Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[chkmeout]

Can we get a tally of the bytch made men in this thread???

to op

They've know each other for a decade plus... He's has supported her through that time.... He wants to take a new road which he is familiar with and grow from there... His chic comes with that dumb entitled bytch non sense so many of you 3 dollar hoes encompass...

Ain't shyt to workout....

For you young nikkas out there, watch every word n action of the bytch you dumping in and keeping around...

This ain't 1960...

 

[muse]

I have no opinion on the whole marriage/divorce thing, because I don't believe in getting married before 30 anyway (im just here to read the opinions of others), but I will say homie was working pretty hard during the iphone launch. Seemed like he was an asset to his employees/ co workers from what I saw.

-DMP-

Did op ever address why he left best buy to join the army to join best buy again? Im really curious to read what he has to say about that

 

[Chief]

Thought you were gonna get praised huh


I'm really proud of the coli being real when necessary

 

[NormanConnors]

Regardless, all I can say is don't have some type of conniption and turn back/renege on your decision now. You'll never hear the end of it handing over that much power/get out of jail free cards ( in regards to your chick). Stay strong with your choice (whether right or wrong).

 

[Numpsay]

That's where our opinions differ.

I will NOT stay with a woman who had such little faith in me. Especially a WIFE.

Breh she didn't disrespect you, show little faith, belittle you, are anything of the sort. She posed a question in the heat of you telling her what your plan was. The majority of people would have had the same reaction as she had. Most women likely would have straight out walked out on you. But she stuck around, and you haven't stated that she constantly doubted you throughout the process. She made ONE statement and you allowed it to over shadow everything else in regards to a relationship between the two.

And the fact that you stuck around, and held on to that statement, until you got on, just so you can say "I told you so" and to hit the bushes shows how weak you are.

 

[CHILLL]

That's where our opinions differ.

I will NOT stay with a woman who had such little faith in me. Especially a WIFE.

bro snap out of it big bruh


you at the finish line
us yunger brehs are out here looking for wifey amongst these attention whores baby mommas thots etc
you guys are at the end of the finish line and she at the end (meaning your career and her school)
you know how many people are divorcing over infidelity ? lies ? paternity tests, betrayal etc
you gonna throw away a good relationship over a comment?
you really gonna throw away a relationship with a loyal woman to go on stupid dates with bytches u dont know?
aye girl lemme get your number, ay girl lemme take you out?
all that shyt at 28?
My nikka aint shyt out here bruh theres good women here and there but alot of selfish hoes
Snap out of it man

 

[Arianne Martell]

Breh she didn't disrespect you, show little faith, belittle you, are anything of the sort. She posed a question in the heat of you telling her what your plan was. The majority of people would have had the same reaction as she had. Most women likely would have straight out walked out on you. But she stuck around, and you haven't stated that she constantly doubted you throughout the process. She made ONE statement and you allowed it to over shadow everything else in regards to a relationship between the two.

And the fact that you stuck around, and held on to that statement, until you got on, just so you can say "I told you so" and to hit the bushes shows how weak you are.

Exactly, to me it sounds that she didn't agree with his decision but she is going to stick around to yet another career move

he is too stubborn...he is not going to get it until he is the old man at the club with a beer belly and a receding hairline

People that really love you and care about you are going to tell you when your shyt stinks...even if its going to hurt your feelings.

I would've been worried if she didn't have any objections to his decisions...because that would clearly show that she is only there for the ride.."a maintained wife"...and wouldn't give a fukk what he does with his life.

I can guarantee you that there was a plan between them about his long-term career in the Army and she held on to that...only to be blindsided by his BB venture.

 

[KlinicalCynic]

Did op ever address why he left best buy to join the army to join best buy again? Im really curious to read what he has to say about that

We need OP to elaborate on this. The answer to this may shed light on why your wife had reservations about your career move in the first place, sensitive ass nikka

@Ziggiy

 

[chkmeout]

One career your whole life... Making life changing decisions for you're betterment... Starting from the bottom...

Woman you ain't with that...

Have a seat in them bushes over there...

