Gentlemen, compliment women: you have more power than you realise: UPDATED

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Firstly you wouldn't eat a random sandwich pulled out of a bag, you'd look at that woman like :scust: why was it in your bag. Which then brings us to the most important part, you can't make a sandwich as you go, need bread and stuff. If that is what makes a man feel special then his SO should be doing that whenever she is around bread:manny:


I disagree...

But would you give a random man a compliment? Why or why not?

Not random. Am I really that terrible at explaining myself? :sadcam:

The equivalent would be going out of your way to gas up regular guys who aren't used to it and yes I do that. There is a thin line though, don't want to come across like you're hitting on them, don't want them to take it as a go because unless your intention was to get them on a date (not the point of this thread! :sadcam:) you are going to have to reject which is counter-productive.

So to answer your question, I am nice, I smile, I ask about them and pay attention, wish them a lovely day and if there is an opportunity to compliment without the above risk I take it and give the compliment.
 

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I wouldn't say to over-compliment to the point that the words you're handing out are no longer genuine. But the graceful art of communication requires tools of flattery, with simple complimenting being one of them. Don't just walk up to attractive girls and comment on her facial features or body figure. Converse first, feel her out a bit, see what about her really interests you. Not even in a romantic sense, just what you generally find interesting in her as a person.

For example, I have a friend and we've talked for a bit, and after a while I said something to the effect of "you know, I like talking to you, you're really knowledgeable about this, this, and this. I enjoy seeing your perspective." Nothing ground-breaking, just saying what's on my mind.

Too many dudes get caught up in trying to get one over on women that they end up pushing away the good ones in the world. Be chill, don't forget they're people too. Compliment them if they do something you like, we could all use one every once in a while. Goes to the brehettes as well. People can be so afraid to just be people.
 

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When a girl doesn't look like she's expecting it.

When she's not wearing much make-up if at all and when she's not stuck up. It is her God given right to be complimented by you.


It is good for you, as you are a man who holds the power to make that woman's day and she will bestow upon you genuine, heartfelt goodwill positivity that will make you successful in life


So compliment these girls :blessed:


Especially your mahogany sistren.

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UPDATE:

Since a lot of guys are misunderstanding this for advice on picking up women and "gasing up womens heads further". This is not about that. It's complimenting without hitting on and complimenting those whose heads are at risk of looking like a deflated balloon i.e. she could really use that compliment.

Don't agree with everything he's said but something like this
this is 150% true... i usually throw them in besides joking insults... so they pull out the best part and it makes it seem genuine rather than me dropping a line



like "whatever girl, you might have that gorgeous smile but you still a fukking a$$hole"


all they hear is the compliment.. but it looks like i didn't even mean to give it


my other one is targeting their worst feature... a woman who hates her nose, i make a point to say how much i love her nose... women love that shyt cause it shows you love their flaws.. like you said, wait till they don't have makeup and then say how beautiful they look that day
 

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women should start popping up on deck with a sandwich out of nowhere just to make a man feel appreciated, because that really makes her powerful

sometimes a man just gets hungry you know what I mean?

yeah you dont see women making threads about what they can do to make some random man feel good. OP needs to get the fukk out of here with this simp ass bullshyt.

If that power doesn't help me become a super saiyan then I dont want it.

exactly.

what do i get out of complimenting some random? Ill save my breath.

Women dont want your compliments! thats harassment!! they arent here for your pleasure!

Street Harassment is a serious thing fellas.

good point. gotta respect their rights lol
 

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this is 150% true... i usually throw them in besides joking insults... so they pull out the best part and it makes it seem genuine rather than me dropping a line



like "whatever girl, you might have that gorgeous smile but you still a fukking a$$hole"


all they hear is the compliment.. but it looks like i didn't even mean to give it


my other one is targeting their worst feature... a woman who hates her nose, i make a point to say how much i love her nose... women love that shyt cause it shows you love their flaws.. like you said, wait till they don't have makeup and then say how beautiful they look that day

All a woman needs to do for some compliments is log onto her facebook, tinder or million other social networking sites and she'll have 10,000 dudes in there talking about 'hey beautiful'.

compliment buddy comes along thinking he's about to really build with her, talking about 'you're so gorgeous.' She'll be like 'thanks friend'

I'll give a woman a compliment if she actually deserved it or earned it, but just to hand them out for her existing? Nah, she already got enough dudes doing that.
 

