George Will: Single Moms ‘Biggest Impediment’ to Black Progress

[Marvel]

The solution is something that people don't want to hear. Keep your jimmy in your pants for the men and keep your legs closed for the woman and save sex for that person you will be wedded to and when you enter into the commitment of marriage, STAY committed. It's not rocket science, but we want to do everything BUT the simple and necessary step... which is why things become 'so complex', because we are doing the million things that DON'T work instead of the simple solution... but the problem is the simple solution is so hard because it's fun to want to be out there 'doing you.' We can play the blame game all day long, but BOTH men and women have to conduct themselves towards a higher standard.

I think that is what responsible people are doing already but most people in our community are not responsible...so my solution is to cut off the air supply that is keeping this bullshyt single motherhood culture which is now viewed a badge of honor alive and that is by eliminating or revamping the welfare system that caters to single mothers that manipulate the system. Once they don't have a system to leach on they will change their behavior QUICKLY.

Not true

Explain yourself or

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

If you don't want her having the choice over something you GAVE her, why give it to her? Where is YOUR personal RESPONSIBILTY? You voluntarily ejaculated in that female.

nikkas really think sperm is a charm bracelet or some jewelry.

 

[King Poetic]

I totally agree to a point

Now if a single black woman has 1 kid and she doing whatever it takes to better herself and her childs life and she raising her kid to be responsible good which i say some are doing.

However single moms with 2 or more kids and especially if the kids are by different daddies then she is totally to blame regardless.. i can understand the first mistake cause some sweet dikk willy jones ran game on u, but the second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth, nineth, etc, etc kid come out then u are a worthless piece of shyt trying to rape the system for the mistake u made. which i say ton of them are doing.

i don't give me this white folks doing it to shyt either. white folks are going to college also i don't hear nikkas saying that. look in the fukking mirror

to eliminate this problem the government need to start eliminating or decrease a heavy amount of welfare funds to these women, so these women can start forcing these nikkas to marry they black ass before having children

secondly, these older black men and women need to get off they ass and stop trying to live out there second childhood and start raising these young fukks to be better citizens and stop gassin these fukks up with that ghetto talk about the white man this or white man that.. that shyt isn't going to change..

go out here learn the white man game and switch it up on him.

 

[Marvel]

nikkas really think sperm is charm bracelet or some jewelry.

 

[DonRe]

its probably been mentioned but a two parent household regardless of race, gender, and financial stability, is vital to the child or children when the parents are Responsible and Caring people.

now if you look at it through racial lens, yes it is a big and important issue in the black community but its only a slice of the pie

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

Women and men look at sex differently.Men will try to fukk basically everything that moves while women are more selective.Both carry responsibility when it comes to creating a child but here is the difference......................Women have to carry that child for nine months.That child is apart of her body.

A young, wild, hustlin ass nikka that knocks up a chick mistakenly,will look at a child,say it isn't his and run out of her and that kids life.It's not right but it happens.How many teen girls you know would look at a baby she gave birth to and then decide to give it away?Not many.This is why it's on the woman to use discretion in deciding who enters her body and who does not.This whole thing of there are no gatekeepers in sex is flat out ridiculous. She decides who enters in her body and who does not.She will ultimately decide if she will terminate the pregnancy or not.This isn't a 50/50 proposition women need to realize that fact and deal with it.


If you know Tez ain't shyt but a pill selling ass nikka,don't let him inside you.Point Blank.If Tez gets you pregnant but then says he doesn't want the kid,listen to him and terminate.That baby ain't gon' bring y'all closer but mention abortion to a black woman and she'll throw #3hunna bibles at your head.....but that's a different thread.

 

[Brofato]

I think that is what responsible people are doing already but most people in our community are not responsible...so my solution is to cut off the air supply that is keeping this bullshyt single motherhood culture which is now viewed a badge of honor alive and that is by eliminating or revamping the welfare system that caters to single mothers that manipulate the system. Once they don't have a system to leach on they will change their behavior QUICKLY.

