Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[Scott Larock]

You're divorcing your wife just because of that You didn't take any vows seriously. What are you a child that when someone says something you don't like you wont play with them anymore?

Seriously


That's some ole break up with my girl type of shyt not divorce someone over. You've been married for 2 yrs. breh.

You're the reason why the divorce rate is so high.



You stopped loving her that quick



Damn she loss by marrying you

Disrespectful for a woman to talk to a man like that, not every man csn make 6 figures. I'm older than 35 and I got to bight to start a new career I don't try to date usually cuz most sisters would probabsly shyt on me so I don't put myself out there like that, if I did meet someone cool who said that to me I'd leave too, that's very disrespectful. I live in Miami I see lots of poor men, Miami has a very cheap job market most these jobs don't pay much. If she told me that they she sees M as a failure and I'd be reluctant to stay with her.

Lots of guys freelance and often times don't make much in the beginning, what if he had a good job and lost it? She'd probabsly leave.

It's the principal often times than not, if you feel that way about a man don't marry him.

 

[dennis roadman]

The fact of the matter is that I spent two years supporting her while she decided if she wanted to go to Law School, be a paralegal, work at Nordstroms, work at Verizon, or whatever else. I supported her. Even when I was making the majority of the income and she was studying for the LSAT. I never questioned her. Came back from Afghanistan with almost 8K in savings (of which she contributed not ONE penny) and having decided to leave the Army now was my time to decide how I was going to transition back into civilian life.

The truth is I worked for Best Buy before, loved it. I love retail, I love helping customers, I love technology. All of those romantic gifts and surprises and trips she loved so much years beforehand. Best buy checks paid for that. I was making more than $12.50 before all of this, supporting myself, paying all of my bills, etc. BEFOREHAND as an unmarried man. She knew all of this. So for her to at ANY point question my commitment to being successful in wanting to return as a grown ass MARRIED man was the absolute pinnacle of disrespect. I don't give a fukk what your misgivings are, you do not look your husband, the husband who has supported you emotionally and financially since even before we were married, in eye and suggest sarcastically that he will enter middle age as a failure.


It will not be tolerated.


Call me whatever you like Brehs or think what you are entitled to think. But my personal code of living is that to be married to somebody who has that little faith in you after your entire life has been spent proving to the contrary is simply unacceptable.

 

[Rawtid]

Last time I checked, you had to have some sort of qualification or experience to be a manager

Let me find out getting fired from a management position wipes out half your savings, bans your from your own home, and only allows you to see your kids on the weekends

What im saying is that marriage SHOULD have benefits...financial ones especially. If you get a divorce and you leave out with less than what you came in with, you did something horribly wrong.

You won't get all those same benefits in just a typical relationship.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Disrespectful for a woman to talk to a man like that, not every man csn make 6 figures. I'm older than 35 and I got to bight to start a new career I don't try to date usually cuz most sisters would probabsly shyt on me so I don't put myself out there like that, if I did meet someone cool who said that to me I'd leave too, that's very disrespectful. I live in Miami I see lots of poor men, Miami has a very cheap job market most these jobs don't pay much. If she told me that they she sees M as a failure and I'd be reluctant to stay with her.

Lots of guys freelance and often times don't make much in the beginning, what if he had a good job and lost it? She'd probabsly leave.

It's the principal often times than not, if you feel that way about a man don't marry him.

Fall out of love cause she disrespected you once brehs
Divorce your wife because she didn't want you working in a electronic store brehs
Take vows in front of your wife, family, friends, and God brehs but can't make it past 2 yrs breh.
Divorce your wife over a reason that you would break up with your girlfriend brehs.
Treat your wife like a disposable jump off brehs.

 

[The Don]

Last week looked my wife in the eye and told her I was done. I wasn't in love with her anymore and to keep forcing a marriage that I no longer wanted to be in would be doing nothing but further poisoning an already damaged union. No more counseling, no more endless talks about why I won't forgive her for not supporting me at the most crucial of crossroads, no more bullshyt.

First steps towards freedom brehs


#TPC

Why are you bragging about getting a divorce? Its like coming home smiling and telling your parents you got an F on your report card. Maybe you should separate before you jump straight to divorce and you know deep down inside you're like ....don't know if its been talked about already cuz I didn't go thru the thread but what didn't you forgiver her for?

 

[L&HH]

quote me next time soft ass nikka.