 

[Xtraz2]

I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50".

That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...

So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you

please tell me this dude is trolling

 

[Drew Wonder]

I can relate to the OP a little bit, because I'm notorious for breaking up or cutting off girls for reasons that in hindsight, were pretty petty, stupid and deserved at least a conversation rather than a But reflecting on it, I realize I did that because I wasn't really feeling them that much to begin with but because I'm a "nice" guy, I didn't want to break up with them until they fukked up in some way so that I'd feel less guilty and more justified about it. Just like OP, when I told people why I broke up, they would give me the " that's really not that big of a deal nygga, you must've just not really been feeling them that much to begin with." In the back of my mind I knew they were right, but I'm a prideful and stubborn muthafukka so I would go on the same rant and give the same soliloquy about how "disrespectful" her petty offense was and add on a whole bunch of shyt regarding what I thought her "disrespectful" action implied rather than take her action at face value. so I completely understand the OP's thought process right now

but I can almost guarantee that just like me, once OP tries to go back into the field and sees first hand just how much of a joke and simpleminded a lot of these single women out here are, he's gonna have a "wtf was I thinking cutting her off because of that stupid shyt" moment. And I'd imagine it's gonna be even worse for him since he was actually married to the chick.

 

[Drew Wonder]

But let this be a lesson to you Coli dudes who treat the "Relationship gems" thread like it's the word of God. Yeah, a lot of that shyt sounds good in theory. but when you actually apply it to a real life situation you realize just how ridiculous and simplistic a lot of that advice is

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Best Buy must have that good good.

 

[mcdivit85]

This is one of the most interesting threads to come across The Coli in awhile. People are really in their feelings about this one.

Dudes catching feelings over a chick they don't even know

Chicks catching the holy ghost hoping their dude doesn't hit them with the blindside action

And others continuing the #HOH movement because sometimes a chick needs to be clowned.....just because

I f#ck with the homie @Ziggiy even if I don't think I would've necessarily done the exact same thing in the situation. Men, we value respect at a very high level. Especially from our lady. So, when a chick crosses that line that she knows she shouldn't cross, then sometimes it can go from 0 to 100 faster than Lambo on a downhill track with Vaseline tires.

From what I'm reading, it seems some dudes here are alittle soft-handed in their households. Allowing all types of neck rolling, lip smacking and finger waving all in the name of "love" and "marriage" and "being a man." Well, I can understand letting the small things be small, but some things you may consider small are large to others. And vice versa.

What I would be curious to know is, if the situation were reversed and a woman filed for divorce from her husband for doing the same thing, would the sentiment be the same? Especially, would the women clown the chick as hard as dudes are clowning bro in this thread. For some reason, I doubt it.

As a man who doesn't give any leeway on respect, I can see where the playa is coming from. Hell, I look like taking care of a chick for years, throughout all her ups and downs, all her pipe dreams of being this then that, all her broke a## not having enough to take care of her own car, only to have this chick talk sh#t to me.....EATING MY FOOD IN MY HOUSE WITH THE SWAG THAT I GAVE HER? Aint that a b#tch?

Now, like I said, homie went from 0 to 100 and put them papers on her. He could've just mentally tortured her for a few months or kicked her out for alittle while. But he did what he did. And again, as a man who gives not an inch on my respect, I can understand that even if I don't agree with the application.

And lastly, n#ggas need to stop clowning the Best Buy thing. Dude aint working to sell TVs....he's working to run stores. That's six figures. And where I come from, money is money. Not to mention, is it better to make $100K at Best Buy or have a PhD in French History making $12/hr serving lattes?

But this is The Coli.....every dude here makes $100K fresh out of college

Peace

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Last week looked my wife in the eye and told her I was done. I wasn't in love with her anymore and to keep forcing a marriage that I no longer wanted to be in would be doing nothing but further poisoning an already damaged union. No more counseling, no more endless talks about why I won't forgive her for not supporting me at the most crucial of crossroads, no more bullshyt.

First steps towards freedom brehs


#TPC

not reading 34 pages to find the answer....

what happened that she didnt support you breh?