I would love for welfare reform in favor of the people who need it and currently use it. What you're spewing is pretty much the same 'welfare queen' rhetoric that you hear on the news all the time. What happens to the people who legitimately use the system or the ones who couldn't use it legitimately for an arbitrary reason set in place?

Someone who has ever dealt with the government would know that some things are set in place for a lot of people to jump through quite a few hoops and then just not end up with what they need.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

I would love for welfare reform in favor of the people who need it and currently use it. What you're spewing is pretty much the same 'welfare queen' rhetoric that you hear on the news all the time. What happens to the people who legitimately use the system or the ones who couldn't use it legitimately for an arbitrary reason set in place?

Someone who has ever dealt with the government would know that some things are set in place for a lot of people to jump through quite a few hoops and then just not end up with what they need.

@ King Poetic, he's right bruh, you brought it, but ultimately its a lot more people that just plain need it, than those trying to cheat the system.

 

[Danny Up]

Women and men look at sex differently.Men will try to fukk basically everything that moves while women are more selective.Both carry responsibility when it comes to creating a child but here is the difference......................Women have to carry that child for nine months.That child is apart of her body.

A young, wild, hustlin ass nikka that knocks up a chick mistakenly,will look at a child,say it isn't his and run out of her and that kids life.It's not right but it happens.How many teen girls you know would look at a baby she gave birth to and then decide to give it away?Not many.This is why it's on the woman to use discretion in deciding who enters her body and who does not.This whole thing of there are no gatekeepers in sex is flat out ridiculous. She decides who enters in her body and who does not.She will ultimately decide if she will terminate the pregnancy or not.This isn't a 50/50 proposition women need to realize that fact and deal with it.

Why are you pretending nikkas don't misrepresent their intentions?

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

Women and men look at sex differently.Men will try to fukk basically everything that moves while women are more selective.Both carry responsibility when it comes to creating a child but here is the difference......................Women have to carry that child for nine months.That child is apart of her body.

A young, wild, hustlin ass nikka that knocks up a chick mistakenly,will look at a child,say it isn't his and run out of her and that kids life.It's not right but it happens.How many teen girls you know would look at a baby she gave birth to and then decide to give it away?Not many.This is why it's on the woman to use discretion in deciding who enters her body and who does not.This whole thing of there are no gatekeepers in sex is flat out ridiculous. She decides who enters in her body and who does not.She will ultimately decide if she will terminate the pregnancy or not.This isn't a 50/50 proposition women need to realize that fact and deal with it.


If you know Tez ain't shyt but a pill selling ass nikka,don't let him inside you.Point Blank.If Tez gets you pregnant but then says he doesn't want the kid,listen to him and terminate.That baby ain't gon' bring y'all closer but mention abortion to a black woman and she'll throw #3hunna bibles at your head.....but that's a different thread.

It's not. And I ain't trying to come across like the bad guy that blames women. There is blame on both sides. BUT its nowhere near equal.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

Why are you pretending nikkas don't misrepresent their intentions?

Why you pretending like women don't know nikkas ain't shyt and fukk anyway. Ain't a nikka out chea, buying flowers, massaging yo feet, taking you to meet the family, talking to your ass 11 hours a day, picking you up from work, letting you get the big piece of chicken......JUST TO fukk YOU

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Women and men look at sex differently.Men will try to fukk basically everything that moves while women are more selective.Both carry responsibility when it comes to creating a child but here is the difference......................Women have to carry that child for nine months.That child is apart of her body.

A young, wild, hustlin ass nikka that knocks up a chick mistakenly,will look at a child,say it isn't his and run out of her and that kids life.It's not right but it happens.How many teen girls you know would look at a baby she gave birth to and then decide to give it away?Not many.This is why it's on the woman to use discretion in deciding who enters her body and who does not.This whole thing of there are no gatekeepers in sex is flat out ridiculous. She decides who enters in her body and who does not.She will ultimately decide if she will terminate the pregnancy or not.This isn't a 50/50 proposition women need to realize that fact and deal with it.