I asked the question because I really dont know whats so good about becoming a manger at best buy...if he's making 70k then I totally understand.

http://www.glassdoor.com/Salary/Best-Buy-Assistant-Manager-Salaries-E97_D_KO9,26.htm
http://www.glassdoor.com/Salary/Best-Buy-Sales-Manager-Salaries-E97_D_KO9,22.htm
http://www.glassdoor.com/Salary/Best-Buy-General-Manager-Salaries-E97_D_KO9,24.htm

 

[Scott Larock]

Fall out of love cause she disrespected you once brehs
Divorce your wife because she didn't want you working in a electronic store brehs
Take vows in front of your wife, family, friends, and God brehs but can't make it past 2 yrs breh.
Divorce your wife over a reason that you would break up with your girlfriend brehs.
Treat your wife like a disposable jump off brehs.

So if a nikka fall on hard times home girl should leave brehs? Yall think marriage starts at MIT? Not everyone is built like that.

Yall don't see vows , yall see money.

She should have known dudes drive before she married him, truth is she had 8 years ton figure out his Pushkin life, she didn't think it bothered her till he wanted to work in a department store. Then she came out with the negative.

I blame her, she knew him.

 

[beenz]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Sorry you were one of the people inspiring me to get married

MAN.

ALLLLLLLLL of the married brehs are dropping like flies @61 Corpses

only @beaniemac and @Buckeye Fever left.

@Rekkapryde still holdin it down as well

 

[KinksandCoils]

So if a nikka fall on hard times home girl should leave brehs? Yall think marriage starts at MIT? Not everyone is built like that.

Yall don't see vows , yall see money.

She should have known dudes drive before she married him, truth is she had 8 years ton figure out his Pushkin life, she didn't think it bothered her till he wanted to work in a department store. Then she came out with the negative.

I blame her, she knew him.

From what I read she didn't say she was leaving him. And not all women are the same so shut the fukk up with the women are all about money approach.

 

[Theraflu]

This thread is actually hilarious. I'm sure all my brehs @Geoffrey_Chaucer who have been in the game for long will be able to relate to when a chick you're with gives you that raw untained real ether that even grown men would be shook to give you and even though it hurts like shyt, she's just being honest. You . fukk her and all is forgotten the next day.

That best buy comment is nothing compared to some shyt I've heard in married homes and the couples have forgotten it all within a few hours that's what relationships are about. When you marry someone they become your family and in families we say some shyt to each other, get heated, come back to it, explain why it pissed us off, apologize and move on.

This is real life breh. Moving forward @Ziggiy especially now that you are moving into your 30's unless you go and find some cambodian mail bride you won't find any woman with anything to offer willing to marry someone she can't offer an opinion on. So be prepared for this to happen again but just make sure next time it's a woman you love enough to accept her opinion.

 

[beenz]

Yall got married before living together?

if this is true, that was a major problem.

 

[aXiom]

What im saying is that marriage SHOULD have benefits...finanancial ones especially. If you get a divorce and you leave out with less than what you came in with, you did something horribly wrong.

You won't get all those same benefits in just a typical relationship.

This happens every day. Maybe you did something horribly wrong, or maybe, just maybe the system is fukked up? It's not like mofos got a crystal ball where they can tell before hand that they won't live happily ever after.

 

[OG Talk]

If your ultimate goal in life is to always be happy, or comfortable, then you should definitely not get married..

Marriage is for people with less loftier goals..


In fact if your goal in life is to always be happy then you might as well swallow a whole bottle of sleeping pills right now..



If you find yourself in a state of constant misery that's one thing.. That's not good for your mental or physical health...But temporary pain or discomfort is a part of life and all real relationships...It actually builds character and teaches life lessons..

But if you really don't love someone from the jump then none of that stuff matters.. They could forget to put the cap back on the orange juice and you'll see that as a breaking point or ultimate sign of disrespect.. Trust me I've been there..

If Ziggy is describing the end of his union as "freedom" there seems to be more to this situation than just her complaining about his career choice..

 

[Theraflu]

@Rekkapryde still holdin it down as well

I'm joining the married squad in December and I'm ready

 

[Rawtid]

This happens every day. Maybe you did something horribly wrong, or maybe, just maybe the system is fukked up? It's not like mofos got a crystal ball where they can tell before hand that they won't live happily ever after.

They did something horribly wrong.