George Will: Single Moms ‘Biggest Impediment’ to Black Progress

[Ashley Banks]

So only hood nikkas have kids oow/abandon their children.

 

[Strapped]

these moms are raising a bunch criminals

 

[Street Knowledge]

This discussion always seems to be come to 2 basic questions...

1.)Do black women suck at picking good mates who are suitable to being fathers?

OR

2.) Are there just not enough suitable mates to go around and the women can only pick from what is there?

 

[bl2k8]

So only hood nikkas have kids oow/abandon their children.

They are the majority you know this.

 

[CBSkyline]

Thanks

 

[Brofato]

Thank you, thank you But allow me to break it down even further for those unaware of how you do prevent pregnancy:

Don't have sex without a condom
Don't have sex
Have an abortion.

I know. I know. Shocking how easy it is, isn't it?

So shocking. Let me break it down for you because for some reason you seem to think that having children out of wedlock is the only way women become single mothers.

You see a woman out in the world somewhere with her 3 kids and you overhear her saying that she has to go get governmental assistance for something. You automatically assume that she had 3 kids by 3 dudes and is now living off of the government. Not knowing that this same woman might have lost her husband to whom she was faithfully married and now she has to pick up and start all over again.

It's that type of default thinking that ends up fukking us up. I'm not saying every woman even has to have some sort of sob story but the fact that they're looked down upon just for being a single mom, minority women especially, is just stupid.

And here's another thing that people seem to have trouble with, minorities have relationships too. I know, it's crazy but it happens. Those relationships, be they long-term, short-term or marriage sometimes sour and sometimes there are kids that come out of the equation along with the bitterness and everything else that comes with a failed relationship.

Oh and let's get into the sexual health issue since you spoke on prevention. Comprehensive sexual health classes are pretty much a myth in schools. And the parents don't know shyt cause they learned from trial and error.

 

[Blackgate]

..the 'gap between white wealth and black wealth' existed when 76% of black babies were born to a married couple...

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

This again, eh . No cape, but where are the fathers?!?!!

Clowns out here telling and living out and then fail to take care of their seeds when it's time. You don't have to marry or even be in a relationship with a chick in order for you to man up and be a father. I'd rather have single mothers holding it down than to have kids with no one there in their lives except their grand parents and the streets

Y'all nikkas are misguided outchea downing single mothers (emphasis on "mothers") and then have the audacity to condone bytchass boys not acknowledging their responsibilities

 

[Malik]

why should he offer solutions? After 400 years you are still looking for the white man to

problems in the black community have to be fixed by the black community

But the white man is our father though

 

[Jone2three45]

This discussion always seems to be come to 2 basic questions...

1.)Do black women suck at picking good mates who are suitable to being fathers?

OR

2.) Are there just not enough suitable mates to go around and the women can only pick from what is there?

Realest post in the thread.

 

[Data-Hawk]

Drugs Inc - Chicago........on National geographic

http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/channel/drugs-inc/episodes/windy-city-high/

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

The way women talk about this issue you would think nikkas in hoods everywhere are telling these women they own phantoms,got 100k in the bank and is studying to become a medical doctor.They know damn well if a nikka came up to a female talkin that crazy shyt he'll get hit with eye rolls every damn day.These females know that these nikkas are out here hustlin,sellin pills and other shyt and that don't phase these young ho's.They see his dreads,tat's and his ride sittin on 22's and they wanna fukk with him because of his image.I ain't never seen a everyday hood nikka talk himself INTO some p*ssy,women know if they gonna fukk with the dude before he says a damn word.All we gotta do is not fukk it up.This "gamed up with lies" myth gotta end.

You're right.Females become victims of their own superficiality.

They don't care about whether he's a "good dude" or not, they go by image and entertainment value.

It's like they accessorize their man.He fits into a certain image she has in her head, but it's all on the surface.If he fits her physical appearance criteria/ concept (clothes, hairstyle, or even certain brands), has a entertaining personality, and can slang a mean dikk, she'll look the other way when it comes to his shortcomings.

He could be out slanging dope and robbing nikkaz, but she'll still stay attached.

I'm not saying it's wrong for females to have a certain type, I know they don't wanna be couped up with no lame cat.

I'm just saying when you base your mate selection strictly on style and appearance, and you don't investigate or inspect his inner qualities, that makes you shallow.

You'll just place yourself in a endless loop of vain conquest and become one yourself.

The hard part is self inspection.If you don't do that, you'll keep pointing the finger at outside sources when the problem is coming from within you.

Some never do that.They get hurt, turn to salt, and try to find revenge by playing the game.

They start vibing to Beyonce hood rat anthems, a quarter of the way to becoming a dyke.

 

[Malik]

Black woman procreates with black male. Dude isn't financially stable enough to support a kid. Can't deal with the responsibility and the likelihood that he'll be working at Wal-Mart. He leaves. Black woman becomes a single mother.


White woman procreates with white male. A good percentage of those white boys can go to their fathers and get an entry-level job at the firm or to their uncles who work downtown in construction. Starts making a good salary. White woman becomes a wife.





Everything goes back to socioeconomic issues. Are black men abandoning their families because there's something inherently wrong with us or because black men have a harder time finding gainful employment? Our grandfathers weren't abandoning our grandmothers back in the 60s and 70s. They all had jobs at the local factory out of high school and could hold down a family/buy a house by the time they were 21

 

[MikelArteta]

theres not a single mom problem in the black community

just black women picking horrible men to procreate with problem in the black community.

if you happen to sleep around make sure drevation is wearing a condom and take the morning after pill


your welcome

i gurantee you go to jail or prison in america and the majority of black males 18-25 have at least 1 or 2 kids

 

[ThatTruth777]

Of course they call upon negatives to try and cast shade on us and distract from legitimate points but never what caused it and could fix the problem but its obvious to anybody with a brain that nuclear families are great for a community. Nonetheless, I hate when other people know matters within it. It wreaks of nosy fukks seeking to throw dirt at us to make themselves feel better. This man could give fukk about the community and it annoys that there are so many statistics known about us like as if we're fukking test subjects.