gimmick, I'm all for men for being men and standing up for themselves and not taking disrespect or any sort of abuse.

And I would never advocate a woman staying in a abusive relationship of any form, nice try breh

this is the shyt I'm talking about. you equate a woman questioning a man's decision to being "abusive"

you're not logical and the shyt you say on here whether you really mean it or not doesn't apply to the real world

 

[MikelArteta]

this is the shyt I'm talking about. you equate a woman questioning a man's decision to being "abusive"

you're not logical and the shyt you say on here whether you really mean it or not doesn't apply to the real world

Verbal abuse is the excessive use of language to undermine someone's dignity and security through insults or humiliation, in a sudden or repeated manner.

try again breh

 

[MikelArteta]

Meet yes, foster a relationship..........

anything is possible

 

[Drew Wonder]

Verbal abuse is the excessive use of language to undermine someone's dignity and security through insults or humiliation, in a sudden or repeated manner.

try again breh

if you wanna keep pretending like you would take the woman's side if the exact same situation happened but in reverse and not use it as another reason to go on one of your men's rights talking points, then fine, do you

but I aint buying it

and stop verbally abusing all the people here who disagree with the OP, before I call the cops on you

 

[MikelArteta]

if you wanna keep pretending like you would take the woman's side if the exact same situation happened but in reverse and not use it as another reason to go on one of your men's rights talking points, then fine, do you

but I aint buying it

and stop verbally abusing all the people here who disagree with the OP, before I call the cops on you

Please point me in the direction where I have ever advocated for a woman to stay in a relationship/marriage where any form of abuse takes place.

I'm waiting.........................

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

This thread has been with all the different feelings being expressed.

Yeah, nikkas are battling it out with their own demons in this thread.

 

[Drew Wonder]

Please point me in the direction where I have ever advocated for a woman to stay in a relationship/marriage where any form of abuse takes place.

I'm waiting.........................

if she called him some loser, bum ass nygga who's never gonna amount to anything then I could see your point...


but she asked him a damn question all the disrespect was purely how he interpreted the comment, not what she actually said. you know how many times I've said something to someone only to find out that they completely took it the wrong way? thank God they didn't call the cops on me for being "verbally abusive"
by your definition if a couple gets in one argument, that's ground for divorce

like i said, the shyt you say doesn't apply to the real world

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

it be some hoes in Best Buy too


my nikka finna eat
dumb ass broads bringing their laptops in to be fixed and leaving them overnight
this nikka bout to steal pics for days


and bag bytches





his wife gone cross the color lines after the divorce and marry an older white executive

 

[MikelArteta]

if she called him some loser, bum ass nygga who's never gonna amount to anything then I could see your point...


but she asked him a damn question all the disrespect was purely how he interpreted the comment, not what she actually said. you know how many times I've said something to someone only to find out that they completely took it the wrong way? thank God they didn't call the cops on me for being "verbally abusive"
by your definition if a couple gets in one argument, that's ground for divorce

like i said, the shyt you say doesn't apply to the real world

disrespect is disrespect, everyone has different levels. Some nikkaz will kill you for stepping on their shoes, others will be like its allright breh.

People will divorce for a array of reasons, many times people are already at at the edge and there is something that pushes them over the edge.

I remember a former friend I lent 100 bucks to and he told me he would pay me back, dude was unemployed so I never brought it up, anyways he got a job and I'm sitting there and I see dude buying a new tv and all that ish, and well that was it. Never spoke to him again, friendship over, I don't take disrespect. The repayment of the money was not the reason I ended the friendship it was the disrespect.

 

[Malik]

So we gonna act like OP is getting divorced off of one disrespectful sentence? We gonna act like she probably wasn't extremely sour and resentful towards him for 5 months, every morning he walked downstairs in that blue shirt. God yall nikkas are dumb. The dumbest CEOs and Vice Presidents I ever seen.

 

[HALLOWEEN]

So we gonna act like OP is getting divorced off of one disrespectful sentence? We gonna act like she probably wasn't extremely sour and resentful towards him for 5 months, every morning he walked downstairs in that blue shirt. God yall nikkas are dumb. The dumbest CEOs and Vice Presidents I ever seen.

 

[Ziggiy]

1. If you lived in the real world not everyone makes 100k, the average american household pulls in 52k a year. There will always be women.

2. A relationship should never "complete" you, when you start necessitating the craving for a relationship that is when you start becoming tolerant to all sort of gibberish in order to have the solidarity of a woman.

There is a reason most men who file divorce are so much happier after doing the act, gaining back your balls and living a life of peace.

This is the realist shyt posted in this entire thread. I'm not a hater of women or apart of the HOH movement. I Iove women and I loved my wife. But I have more love and self respect for MYSELF than I will any other human being (besides my future children) and that's exactly how it should be. You NEVER allow another human being to disrespect you so utterly and then reap any type of benefit once you find success. It would a deservice to me as a MAN, an individual, and a person to stay in a union where my partner thought so little of me and my aspirations. All of you "men" in this thread for disrespectful and unsupportive women, with every excuse imaginable are ridiculous. Now it's ok for me to be "put in my place" Get the ENTIRE fukk outta here with that emasculated mindset. I NEVER went into any conversation with her with the mindset putting her in "place". And ANY woman with that disrespectful mentality is going to find her place swiftly in the BUSHES


Again like I said. All of us are simply posters on a message board. Agree with the decision or not, we will never meet face to face or influence each other's lives. All the ignorant, disrespectful, clowning posts are simple the opinions of others...

But a WIFE to have the mindset of a Coli poster? That her husband within seven years will be an unsuccessful loser who wallows in mediocrity? Will NEVER be accepted, brushed off or forgiven. fukk that. I'd rather be alone than with that caliber of woman

 

[Malik]

I seriously doubt OP was coming home to love and affection everyday like ol breh here

I doubt he was getting support and encouragement from her BUT still decided to ditch her because she wounded his pride 180 days ago. Nah. That's stupid. And yall nikkas are stupid for thinking that. Everyday there was probably resentment and coming from her. Probably enough to fill that house. Until things probably started to look up.