If you know Tez ain't shyt but a pill selling ass nikka,don't let him inside you.Point Blank.If Tez gets you pregnant but then says he doesn't want the kid,listen to him and terminate.That baby ain't gon' bring y'all closer but mention abortion to a black woman and she'll throw #3hunna bibles at your head.....but that's a different thread.

Re-posted for emphasis

I don't know why nikkas wanna keep pretending that men and women have it equally in terms of ability to get sex. Admitting women have the most discretion doesn't equate to saying the situation is 100% their responsibility

 

[PartyHeart]

Women and men look at sex differently.Men will try to fukk basically everything that moves while women are more selective.Both carry responsibility when it comes to creating a child but here is the difference......................Women have to carry that child for nine months.That child is apart of her body.

A young, wild, hustlin ass nikka that knocks up a chick mistakenly,will look at a child,say it isn't his and run out of her and that kids life.It's not right but it happens.How many teen girls you know would look at a baby she gave birth to and then decide to give it away?Not many.This is why it's on the woman to use discretion in deciding who enters her body and who does not.This whole thing of there are no gatekeepers in sex is flat out ridiculous. She decides who enters in her body and who does not.She will ultimately decide if she will terminate the pregnancy or not.This isn't a 50/50 proposition women need to realize that fact and deal with it.


If you know Tez ain't shyt but a pill selling ass nikka,don't let him inside you.Point Blank.If Tez gets you pregnant but then says he doesn't want the kid,listen to him and terminate.That baby ain't gon' bring y'all closer but mention abortion to a black woman and she'll throw #3hunna bibles at your head.....but that's a different thread.

No. This doesn't fly. You can't make this into a male and female thing (all of which you claimed to be biological is social conditioning btw, but thats another topic) because this happens disproportionately in the Black community. Actually, the Black American community. So no, its not a male problem, its a Black male problem. So can you re-write your post to explain that discrepancy?

The solution is something that people don't want to hear. Keep your jimmy in your pants for the men and keep your legs closed for the woman and save sex for that person you will be wedded to and when you enter into the commitment of marriage, STAY committed. It's not rocket science, but we want to do everything BUT the simple and necessary step... which is why things become 'so complex', because we are doing the million things that DON'T work instead of the simple solution... but the problem is the simple solution is so hard because it's fun to want to be out there 'doing you.' We can play the blame game all day long, but BOTH men and women have to conduct themselves towards a higher standard.

Of all the numerous male posters that have already posted in this thread already only one has come out to say this. Therein lies the problem.

You would not need to pull this many teeth in other communities to get men to say and believe this. And you know what, their statistics reflect that reality and our statistics reflects the beliefs of our men. It is what it is. When even the men in the community who claim they would never abandon their kids believe that the responsibility of children is all on the woman, the community is truly doomed. I'm praying for my people though.

 

[Danny Up]

Why you pretending like women don't know nikkas ain't shyt and fukk anyway. Ain't a nikka out chea, buying flowers, massaging yo feet, taking you to meet the family, talking to your ass 11 hours a day, picking you up from work, letting you get the big piece of chicken......JUST TO fukk YOU

You obviously don't read.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

Of all the numerous male posters that have already posted in this thread already only one has come out to say this. Therein lies the problem.

You would not need to pull this many teeth in other communities to get men to say and believe this. And you know what, their statistics reflect that reality and our statistics reflects the beliefs of our men. It is what it is. When even the men in the community who claim they would never abandon their kids believe that the responsibility of children is all on the woman, the community is truly doomed. I'm praying for my people though.

That's just mean that nikka don't know what the fukk he's talking about. No offense bruh. ACTUALLY You are right. my bad. only glanced over it.