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Come to think about it. How was her statement emasculating? I would understand if she's humiliating you in front of others, or talking shii questioning your manhood but that's not the case. I know there's lots of money working in retail but there's no job security. I was making good money working at VZW but I ended up losing my job in a blink of an eye. There's a difference between a job and a career and best buy is more of a job than a career IMHO.
 
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So if a woman disrespects you by blowing another dude, it's okay to divorce her.

But not if she disrespects your life/career decisions after you've supported her financially/emotionally for nearly a decade? yeah,ok.

Now if this dude stayed with the chick- who clearly don't respect him enough to respect his decision and not mouth off in the way she did- started fukking around on him, y'all would start yellin about how "she ain't respect you homey".

This dude saw the signs early and got out.

Dudes really suggesting to stay with disrespectful women until they do shyt that can cripple your life and mental well being, just because other people are doing it too.

Hah!
 
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Ziggiy said:
Last week looked my wife in the eye and told her I was done. I wasn't in love with her anymore and to keep forcing a marriage that I no longer wanted to be in would be doing nothing but further poisoning an already damaged union. No more counseling, no more endless talks about why I won't forgive her for not supporting me at the most crucial of crossroads, no more bullshyt.

First steps towards freedom brehs:blessed:


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Damn bro... i can't even tell my girl i want to break up with her...


But you had the ultra mega power boost strength to face her directly. Your WIFE!!


Major guts, broham.



I love you, dog.



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Family Man said:
Brother...you're a fukking moron. You seem like the type of "man" to tally and keep track of what you do for your woman and other people. Do you keep a spreadsheet of everything you've done for her over the years? You don't deserve any special accolades for doing what a man is supposed to do for the person that he is building with. It's called building for a reason nikka.

I put my wife through school when I was 22 years old and didn't have a pot to piss in because she's who I wanted to build a life with. When you love someone and value them shyt like that just comes with the territory. I didn't get a cookie or a pat on the back for doing that and neither should you. I didn't hold none of that shyt over her head and neither should you. That little sacrifice that I made pales in comparison to how much it has paid off over the years we've been together. Lots of men and women make sacrifices for the person that they are looking to spend their life with. You ain't special and you don't deserve any recognition or props for it.

In the summer of 2011 I started a business. In the Spring of 2012 I told my wife I was going to quit my $85,000 a year job with benefits to work on my business full time. Her response to me was similar to your wife's response to you. Not because she didn't believe in me but because I was making a risky move that could threaten our security. I went ahead and quit my job anyways inspite of her reservations and by the summer of 2012 she quit her job to work with me full time on our business.

The issue is that you've invested so much time and energy into working a retail job which is very volatile, insecure, and risky. You don't own shyt. You're at the mercy of external forces you have zero control over. You're lucky your wife only made that comment instead of going upside your head with a frying pan for being a jackass.That would have been a more appropriate response.

In a few weeks once you realize how much of an idiot you've been and the reality of your bytchassness begins to creep in you're going to wish you could hop in a time machine. The problem now is that you've demonstrated to your wife and her family, friends, etc that you're a petty, egotistical, weak, and emotionally fragile man. You've shown her and them that you're disloyal. Hopefully your wife has a support network in place that will keep her from returning to you when you inevitability try to slither your way back into her life.

To summarize, bytch nikka man up.
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Damn... Somebody remind me to never disrespect Family Man.. Lol
 
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Gene E. Yuss said:
So if a woman disrespects you by blowing another dude, it's okay to divorce her.

But not if she disrespects your life/career decisions after you've supported her financially/emotionally for nearly a decade? yeah,ok.

Now if this dude stayed with the chick- who clearly don't respect him enough to respect his decision and not mouth off in the way she did- started fukking around on him, y'all would start yellin about how "she ain't respect you homey".

This dude saw the signs early and got out.

Dudes really suggesting to stay with disrespectful women until they do shyt that can cripple your life and mental well being, just because other people are doing it too.