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All a woman needs to do for some compliments is log onto her facebook, tinder or million other social networking sites and she'll have 10,000 dudes in there talking about 'hey beautiful'.

compliment buddy comes along thinking he's about to really build with her, talking about 'you're so gorgeous.' She'll be like 'thanks friend'

I'll give a woman a compliment if she actually deserved it or earned it, but just to hand them out for her existing? Nah, she already got enough dudes doing that.
my rate of getting p*ssy would disagree with you

that's the myth of social network... 99% of the broads flaunting for likes, are insecure as fukk... that's why they fishing for compliments in the first place, poking out they ass, so someone can make them feel better.... but them nikkas don't even get replies back to their messages, nor see her in person


you gotta do this shyt IN PERSON... preferably with a woman who don't know you. i mean i'll sit here and wait for a woman to tell us she hates being complimented. like chris rock said... women need food, water and compliments lol... and an occasional pair of shoes... in that order


you'll never lose points, or be called a simp, for walking up to a lady and saying "hey you look beautiful in that dress today" and walking away from her. she usually won't let you walk away after that... but what do i know :sas2:
 

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my rate of getting p*ssy would disagree with you

that's the myth of social network... 99% of the broads flaunting for likes, are insecure as fukk... that's why they fishing for compliments in the first place, poking out they ass, so someone can make them feel better.... but them nikkas don't even get replies back to their messages, nor see her in person


you gotta do this shyt IN PERSON... preferably with a woman who don't know you. i mean i'll sit here and wait for a woman to tell us she hates being complimented. like chris rock said... women need food, water and compliments lol... and an occasional pair of shoes... in that order


you'll never lose points, or be called a simp, for walking up to a lady and saying "hey you look beautiful in that dress today" and walking away from her. she usually won't let you walk away after that... but what do i know :sas2:
 

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my rate of getting p*ssy would disagree with you

that's the myth of social network... 99% of the broads flaunting for likes, are insecure as fukk... that's why they fishing for compliments in the first place, poking out they ass, so someone can make them feel better.... but them nikkas don't even get replies back to their messages, nor see her in person


you gotta do this shyt IN PERSON... preferably with a woman who don't know you. i mean i'll sit here and wait for a woman to tell us she hates being complimented. like chris rock said... women need food, water and compliments lol... and an occasional pair of shoes... in that order


you'll never lose points, or be called a simp, for walking up to a lady and saying "hey you look beautiful in that dress today" and walking away from her. she usually won't let you walk away after that... but what do i know :sas2:

If a woman finds you attractive and likes you, a compliment or two won't hurt anything, but she would have dealt with you regardless of you giving her that compliment. In general, women already get tons of compliments for just existing.

I'll give a woman praise for doing something phenomenal like being loyal to her man or knowing how to be cordial and in knowing how to show up when she says she will. In other words, she'll get one for actually deserving one. That's why so many of these women don't bring anything to the table besides sex. They're getting praised to the clouds and they don't even have to have any decent traits.
 

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I always compliment women. Especially women of color.

i learned my lesson complimenting men, so i only compliment my man and family members.
 

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If a woman finds you attractive and likes you, a compliment or two won't hurt anything, but she would have dealt with you regardless of you giving her that compliment. In general, women already get tons of compliments for just existing.

I'll give a woman praise for doing something phenomenal like being loyal to her man or knowing how to be cordial and in knowing how to show up when she says she will. In other words, she'll get one for actually deserving one. That's why so many of these women don't bring anything to the table besides sex. They're getting praised to the clouds and they don't even have to have any decent traits.
you see some of these hoodrats in the richmond va area... being beautiful and not ratchet IS a damn great accomplishment... but seriously i know what you mean. if you want to be real about it, they shouldn't be given away so freely

but i'm not looking for something serious.. i wouldn't play these games with a real woman i planned on having a relationship with... this is strictly for those i see like "damn i wanna hit that" but don't want to come with the typical "hey hey boo... damn you looking thick in them shorts" and i play it like a half way gentlemen, halfway i don't give two fukks about you

leaves them confused.. but with women's selective hearing, they only remember being told they are "beautiful" not thick, not fine, not sexy, not cute.... "exquisite" and those type of bullshyt ass words that women swoon for in books and movies


The black man y'all everything is about vagina
Vagina over everything even dignity and self respect


nah for me it's


1. my son
2. my family
3. my money
my friends
my food
my home
my bills paid




4. fun aka travel, party, sports, bytches, etc etc




that's literally the last thing i care about.. only after i've taking care of my responsibilities, will i think to myself "damn i need some p*ssy today"
 
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