Hah!
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questioning or not agreeing with someones decision is not "disrespecting" someones decision. if your homeboy or loved one told you about a plan he was making that sounded a little:what: to you, would you lie and tell them you thought they were making the right choice or would you tell them how you really felt? no one is perfect, everyone can make a wrong, boneheaded move every now and then even if they have a great track record, so it's only natural for someone to question a decision, especially if you're married to someone and that decision directly impacts you.

maybe she could've been a little nicer on some, "baby, don't you think you're taking an unnecessary risk here" but the intent was the same, even if the delivery was a little harsher. unless ya'll wanna marry a slave who agrees with everything you say, I don't see how ol' girl was out of line or why it was grounds for divorce.

shyt, I could've even seen the OP's point if he actually had a conversation with her about how hurt he felt by his girl questioning him and gave her a chance to explain her side of the story and she still shyt on him. or if she broke up with him once he told her his plan and then came crawling back when she found out it actually worked, then yeah, that's grounds for divorce. but she said her piece and still stayed with him despite the fact that she didn't agree with what he was doing.

the whole passive aggressive, scheming, let me wait til I prove her wrong then I'll drop her for good shyt he was on wasn't cool imo. it's the equivalent of you saying something offensive to your girl and her not checking you on it and making you think shyt is sweet, then 6 months down the line she's like "remember when you said _______," and then drops you out of nowhere.

as for that "signs of a cheater shyt," if a woman wants to cheat, she'll cheat, whether she shows you warning signs or not. that's the risk anyone takes when they get in a relationship
 
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Breh, extend some mercy. You are out looking for justice because you feel wronged. The next time she tries to apologize, call her out, open your heart, and tell her everything you feel to the point of complete vulnerability, if she downplays it or belittles you, then you will have a good idea of where to go from there. I know you really don't want to divorce her.
 
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Been married since I was 24. (28 now). I or my wife would have been filing for divorce the day we got married if simple shyt like that came between us. I hole heartedly disagree with the op. All you weak minded trolls probably never had a successful relationship in your lives. If your wife is wrong for putting in your place. Don't get married brehs
 
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Family Man said:
Brother...you're a fukking moron. You seem like the type of "man" to tally and keep track of what you do for your woman and other people. Do you keep a spreadsheet of everything you've done for her over the years? You don't deserve any special accolades for doing what a man is supposed to do for the person that he is building with. It's called building for a reason nikka.

I put my wife through school when I was 22 years old and didn't have a pot to piss in because she's who I wanted to build a life with. When you love someone and value them shyt like that just comes with the territory. I didn't get a cookie or a pat on the back for doing that and neither should you. I didn't hold none of that shyt over her head and neither should you. That little sacrifice that I made pales in comparison to how much it has paid off over the years we've been together. Lots of men and women make sacrifices for the person that they are looking to spend their life with. You ain't special and you don't deserve any recognition or props for it.

In the summer of 2011 I started a business. In the Spring of 2012 I told my wife I was going to quit my $85,000 a year job with benefits to work on my business full time. Her response to me was similar to your wife's response to you. Not because she didn't believe in me but because I was making a risky move that could threaten our security. I went ahead and quit my job anyways inspite of her reservations and by the summer of 2012 she quit her job to work with me full time on our business.

The issue is that you've invested so much time and energy into working a retail job which is very volatile, insecure, and risky. You don't own shyt. You're at the mercy of external forces you have zero control over. You're lucky your wife only made that comment instead of going upside your head with a frying pan for being a jackass.That would have been a more appropriate response.

In a few weeks once you realize how much of an idiot you've been and the reality of your bytchassness begins to creep in you're going to wish you could hop in a time machine. The problem now is that you've demonstrated to your wife and her family, friends, etc that you're a petty, egotistical, weak, and emotionally fragile man. You've shown her and them that you're disloyal. Hopefully your wife has a support network in place that will keep her from returning to you when you inevitability try to slither your way back into her life.

To summarize, bytch nikka man up.
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:damn: This that ether, that shyt that burn slow
 
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